TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

yesbuthereswhy Archive

View 6 posts and 738 comments by yesbuthereswhy on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
5

I've grown up always being the ugly dude of the group and getting commented on my pale skin (are you not feeling well?). It doesn't really hurt me anymore, I'm used to it. This was me. I was the Irish one and I have never been tan. I was afraid to take my shirt off for years. One day I decided that I wasn’t going to care what people said. I took my shirt off during sports and when I swam. People made fun of me and I agreed and amplified without even knowing the terminology. Giving yourself skin …
/r/askTRP01/10/18 01:08 AM
14

The others were fine. She was the only crappy one.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 11:09 PM
1

You'd have to disguise the name. Apple and Google Play would ban it if they found out who we were.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 03:29 PM
35

women are not only incapable of understanding male vulnerability, but instinctively react with loathing when they do encounter it. Last night I went out to a comedy club in the city. A woman from a very liberal city in California was one of the comedians that night. She tried shitting on Kavanaugh and the crowd wasn't having any of it. This was her remark, "This has been such a hard week for women all over the country. Can we just agree that rape is bad?" After the show I decided to check out he…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 03:12 PM
3

When did you get divorced?
/r/askMRP29/09/18 09:48 PM
46

At this point I really don’t even give a shit if I’m banned from this site. I’m tired of all the liberal censorship. I can’t be a better man, I can’t have goals and I can’t be Republican because it’s toxic to think differently than other people. Reddit is the the new symbol of bigotry.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 06:09 PM
3

I met my wife in a nightclub. She accidentally stepped on my foot when she was drunk. I was 22 am 26 now. I was not familiar with TRP but I had read RP books that are not discussed her. I never spinned plates and part of me wished I had. Because there is a lot of passion in our sexlife I think I would be disappointed if I started to spin plates. I did not have to vet my wife too hard. She was and still is a very traditional woman and I believe it has helped me tremendously. I was a boy when I me…
/r/askMRP29/09/18 04:31 PM
2

It’s going to be soon. The mods quarantined it so that is more than likely the next thing to happen.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 08:20 PM
1

Mobile or desktop?
/r/askTRP27/09/18 07:44 PM
3

TRP getting banned is my 💔 story. It ends with me getting a sad but proud boner.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 07:41 PM
38

I’m gonna miss all you salty fuckers
/r/askTRP27/09/18 07:10 PM
26

Did that banning sub actually get it banned?
/r/askTRP27/09/18 07:04 PM
1

Trump didn’t age well but when he was younger he was definitely above average in looks.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 07:02 PM
1

What a brilliant display of ad hominem.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:27 PM
1

Your hamster is off the rails. Don’t like when someone shoves the truth in front of your face I guess.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:55 PM
1

After all, he’s a victim to this rotten whore who unashamedly spites their marriage without remorse. Going to play devils advocate. What makes him the victim? What if he’s a great guy who provides, fucks her right and does everything like he should but she still cheats. Some women are just ungrateful. They can get everything they want and cheat or some guys can be total douchebags who deserve to be cheated on.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 04:34 PM
1

But people like my mom are what’s holding him back. I’m surprised nobody has called you out on this bullshit. Don’t excuse your dad for being a beta. He doesn’t travel the world because he chooses not to. You need to go through the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 04:18 PM
2

As a married man I don’t really give a shit whether single guys ever get married. If you hate it vehemently that’s your opinion and yours to have. Some guys really like the idea of not being tied down, some guys do not want kids, some guys are so scarred by women that they don’t want to put up with it and some guys out of a marriage realized that it wasn’t for them. This post sounds a lot like you being too immature to realize that some people want to discuss what they think is wrong with the wo…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 04:09 PM
1

i broke out the friendzone and we are together for a year now. Advice is to never do this again. You don’t hang out with women as friends. You orbit plain and simple. You made the mistake of getting with a woman you orbited and now you expect her to think you’re alpha. She knows your not alpha because you broke up with her and then got back together.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 03:57 PM
1

