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He Gets Hurt Too | Men Abused by Women

warmy1818

December 14, 2023
42 upvotes
/r/MensRights

https://neuroinstincts.com/men-abused-by-women/

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Title He Gets Hurt Too | Men Abused by Women
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warmy1818

Upvotes 42
Comments 11
Date December 14, 2023 7:18 PM UTC
(2 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/18ig9k9/he_gets_hurt_too_men_abused_by_women/
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Comments

[–]r_c2999 11 points12 points13 points 2 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Someone needs to start talking about men being abused by women with bpd. That shit is extreme and wild.

[–]Chama-HUH 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

How rare is it for a woman to have bpd, it’s like every time I hear about a man being in a bad relationship it’s with a woman with bpd.

[–]SeniorBootLance 7 points8 points9 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We basically need a digital toolkit to teach men how to spot BPD and how to deescalate and avoid.

[–]r_c2999 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yes we do young men new to dating and men from dysfunctional homes are so susceptible

[–]r_c2999 5 points6 points7 points 2 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

it's not rare at all 75% of the people diagnosed are female.

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9762-borderline-personality-disorder-bpd

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a disorder of emotion regulation, with 5.9% of the population displaying a characteristic at some point in their life (lifetime prevalence) and accounting for 20% of the psychiatric inpatient population.

https://www.mhanational.org/conditions/borderline-personality-disorder

1.6% of the America public has it (this doesn't account for undiagnosed)

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK430883/

so that means 5,648,000 people have it 4,236,000 of which are women (again not accounting for those who’re undiagnosed)

Edit:

there’s also a correlation between bpd and ipv

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-science-mental-health/202110/borderline-personality-disorder-and-relationship-violence

Studies have found 40% of those with BPD may also have narcissistic personality disorder.

https://www.psychiatrist.com/jcp/prevalence-correlates-disability-comorbidity-dsm-iv-borderline-personality-disorder-wave-2-nesarc/

A study done by Oxford Academic found that between 50% - 90% of people with BPD hear voices that other people do not hear.

https://academic.oup.com/ijnp/article/25/5/375/6481730

So young men really need to be made aware of this.

[–]Infinite_Werewolf913 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Great math

[–]r_c2999 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My bad I fixed it

[–]Chama-HUH -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That’s crazy, this really begs the question, why are men trying to have women lower their standards and insulting women who want to go their own way. They are doing us a favour. Girl bosses, independent women are a blessing to the mental health of men everywhere.

[–]r_c2999 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

These ones are the ones that actually don’t want to leave us alone. If they left us alone we’d be happy.

[–]TallyHelsing 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of women think that BPD is heavily misdiagnosed and claim that women will get labeled BPD for merely "asserting themselves or standing up for themselves."

But I have to wonder 🤔

[–]asianfoodtofulover 11 points12 points13 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not only will feminist silence male victims of domestic abuse, they’ll silence lesbian and bisexual women who were abused by their female partner because it doesn’t fit their narrative about domestic abuse being a patriarchal issue perpetrated by men against women

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