We got this

Key-Equal-2429 · 2023-12-10T01:44:40+00:00

I guess so but it is 2:40 AM, I am scrolling through Reddit and she is sleeping peacefully next to the guy who destroyed my 10 yrs of marriage. But yes, I know one day I’ll move on and focus on myself

Secret-Pipe-8233 · 2023-12-10T08:38:57+00:00

Do find a therapist.

Do go to gym.

Do double down on the love of your kids.

Do have a new adventure.

Don’t drink more than 3-4 times a week.

Don’t jump straight into OLD but don’t be scared of it either.

Don’t ignore your freedom to do whatever you want at times, to play your music as loud as you want or to just read a book in peace.

Go well. 🙏🏻

Beneficial-Star-6598 · 2023-12-10T15:13:16+00:00

Here’s the deal - I never wake up angry in the morning anymore the way the I used to. I’m reaching a level of happiness within myself that was unattainable within my 13 year marriage.

At the end, all I felt was rejection. And now I’m building from the ground up with a deep understanding of myself. Through it all, I’ve been able to return to playful myself.

Eventually, I had to understand that if I could’ve fixed our marriage. I would’ve fixed it within the 13 years I was in it. In the end, I simply stayed too long.

do the recommended list in that order from the other commentor.

Try - internal family systems counseling. It can make a big difference.

93tabitha93 · 2023-12-15T00:23:03+00:00

I may take you up on it. Cause I feel terribly stuck and paralyzed.

Ncfc48 · 2023-12-10T22:22:45+00:00

Great posts guys 💯

Title	We got this
Author	HawksNation91
Upvotes	20
Comments	7
Date	December 10, 2023 1:16 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/18es4dr/we_got_this/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/Divorce_Men/we-got-this.1240385 https://theredarchive.com/post/1240385

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Try - internal family systems counseling. It can make a big difference.