If you only game women from your social circle or work you will miss out on 99% of women. I personally avoided both because I don’t like to shit where I eat. I went to nightclubs and bars by because my pussy ass friends wouldn’t go with me. The one time I went out with my best friend we met two hot ass foreign chicks. I married the one from Brazil and can proudly say nobody I know knows her because she isn’t from my country. I feel sorry as fuck for guys that go after the same girls over and ove…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 04:41 PM
0

There is no way to predict how much sex a woman has had by her age.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 04:30 PM
1

The real question is why you even give a shit about trivial shit.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 04:26 PM
1

But that would require doing work.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 04:23 PM
1

I apologize for not replying sooner. I usually don't check post replies after a few days since I don't make many posts. Its weird but you remind me of my wife in some ways ... Her mom was pretty abusive to her also so maybe this is why she acts this way ... but to be honest from her partners perspective - its getting old. I have heard this from my wife before. Thankfully, I have not heard it since I started my treatment but I have definitely heard it more than once. It's not excusable and I don'…
/r/askMRP25/09/18 10:13 PM
1

We can’t prove that any religion or God exists. Every few hundred years or so the world regulates itself with a new religion and the people worship the new God. With globalism and the United Nations, it’s very unlikely new religions or even existing religions will spread like they did hundreds or thousands of years ago. It’s best not to get too caught up in the grand scheme of life. Anyone who tells you the definitively know what’s going to happen has an ego because they think they’re right. All…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 01:01 AM
1

When I used to spin, every single plate knew my situation before I got even relatively deep. How did you bring that up without it being weird?
/r/askMRP24/09/18 11:34 PM
1

Glad that you can laugh about a fools joke but your second sentence sums up why a lot of people said this was a humble brag.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:03 PM
1

Google it lazy fuck
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:22 PM
1

I wouldn’t make it out anymore than what it was. You got in a situation that took an unfortunate turn of events. I would like to think that people would be respectful enough to not push you any further.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:15 PM
0

If you think so low of yourself that you can’t do any of the things you listed without having even tried than TRP is not for you. TRP is a place for you to own the fact that you suck ass and give you an environment to help you to grow and become the things you aren’t. You just want to settle in life for what you think you’re capable of. Have fun taking the ugliest girls, the smallest pay checks, living in the shittiest neighborhoods and never having enough of what you want because you don’t thin…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:07 PM
21

If you don’t have any kids you need to hit the eject button and brace for landing.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 04:15 PM
1

It’s the only thing I got out of college biology
/r/askTRP24/09/18 04:10 PM
4

The reality is that you get what you give off. If you have your shit together and don’t put up with thot behavior you won’t find it.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 04:09 PM
8

If you’re getting this from your friends you need to rethink what you call a friend. If you’re getting this from strangers then that means you’re gaming where people know you. Game girls in different area codes and you won’t have that problem.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 04:03 PM
30

She claims im the only guy shes ever gotten drunk with and that she doesnt do that stuff. You’re a dumbass if you believe this. You’ve got oneitus and she knows. Quit putting so much thought into a woman you’re not dating or in an LTR with.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 04:01 PM
1

It did for me. I locked down a Brazilian and every time I look at her ass or even think a kid her ass my pants don’t fit. Sometimes it sucks being wound up all the time.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 01:59 PM
3

This same thing happened at my work when I was 19 but I was a massive beta. I had zero clue that I gave off the soy boy vibe. Maybe you should do an honest evaluation of yourself.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 01:55 PM
2

Put your finger in her ass to let her know she’s special.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 01:47 PM
1

Did you let yourself finish in your mouth after you suck your own dick or do you only reserve that for Chads?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 01:26 PM
2

