Conceal your intentions?

BeeBopJoe · 2018-03-02T02:12:52+00:00

Its a balance, I only conceal my intentions if I feel I have enough investment from her to warrant it. Knowing WHEN to reveal your intentions is the key, keep an eye out for shit tests and comfort test, they will encode their intentions with those tests.

Chief_Leji · 2018-03-02T02:09:29+00:00

Don't conceal your intentions with women. That's how you get into the friend zone. Make it know that you are sexually attracted to the girl and not trying to be her friend.

When dealing with regular people I would advise to conceal your intentions even when dealing with women conceal your intentions in terms of your goals and aspirations but not your intentions with her.

walawalawa · 2018-03-02T11:29:19+00:00

The 48 Laws of Power have a lot more relevance to the corporate world than Game. But there are some good applications.

I think you're confusing concealing interest with concealing intent.

I'll give you an example. Last night i went for drinks with a girl I had once worked with but who had quit. She actually asked me out for drinks.

I made the plans and displayed enough interest to get her comfortable but then focused on displaying intent that I was interested in banging her. I did this by verbal and non-verbal game until i escalated and went for the k-close. At first she resisted (of course). The second time she kissed me good night.

We discussed meeting up again.

She knows I'm interested and understands my intent.

If she meets me it's because i displayed intent by k-closing her.

Merely asking her out, engaging in witty banter etc...she'll know I'm interested but it won't make her hamster spin as much as "omg he made a move".

I know this because another girl in a similar situation. Later when i asked her what she remembered most about our first meet up, she said "The kiss" (intent).

Title	Conceal your intentions?
Author	zaydpt
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	March 2, 2018 12:41 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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