I am 39 she 33 we have 3 kids 10, 12 and 14. I feel so overloaded with emotions I don't know what to do. We both been having issues for few years now.

She didn't want to tell me yesterday but I guess with emotions running high already, she just said it.

Now I need to sort my life out while trying to help my mum, I won't say anything to anyone else yet because I don't want her having more stress.

Sorry vent over.