You see people talking about something we all know happens, but everyone is telling them, "I've never seen that in all of my life!"

I'm talking about things men go through and certain behavior by women.

For instance, someone asked, "Do women ever use their femininity or sexuality to get things from or manipulate men?" And someone answered, "Yes." and everyone piled on to say, "Oh bull. I've never seen that happen once in my life."

Someone else asked, "Do women ever bring attention to their boobs on purpose or graze against men on purpose?" And people seriously said, "No, boobs are two big bowling balls on the chest and women can't always navigate accordingly. That is the only reason they would ever bring attention to their boobs." And I know for a fact women do use their boobs. There have been magazine articles with tips for women and a tip was, "Press your boobs against him when you hug to make him think of sex so you can weaken and get what you want."

I once saw a woman say to her friend, "Watch this." Then walk over to a man, start flirting, then mid conversation - lift her chest up and drop it really quick so he would look at her boobs. Then when he glanced and glanced away, her friends started laughing.

I know these things happen, other people know they happen. Why do people gaslight and lie about this stuff happening?

It happens with situations men go through and ways men get treated too. Men go through crazy situations and are treated as disposable and people literally say to our faces, "Oh bull. I've never seen that happen to a man in my life."

Or they pretend like shows don't make fun of men or their genitals. "I've never seen one TV show make a joke about a man having a small dick in my life!"

Like why are people lying about this stuff happening? Why the gaslighting? And why is it when a man calls out the gaslighting - people label him an incel to discredit his valid point, so he calls out the whole motive behind getting called an incel - people pretend like that wasn't the motive.

Am I just insane?