Ghosting my ex-oneitis

FuckboyAWALT · 2018-02-15T20:24:19+00:00

That’s why you don’t shit where you eat. School is fine however not same classes.

Furthermore block your ex instantly once you two finished, saves you a lot of potential drama and pain.

Hit the gym hard, however it will take some time to recover if you were exclusive for months.

VengefullyY0urs · 2018-02-15T21:32:13+00:00

I have changed my views over the past year and am of the belief that you should not block exes unless you’re tagged in wedding pictures of your marriage and you do not want it to hurt your future endeavors.

I have learned the opposite of love is indifference, and the best revenge is living a great life, none of those are demonstrated by blocking.

No contact is a different story, as long as you don’t make it weird in social groups should you ever find yourself in that spot.

Lastly, as a man you should have no concerns with social media. Stock it full of pics of you living an awesome life (no selfies), and use it to game, but only in a reactive way, not proactive.

Edi-22 · 2018-02-15T20:23:13+00:00

Game more girls, abundance mentality

RunawayGrain · 2018-02-15T21:05:13+00:00

This week she wasn't at school but I'm just a bit afraid of the social fallout that might follow...

Is she being butthurt about it or something?

I meditate, employ mind policing tactics and game other girls and she's not on my mind, but whenever I see her everything sidebar goes out the window.

You haven't really internalized all of this until she doesn't phase you a bit. In the meantime separate yourself from her as best as possible. When you see her in a few years and she's gotten fat, that will cure the oneitis forever.

I just feel that void again, despair and the sharp sting of failure...

Failure to what? Get in this girls pants? In the long run that isn't going to mean much.

Something tells me that my 17-year-old brain has made a stupid mistake. Any advice on this?

I'm around fifty, and I made a shitload of mistakes at 17. It's called learning, and not the shit they teach you in school. Don't sweat fucking up stuff like this as long as you get back in there and do better each time you try.

RedDespair · 2018-02-15T22:43:49+00:00

Something tells me that my 17-year-old brain has made a stupid mistake. Any advice on this?

The only stupid thing you brain does is convince you that your oneitis is ex-oneitis. You clearly have feelings for her.

Amp the ghosting (block her from all social-millennial-shit-everywhere) like your sanity depends on it and give it time. You brain will eventually fall into place, but it could take months.

LordThunderbolt · 2018-02-16T09:16:24+00:00

"It was about a month later that she appeared in recommended friends on snapchat... I just add everybody I know on it, she ends up blocking me."

What is the logic behind adding everybody you know on it? Explain that to me please. What do you gain from it? Do you even know why Snapchat exists? It's so people could send nudes and texts to other people and not get caught by their boyfriends/girlfriends. If you're using snapchat for anything other than that, you're a moron.Great, you've collected 438 snapchat followers, now what? You only really know about 20 of those people. 5 you talk to in real life on a near daily basis. Maybe 1 you can rely on if you need support for something important in your life. GET OFF SOCIAL MEDIA, DUDE!

Title	Ghosting my ex-oneitis
Author	TheKickinJumpmaster
Upvotes	8
Comments	11
Date	February 15, 2018 8:21 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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"It was about a month later that she appeared in recommended friends on snapchat... I just add everybody I know on it, she ends up blocking me."