Besides finances, there are other things I just don't care about the outcome of said decision and trust her to handle it (I know what this sounds like but I feel like this arrangement works) but if I truly don't care and can tell her to do whatever she prefers, I feel like this is still in my frame. I’m going to interject here because I got slammed for having this point of view several months back. Both you and your wife should be handling the finances period. If you don’t know how much money yo…
/r/askMRP24/09/18 01:00 PM
1

I’ll be 26 in a few days so I barely made it. I made my first Facebook post the other day in two years. It was about a human trafficking problem in my small town. Aside from that, the only social media I use is LinkedIn and Reddit. FB, instagram, Twitter and all the other shit are massive time sinks. You’re letting absolute strangers know what mundane and mostly ordinary things you do. It just seems rather strange to be so public about your day to day to life.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 12:44 PM
50

This is my first post to this subreddit so be nice. Pussy
/r/askTRP23/09/18 04:32 AM
1

I might not be in better shape than you but I’m not gay enough to be scared of my wife finding out about the redpill. What’s she going to do? Leave me so I can start banging the girls in my college classes??? That would suck.
/r/askMRP22/09/18 04:54 PM
12

What the hell are you on about? He looks great. And why did you answer your own question?
/r/askTRP22/09/18 03:23 PM
39

Lmfao This for real.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 11:27 AM
1

Tell her that you’re interested and let her know that you’re specifically looking for someone to carpool with and maybe go halfsies (make sure to use this word) on a phone plan so you can save money. You should have convinced her that you’re autistic and she’ll become disinterested.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:20 PM
2

Dry humor and sarcasm is very difficult to do with women. It’s easier when you can reference things that are universal. If you are familiar with pop culture use those references. I like to joke about every day life and blow things out of proportion. The first time my wife had a headache she said I uber a little headache. I said, “But your head is so large?!” It’s stupid but it implied that she should have a bigger headache. If you’re clever enough you can do that with anything. You don’t need co…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 12:58 PM
3

If you’re trying to lose weight at all you might consider a weighted jump rope. It burns a lot of calories and is good for your heart. 30 minutes is supposed to be about 440 calories burned. It’s brutal though.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 12:53 PM
1

I remember how much I used to fantasize about being approached and how very few times it happened. Maybe I’m not as lucky as most guys but I always believed it was because most women just don’t approach. Whenever I have been approached I was always very happy, confident and never expecting it. Three times that I can remember were in a college class my freshmen year, a bar when I was already with a gorgeous woman, and when I used to DJ at a hookah lounge. Aside from that it’s never happened much …
/r/askTRP21/09/18 12:40 PM
3

Your comments always make me laugh my ass off
/r/askMRP21/09/18 01:38 AM
6

She must be a dime if you’re asking this. Lmfao
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:25 PM
1

My wife and I both have pins on our phone but it’s no secret. I use a pin because I don’t see why anyone other than myself or my wife should have access to my phone. I also leave my phone around in the office so I like that no one can come over and get on it for any reason.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 04:00 PM
2

Get on your ‘Dog and Bone’ and give me a ‘Wally Graht’
/r/askMRP20/09/18 01:30 AM
6

This is one of the funniest troll posts I’ve read on here.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 01:24 AM
1

I hate to be the one to antagonize but it sounds to me like you should kill the puppy. If she’s constantly making threats and talking to a lawyer that’s just a bitch move on her part. You either do it or you don’t but you don’t keep making threats. It’s disrespectful and it’s no way to put back a marriage. It sounds like she’s checked out and you could be investing in a business that’s already gone bust. All I can say about the anger aspect is that you need to divert it. I’ve recently started th…
/r/askMRP19/09/18 06:24 PM
1

If you don’t care why are you asking why the likelyhood of divorce is? What’s stopping you from ending the marriage right now?
/r/askMRP19/09/18 05:40 PM
1

