I have a high libido and I fuck rough and in long sessions. No bragging, it’s just who I am.

My girl gets swolen every time we have sex. Bleeding, pains for two-three days afterwards. I’ve caught her several times trying to hold back her tears while having sex. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t go ape shit when having sex. It’s just what you’d call a good pounding.

She now told me that she is in too much pain after sex and asked if we could tone it down. I asked her to see a gynecologist to get checked but she said that she doesn’t want to.

How do I approach the situation?