I’ve struggled with addiction and she had enough. Since then she has been on a path to just tear me down to nothing but none of ky family of friend see it and all take her side.

Since I’m an addict every issue in our marriage and lives is of course my fault.

Anyways it’s over. Black and white. Pretty clear she said for 2 months after kicking me out and watching my spiral into the depths of my addiction.

I voluntarily signed myself into rehab when I knew there was only one end to it.

First day that’s she removed herself as my emergency contact and our herself on do not contact.

When leaving I emailed her just to touch base on our twins visitation. Very accommodating asking if it worked with hrs schedule still and I would be fine with continuing supervised visits regardless of their being no legal requirement.

No repsonse but 4 hrs later she deletes all my visitations days out of our family icalendar.

I left it for a week after getting out. Follow up with another strictly schedule based inquiry and crickets.

I sent her info for a mediator today via email and asked her to please just give her a call.

My lawyers says courts in Canada are so back up it could be a long time to get an appearance if she doesn’t cooperate with mediation.

My parents and friends couldn’t give less of a fuck she is withholding my kids. My just alone in an apartment fter 15 years together being refused my kids while she tells everyone in an unsafe parent.

That’s is been zero times I’ve used in front. If then. There is no criminal charges and no evidence to the countrary.

Bud one you say something like that to people they just believe it because it too ducks up for someone to just make up.

Crying about how terrible her life is sitting in my house that I’m laying for with my kids and a full time nanny and a part time cleaner.

Yeah your life is terrible. Everyone just has pity for her like she just living the victim card. I lied about my addiction. I didn’t divorce you kick you out of your house and withhold your kids.

But I’m still the bad guy in everyone’s eyes. Because I’m an addict and she’s pretty and queen of gaslighting.

My divorce is going to fold my family business my parents he’s for 20 years. My dad ducking served me my separation papers with my wife to support her like wtf he’s in such denial she’s about to fuck our entire family.

Like career wife kids all done and I’m completely alone. I can’t even wrap my head around what’s happening and how to proceed from here.