Alright, so time to talk about a technique to really get you stuck in a woman's brain. I have a feeling I am going to get some hate for this one but screw it, because it actually works lol.

The emotional roller coaster.

Have you ever been on a roller coaster? It can be a very wild ride. Slowly ratcheting up the giant hill, peaking over the top, staring down 100 feet as you're watching the cars in front of you go over the drop...it's a blast! Well, ironically enough, women (men too probably) seem to enjoy going on mental roller coasters when they are with a man as well.

Now, when I say emotional roller coaster, I don't mean extreme negatives, positives or abusive behavior - I mean influencing her emotions by playing little games of tension and release with her.

What is an example? My absolute favorite way to do this is what I like to call the "other woman technique". I have used this in multiple relationships and when done properly it is always fun.

This technique is best used when you are already in a relationship, have a solid base and are generally in a good place. DO NOT DO THIS IF THERE IS A FIGHT GOING ON, NEGATIVE EMOTION OR BEFORE YOU HAVE BEEN SEEING A WOMAN FOR AT LEAST A COUPLE OF WEEKS AND YOU KNOW SHE IS INTO YOU.

I recommend doing this in person but you can do it via text if you're careful.

"The Other Woman Technique"

Her: What are you doing this weekend?

Him: Not too much really, but I am excited.

Her: What are you excited about?

Him: Well, there's this girl I've been talking to and I'm hoping to ask her out on a date.

**IF TEXTING START TEXTING THE NEXT PART IMMEDIATELY AFTER SENDING THE LAST ONE, YOU DO NOT WANT HER SITTING AND RUMINATING ON THIS. TELLING HER YOU ARE TALKING TO A WOMAN AND PLAN TO ASK HER OUT ON A DATE IS THE "TENSION" AND NOW YOU HAVE TO GIVE HER THE "RELEASE" BEFORE SHE FREAKS OUT**

Him: I think you'd love her. She is beautiful, has brown eyes, curly hair and is a masters student in psychology, etc. (DESCRIBE HER AND DO IT IN A WAY WHERE HER BRAIN MAKES THE CONNECTION THAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT HER - IT SHOULD BE EXTREMELY OBVIOUS IT IS HER.) And, I we've been hanging out lately and I'd love to take her out for dinner this Saturday. So, what do you think, can I wine and dine you this weekend?

Her: You asshole, of course you can.

"Fill in the Blank Technique"

This one is less risky but still gets the job done. This one can be used at whichever stage of the relationship as she will "fill in the blank" so her own mind will be causing the tension. It is also a bit easier and can be used in a variety of situations.

It's Friday night and you have plans to hang out with a couple of the boys. Nothing too intense but just when you have plans to do something with some friends for a few hours.

Her: *texting you on a Friday* Hey, what are you doing tonight?

Him: Getting ready to go hang out with a friend.

Her: Oh, that sounds fun

Him: **No response**

**The next morning or later that evening when you are done - this is important, respond AFTER YOU ARE DONE WITH HANGING OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS**

Him: Hey how are you? Want to hang out today?

Her: Sure!

Next time you see her, make sure to tell her what you did on Friday. Maybe even show her some funny pictures or something of you hanging out with the boys. And then simply continue on and don't comment on it anymore.

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The underlying principle I am trying to get across is to create situations where her brain can create some kind of scenario where she may or may not be the only woman in your life. To do properly, you obviously must not have another woman in your life and never do this in a malicious way. This is the "tension" portion and when you then confirm you are just hanging out with your boys or think she's beautiful and want to take her on a date, you are then "releasing the tension" and giving her positive emotions. Essentially, her fears were unfounded, you really are just here with her.

Similar to push-pull dynamics, really, but it has to be done at the right times correctly or it can backfire. That is why you NEVER want to do it in a malicious way. If you're trying to be mean, it will come off as mean. However, if you just artfully let her brain create scenarios and then dispel them, it keeps the relationship fresh for her and establishes that you are in fact valuable to her.

The irony is that women and men will do this on their own.

"what is she up to?"

"why isn't she responding?"

"is she seeing some other dude?"

"why hasn't he talked to me this weekend?"

The list goes on.