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[–]Neo-Rio 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Half the reason why pop stars and rock stars get women screaming and throwing panties at them, and then tracking them down afterwards to be groupies... is because the content of the lyrics is usually romantic/sexual. How many songs are there about love? Geez, it's not without good reason. Just ask Elvis how he started dancing as well.
Yes I know - rock stars also have insane social proof, which is either organic or generated by their record label, that creates an exponential social proof feedback loop - but we're not talking about that.
Ensure that the lyrical content is ronmatic/sexual and run with it.
Remember: what is too stupid to be said, is often sung ! :)
[–]Psuedo_Pixie 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don’t think the lyrical content is why musicians are attractive…I think it’s about charisma and the ability to charm/command a crowd.
[–]Disastrous_Schedule8 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's charisma is actually just stage confidence. Michael Jackson was one of the least charismatic people off stage. I don't think anyone would have actually enjoyed hanging around him. But his stage presence was unparalleled to the point that people were literally hyping themselves into hysteria just seeing him up there. I have one song which I completely masters the essence of. I have literally had someone bust into the a bar because they thought the original artist was doing a secret show or something. I have had ladies drag me into their circle after a song and pretty much asked me to leave the bar with them. This was my back pocket pro tip, but I figured somethings you gotta stop hogging knowledge.
[–]Neo-Rio 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Charisma is part of it too. The romantic/sexual lyrics don't really work to convey a mood without any conviction behind them. Basically performers have to get themselves in such a state while singing that the singing is authentic.
How this translates to seduction when you are not singing:- I find that when you talk dirty to women it has to be equally convincing. Like I know I can bang her really well and I look at her in such a way that conveys that - along with what I'm saying.
[–]helpMeOut9999 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Great idea - love it. And sounds like a lot of fun.
[–]Disastrous_Schedule8 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It is and you gain a new skill, not to mention it's an amazing way to start conversation with everyone. For some reason once people know you can sing everyone wants to talk to you.
[–]helpMeOut9999 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's the charisma! And the bravery
[–]Disastrous_Schedule8 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It looks like charisma and bravery. Thats the point😂
[–]fuzzyshorts 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I love karaoke and I can actually carry a tune, but I never thought of it as a seduction thing. I once described it as "writing something in 50 pt font so it looks important." Its a kind of therapy; a shared moment of voice and openness... especially for someone who's basically shy. That's why your pre-banter of dedicating a song feels extra hard. But I want to try it.
[–]literallyou 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This! I love karaoke bars
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