That sounds troubling. I’m one to admit that I’ve said some terrible things to my wife over our five years of being together. Sometimes our anger gets the best of us. Something you can’t do is rehash on old fights or words that were said. I’ve had to remind my wife of that before because it doesn’t make sense to light a new flame on an old log. An actual physical list is troubling because that means she is fixated on it. She’s so mad that she’s keeping an actual list with dates and times. Every …
/r/askMRP19/09/18 05:09 PM
2

One thing I did learn about her is that she has been. Do you mean a literal list as in it’s in the physical world or a list in her head that she spews out in the heat of an argument?
/r/askMRP19/09/18 04:32 PM
7

I said cool i'll come with you just to say goodbye and make sure nothing happens but she was like no it's cool I can do it on my own. Then I said "just let me go to the taxi rank with you they are on my way home anyway". Are you literally autistic? You white knighted her and then begged her to let you make sure she gets home safe because of a sorely misplaced case of oneitus for a perfect example of a crazy thot.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 04:18 PM
1

You either learn to love working with your body or work with your mind. I was a welder for two years and did mostly tack welding. I’d lift a couple thousand pounds of steel per day. I was about 125lb with a runners body. A normal work week was 60-72 hours and you can believe it was back breaking. I actually threw out my back at 22 and busted my arm open at 23. After those two incidences I decided to go back to college and get my degree. If you’re living at home I cannot say it enough times. Go g…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:28 PM
1

So many young kids die when they turn 21 because they get pressured into drinking more than they can handle. Don’t let this be you.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:21 PM
1

Just going to chime in here...I’m 3 years into my marriage and have never slept in separate rooms more than twice on two separate occasions. If you’re not having sex and sleeping in separate rooms, someone fucked up big time. 2.5 years is a very short period of time to go from honeymoon goo goo gah gah phase to man I hate this bitch and I don’t want to sleep with her. Somewhere down the line your marriage got derailed or maybe it was never on track and you just pretended because marriage sounded…
/r/askMRP19/09/18 02:33 PM
2

That’s a very fair and on point assessment.
/r/askMRP19/09/18 02:29 PM
1

Not sure about Asian but ESL was no big deal for me. I think you could game a girl that doesn’t even speak your language if you played your cards well enough. Masculine and alpha is universal. Kind of like the sound of a 12 gauge pump shotgun.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 03:02 PM
6

You're so angry you can't even write straight. Everyone is pointing out that the issue is with you and they're right. As someone who is going through anger issues and therapy, I can tell you it's all in your head. You're choosing to be upset about the things that your wife says or does. Going to the gym, doing BJJ, leaving and going on walks is not going to do shit for this issue. You need to learn to not give a fuck about whatever it is that your wife is saying. If she is truly being negative o…
/r/askMRP16/09/18 05:26 PM
11

25 and currently married for 3 years. You need to have your heart broken a few times before you realize how women truly work. Regardless of however many women you’ve had you either a) have not had enough or b) never got close enough to wife a woman and watch her ghost your ass. When you’re married the clock resets every day. All of your good deeds from yesterday are erased. However, none of your mistakes will be forgotten. You’ve got to be alpha every damn day all damn day. Your girlfriend or wi…
/r/askTRP15/09/18 02:06 AM
2

girls are natural masters of dread If that isn’t some RP truth. The trick is to not get butthurt. Abundance mentality is the cure.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:35 PM
2

Lmfao in the Middle East 70 year olds marry children. If it’s legal do it.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:33 PM
1

Well all be damned. If that isn’t a RP truth straight from the horses mouth.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 03:06 PM
1

I prefer using vitamin e oil or an aloe lotion for aftershave. I think one of my biggest reasons for being against cologne or any type of chemicals is the risk of allergic reactions. I had a terrible but now humorous experience with the Irish spring body soap. My mom had bought it for me as a gift and I used it one morning before work. I’m a very thorough guy who really enjoys being clean so I don’t miss a spot in the shower. Needless to say, I was hopping, skipping and jumping at work because I…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/18 03:03 PM
1

