Me growing up I was surrounded by homies and family who where plotting on there next play and constantly talking about sex with girls they liked. And of curious I was the last person out my friend group to experience what sex was like and etc.

I know I'm still very young about to be 20 soon and my hormones have a part in it. But I want to develop the mindset of just talking to women for fun and not be so attach to get so ass from them lol. Having this expectation lowkey ruins my dating life because I subconsciously measure success from sex.

Currently what I'm doing as of right now is putting little to no effort into trying to get a certain outcome. When talking to girls I like all I'm doing really is just expressing myself and just speaking my mind as if they are my homies. Any advice for me?