A lot has changed since the last time I posted. Currently in a two month relationship with this girl, and I've been putting her in her place when she needs it. I've been pretty much soft-nexting her when she does stupid things like pout. Everything's been fine in that department.

Almost a month ago she says she loves me. I don't love her back and that's where the problem lies. Those three words mean a lot of commitment to me, and it freaks me out. I lose attraction for her rapidly, and can't seem to get those feelings back. I try, things go good, then I talk to her about it. I'm thinking it was a bad idea, because she practically gives me an ultimatum. Hell no. I almost break up with her on the spot, but settle for a break instead.

My question lies here. At the moment, I can tell I have more of the scarcity-mentality. I don't want to hurt her, but the only reasons I can gather to stay with her are more of obligations than they are real reasons.