At the risk of being an outcast I’ll go ahead and say cologne is largely a huge waste of money. Women are more naturally attracted to a man’s natural scent than plants and synthetics. Women have have been trained for thousands of years to enjoy the smell of a man without artificial smell. I can’t count how many times I’ve had my wife tell me she loves my scent. I do own cologne though because it’s often given as a gift but I think if you’re going to use it then it should be sparingly like on the…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/18 12:22 PM
3

They don’t call it liquid courage for nothing. Women aren’t impressed by a man who’s drunk that says sly things. They’re impressed when he is sober because most guys are just like you. They have to drink to talk to someone and that in of itself is insecurity. You don’t learn to ride a bike by asking people on a forum. You get on your gear and pull out your bike.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 12:07 PM
2

I hope that doesn’t happen to me. I’ve naturally been able to last long so long as I’m not going crazy. I’ve since backed down on my dosage so it’s hard for me to tell what difference it made.
/r/askMRP13/09/18 08:57 PM
1

You may be trying to do too much at once. If you’re changing your lifestyle dramatically that’s your problem. You can’t just be lazy and unproductive and then expect to be an all star. You have to learn by using discipline. Focus on small but achievable goals. They might not mean anything to anyone else but they must mean something to you. There’s nothing wrong with playing video games. If that’s something you do for enjoyment. It’s not okay to use video games as a tool to avoid your obligations…
/r/askMRP13/09/18 04:20 PM
2

I just started the SSRIs and I’ll vouch that it does make you last longer. The symptoms are a little annoying but it is an option.
/r/askMRP13/09/18 03:55 PM
1

Do we have a site back up for MRP? I am thinking that if TRP gets banned that they may go after MRP next.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 07:05 PM
3

What the hell does that even mean?
/r/askTRP11/09/18 06:37 PM
3

Why do you give this much of a shit about labels? Is there not anything else in your life you could be putting this energy into?
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:42 PM
1

The real key is finding clothes that fit to your body. You don't need expensive clothes but if you want and can afford it's up to you. Shopping at cheap outlet stores or online can save you big and give you a nice selection of clothes.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:18 AM
6

As someone who made music for ten years and had several thousand followers on SoundCloud. Big whoop. If you’re getting overwhelmed from women adding you on the internet you need to learn abundance mentality. I’ve had women from every continent tell me they loved my music and guess how many of those girls I slept with? None. They’re vanity metrics. Unless you’re making money you aren’t making anything.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 04:18 PM
1

Well, the second part was the real question. I just needed to give a back story and I'm glad I did. Most people in here saw that I have a victim mentality and this is why I am so angry for no reason. Another poster told me that the world is out to get me and I think for the most part that is true, but I think I might exaggerate it. I think I take that philosophy to the extreme and it causes me a lot of unnecessary pain each and every day. I think there's got to be a healthy balance of knowing th…
/r/askMRP09/09/18 02:16 PM
1

I don’t have to take meds. I’m choosing to. I’m taking an antidepressant that helps curb anger issues. My therapist requires it for CBT.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 12:55 AM
1

Turn the negative attitude positive and you're good. I am doing a much better job of that now with my medication. Before I would just have an endless flow of negative thoughts for one issue. I am still having these negative thoughts but now other me is able to say STOP and it just happens. Before it could have gone on for hours. If you haven't butted up against wns you're not trying hard enough. He is like the hall monitor haha. Or maybe that cop with the mo and the aviators . That was who I but…
/r/askMRP08/09/18 04:33 PM
1

Is it the military book?
/r/askMRP08/09/18 04:18 PM
1

When I die that’s going to be in my top ten autistic moments.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 04:14 PM
3

