College student here. I go to a huge big ten school and transferred here last fall from a small town nowhere school. I was introduced to trp around early may last year.

I met a hb7 who was also a transfer student over a tinder and went on a first date with her at her apartment. It went well, I introduced touch and kept the conversation interesting and sexual. Fast forward a couple days and I invite her to my place for dinner, that happens and then we fuck.

During which she repeatedly told me it was the best sex of her life, and she'd never been fucked that hard despite having two boyfriends for several years. I didn't say much and when I did it was mostly teasing or escalating further.

I sent her off and then about five days later we go on a coffee date. This time it was awkward and I felt beta. The coffee shop we went to was closed so we ended up going to a record store for a bit but that quickly got old and she asked if we could go back so she could study.

I realized she was probably bored and likely wouldn't want to hang out again, I was fine with that so I decided not to text her. Later that day though she texts me about something we were discussing earlier. I mention I thought she looked good when we were out earlier, she thanked me and said she had a lot of fun.

Anyway, I said we should hang out again sometime, this weekend isn't available for either of us so she said sometime around Tuesday would be good. I didn't say she should text me, but she normally did text me something at least every day prior to yesterday, when she said nothing aside from tagging me in a couple Instagram posts.

Should I have texted her? Should I still text her? Or does that weaken my frame?

I realize this is extremely beta so I won't be a bitch about getting crucified in the comments here. I'm just trying to get some insight for future instances like this.