So I see a new girl at the bar. she is a waitress. she's easily falls into a HB7-8. I approached her and introduced myself. Got her name.

Next week, I went back and this time I escalated and grabbed her waist and then kissed her on the cheek. When she got off shift, she was at the bar with a friend. So I figured well maybe she is hanging around for me, so started talking to her. Proposed to her that maybe she'd like to accompanying me to local city to take in the sights...since she is not American. I then asked for her number but she gave me IG instead, saying to me that "you have to work hard for my number (or me)" something to that effect. Anyway, she grabbed my phone and added me on her IG. Saying DM me there. I did not follow-up with her because I was like...1) she says that I have to work hard for her (NO, I am prize, she has to work hard for me) and 2) she did not give me her phone number straight up. So I was just like, oh, well...forget her.

So this week I am back at the bar (awesome place) and basically ignore her completely. Towards the end of the night, she came over to me and grabbed my waist, saying to me that I should contact her on IG...and walked away. I just say, yeah ok...and walked away.

So, I was ready to just not pursue her because I am not working "hard" for any chick... but then she comes up and ask me to message her on IG for the second time...

Any thoughts here? probably has bf and does not want me to contact her phone? Maybe I should not have proposed taking a day trip...I could hit her up on IG and ask her out...and see what she says. OR maybe just ghost because she works at a bar I go to frequently.

EDIT: she was definitely looking at my profile cause IG tells you who looks at that your highlight posts...so she was definitely looking my profile.