I didn’t catch this comment until today. I actually apologized to my wife over dinner yesterday about the foot thing. I am starting to realize that what people say to me and what I hear are two different things. The victim in me hears a mean vicious attack every time. I can’t imagine how many people I’ve ran off or opportunities I’ve let slip through the cracks due to my own issues. I spoke with my wife about the therapy and told her that right now I do believe a lot of our problems are the resu…
/r/askMRP08/09/18 04:13 PM
1

Right now I have a female psychologist and so far she seems alright. If we end up butting heads too much I will switch.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 11:10 AM
1

Could you explain more?
/r/askMRP08/09/18 11:08 AM
1

That’s good. I’m just extending thanks.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 01:45 AM
1

I don’t know if you were trying to make me laugh but that was funny.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 12:21 AM
1

Maybe you’re right. For the longest time I didn’t even know I was mad. I’ll reflect in a couple weeks.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 09:36 PM
2

I don’t row from the ground. Also, I barbell row. And I am doing a reset because my DL form sucks.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 08:40 PM
1

I appreciate the follow up and again, I was a douche earlier so my bad. You didn’t deserve it.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 08:29 PM
1

That was awful to read over again.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 08:22 PM
1

Okay, I disagree. I’ve been the victim and now I want out. My language might have said otherwise but that is the direction I want.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 08:08 PM
1

Okay thanks
/r/askMRP07/09/18 08:07 PM
2

Thanks this connected a lot.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 08:07 PM
1

Your marriage is far more fragile than you realize. Rian Stone is right (usually). Christians are specically authorized to divorce non-believers. It could be man but I don’t want to go there just yet. I knew what I was getting into when I said yes. I was okay with her belief but I won’t lie and say there hasn’t been kick back on her end. Before then medication, I wondered if I did the right thing getting married so early. On the medication, I don’t even know who the hell I am. I am not depressed…
/r/askMRP07/09/18 08:01 PM
1

Okay, those are fair points. I am going to have to deal with it this weekend since she dropped this on me this morning.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 07:44 PM
1

Thanks for the PSA. I’d love to do martial arts but I honest to heck don’t know where to fit into my schedule. I work 40 hours a week, study and class 20 and then hit the gym 3 times a week.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 07:32 PM
3

I locked my guns up when I started my meds. My best friend has them now. My guns were very important to me so it was very difficult to give them away.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 07:28 PM
1

I didn’t really do the activities. Guess that means I didn’t complete the book.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 07:27 PM
1

Okay, I’m going to look into this.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 07:11 PM
1

I started at 45lb and got to 155lb. A trainer told me my form sucked ass and I did a reset. He said it’s okay to go with low weight as long as your form doesn’t suck.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 07:04 PM
1

It's obvious that you haven't read WISNIFG. Read the sidebar prerequisites. You’re right and that’s shame on me. As far as I know I’m doing SL. My DL is low because I did a reset. A trainer in the gym told me my form sucked and he said to train with the bar. I was at 155lb deadlift before. Couples therapy for a guy with no frame is a big gamble. Fair call.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 07:03 PM
1

I am seeing a reoccurring theme here in the posts which is a good thing. I realize that I do choose to be upset and angry. Yesterday I had a car cut me off for the first time and it was very calm and relaxing. I have only begun but I am starting to realize that I have programmed myself to be negative. My wife could have been genuinely looking out for me when I complained but I am just so used to being verbally assaulted that it just came off like an attack. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 06:59 PM
1

This is a victim statement. Be honest: she says these things and you choose to get angry. Anger is ALWAYS a choice. This is one of the reasons I reached out to a therapist. I was bullied relentlessly and every day, even on my medication I imagine getting into verbal confrontations every day. It’s terrible and I don’t want a pity party but I just wanted to say that you’re absolutely right. It’s taking a lot of work to realize I am my own biggest problem. In regards to the Christian aspect, she is…
/r/askMRP07/09/18 06:52 PM
2

that people hate. That got me right in the feelz. Yeah the CBT is definitely happening. I am fucked up in a lot of ways I never knew. I’m smart enough to be using a real psychologist who is a doctor with 20 years of experience.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 06:26 PM
1

