Would you be friends with someone who rejected you?

2022-08-13T05:14:59+00:00

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Kundalini-Electric · 2022-08-13T09:36:30+00:00

That's disrespectful. Move on. You don't owe her anything.

officernogentleman · 2022-08-13T11:42:52+00:00

No. She’s saying that to save face because she doesn’t want confrontation. You’re tolerating it because you think there’s hope. She’ll never seriously consider you as an option. Spend your time elsewhere.

AntigenicDrip · 2022-08-13T06:58:45+00:00

Are you fine with just being friends with her at this point? It's completely acceptable if you are not. Don't even entertain it unless you are 100% sure you are fine.

If you aren't, convey that you are only interested in her romantically and the ball is in her court to initiate accordingly.

literallyou · 2022-08-13T13:19:50+00:00

If she dissapears once, she will do it again. She needs attention and validation

Orbiting is one of the worst tactics they pull and honestly it angers me so much (male you lose time by pulling your attention and then leaving you doing circles around them)

farang · 2022-08-13T13:36:25+00:00

You owe her nothing and you have to accept that friendship is all it will be. Don't decide on the basis of attraction to her, don't decide on the basis of being hurt by rejection, just decide if you will enjoy the friendship enough to make it worth it.

2022-08-13T15:50:48+00:00

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RawketLegue · 2022-08-13T21:31:38+00:00

Buddy I’m in the same exact boat. Blocked her on all socials this morning once I saw her post. And she looked DAMN GOOD. I realized I can’t be doing that to myself and just cut all ties.

freespirit1963TJ · 2022-08-13T15:56:18+00:00

I'm not sure what you posted would be considered rejection. You might have well been friend zoned, idk if that would be construed as being rejected. I'm going to guess that you are young, sometimes romance just isn't in the cards. I have a friend, who many years ago I would have definitely considered or wanted to be romantically with. We still see each other, I'm married, she's divorced. Nothing other than friends. It wasn't in the cards.

Title	Would you be friends with someone who rejected you?
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Upvotes	9
Comments	19
Date	August 13, 2022 5:08 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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