Thanks and wow this was all one big eye opener. I don’t know who the heck she wants to see. I am seeing a real doctor on my own that I personally reached out to. I was in no way guilted or pressured into doing the CBT.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 06:13 PM
1

Read the reply I gave to him. I have read NMMNG twice and I haven’t read much of anything else. I need to learn to manage my time better because at the moment I am focused on my work and college. I need to get these other books in.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 06:02 PM
0

Okay, well I respect your opinion but I don’t give a fuck if she leaves. I know I may not act like it but I’m not here because I’m afraid she’ll leave. I’m more afraid that one day I’m going to pick a fight with the wrong dude or pull out my gun and hurt someone because I’m not okay with who I am. I am all about saving myself but I’d be more than happy for her to stay on the boat. I’m sailing either way.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 05:59 PM
1

Jeez. Even on the happy pills that does not sound good. Thanks for the heads up. I’ll say, look I need to handle myself and then afterwards we’ll see. I’d like to think that after it’s all settled and done I can fix any problems in my marriage by fixing myself first.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 05:38 PM
1

Hey that’s real. Well, I never misled or told my wife that I was of her faith. I never misrepresented myself and for the longest time have even come to accept her beliefs. It makes her happy and I’m glad that she has something good in her life. I’ve tried many religions out and realized it’s not my thing. I accept the idea of a God and I moved on.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 05:21 PM
1

My guess is that it has to do with church. I haven’t asked because quite frankly I don’t want to go. Like you said I’m on a mission to save myself. I can’t hold together a marriage if I can’t even hold myself together.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 05:19 PM
1

Okay, fair points.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 05:02 PM
1

I don't think there is any harm in evaluating the road that brought you to where you are. The behavioral psychologist did this with you. My biggest issue is that you can easily use it as a crutch and take on a victim mentality (which I can see you already do a lot). I’m not so sure I agree on that but in regards to the last paragraph yes I do realize that.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 05:01 PM
1

Noted and yeah the lifts are shit. No excuses for that.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 04:59 PM
1

You sound a lot like my therapist but still good to hear.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 04:57 PM
1

What I don’t like about the blue pill is that they take the guys in here with the shittiest attitudes and then label us all as him. The whole point of this sub is to help other dudes get laid by owning their shit and being a man. If women don’t want us being better than who we are and being attractive to them that’s their fucking loss. I think women struggle to realize that as a man we actually have to do something with our lives. We aren’t given the world based on our looks. We have to or in wo…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:05 PM
36

Maybe if your dad fucked your mom more often she wouldn’t be a whiny bitch. Tell your dad to do his job or you’re gonna have to do it for him.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:59 PM
2

Lmao that’s golden.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:40 PM
8

Save the whales man
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:40 PM
2

Lmao!!
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:38 PM
0

I think this is a troll post and that OP is probably a faggot feminist with nothing better to do.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:32 PM
2

Lmfao what’s a hot dog shirt haha
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:36 AM
1

I see what you did there
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:35 AM
1

Guy must have just came to the sub because he apparently doesn’t realize his dad is a beta just like him.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 07:57 PM
12

Lmfao that is some autistic ass shit to be saying on a first date
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:21 PM
1

Clean the house when your wife won't or make her live in the mess while I do what I want? Yeah your wife will live in the mess but so will you. You’re already doing it that’s why you’re here. You think that because you make the money she should clean. There’s nothing wrong with that either because it’s sharing the workload. My wife was stay at home until she could legally work so I knew I would have dinner ready every night when I came in. I didn’t use the word expected, I knew because I told he…
/r/askMRP06/09/18 06:04 PM
4

I’m one of the stranger persons in this sub in that I came in not having issues with sex. My reason for coming to this sub was that my wife was slowly starting to lose respect for me. I don’t know if I was a chad before but I definitely ran the game on her. She always came back for more, especially when I told her no. I’m saying all this because on average sex is about 3-6 times a week sometimes twice a day. My question for you is why have you waited so long to deal with this issue? You say you’…
/r/askMRP06/09/18 05:40 PM
2

It’s the crab bucket mentality in action.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 04:12 PM
1

They are all blue pilled as fuck and most have trouble getting laid. You just answered your own question bro haha.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 04:11 PM
1

Haha yeah. I just find if a little humorous that he can say AWALT for cheating on LDRs but not for lying about birth control. Even if she was on birth control you should never bump uglies with an ugly you don’t know.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 02:24 AM
10

Probably the most underrated comment hahaha
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 08:20 PM
6

As someone who made it through an LDR I have to disagree. I think it all depends on the quality of the woman. Also, you’re really going to believe a woman that cheats on her boyfriend wouldn't lie about being on the pill?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 01:43 PM
1

Hey, so I have some great experience with a LDR. My wife and I dated for 5 months 3 weeks in person. She was hands down and is hands down the best woman I ever dated. Couldn’t get her off my dick, she constantly blew up my phone, cleaned and cooked me dinner before we lived together (yes she cleaned my house before we lived together) and did I mention this girl would not stay off my dick? Our relationship was starting to wind down. Why? She was a student from abroad. We both knew this day was co…
/r/askMRP01/09/18 03:27 PM
7

It’s really obvious that you don’t frequent married red pill. If you do then shame on you because your wife being negative is all on you. All of the readings teach it and with enough attention to detail you’ll see that your wife behaves however you let her. If your wife is negative to you it’s because she doesn’t respect you and that’s your fault for not being respectable. This wasn’t post a RP lesson. This was a glorified victim puke and nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 02:20 PM
4

I hate to say this but you’re a great example. This sub preaches making great money, being strong and being attractive. It doesn’t always work. When I got my first very hot girlfriend I was living at home making $400 every other week and 125lb. My girlfriend, now wife, was older and college educated but decided to be with me instead of guys like you. She always had fun with me and finished. She wanted nothing to do with the lame ass guys who had nice cars, clothes and big houses. Why? Because th…
/r/askTRP31/08/18 04:02 PM
1

Couldn’t agree more. I think my biggest transformation was when I started treating women like men. I would josh them and say silly shit just to stir them up. Then I would show interest with a compliment, eye contact or touching sensually.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 01:07 PM
2

Keep your friends close and your enemies even closer. If you do go through divorce you folllow the guides here. You want to do damage control and the best way to do that is by being her friend. Make the split appear to be amicable. The harsh reality though is nothing of yours is guaranteed to be yours forever. You’re going to lose everything that you have in the end. The less attached you can be the easier it is to kill the puppy.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 01:03 PM
2

It’s terrible that they can do that. My wife does stuff to me like that sometime. I don’t have any dates lined up but I’ve got plenty of stuff to keep me busy away from her.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 01:00 PM
2

That’s good that you recognized her abusive behavior. How are you holding up since the split?
/r/askMRP29/08/18 11:18 PM
3

I think the best thing to do is forget about the money. When I signed a lease to a townhome I knew that regardless of what I did I was never getting that damn deposit back. I treat my marriage exactly the same. I expect to lose every damn thing I care and love about. I think that when you do this then you can prepare yourself for the day it arrives.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 11:14 PM
3

I think that if your wife is one to use your cry for help as ammo for a future battle, it makes for a very easy choice on killing the puppy.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 11:11 PM
2

How is your relationship now?
/r/askMRP29/08/18 11:09 PM
27

Bro, I was just like you. I could make everyone laugh their ass off but I could never use that energy to get women. It took me until my early 20s to realIze that teasing and telling jokes are the same thing. Having a large vocabulary and being aware of current events or pop culture gives you mounds of ammunition. What worked for me is just poking fun at a woman about something. For instance, I was at a frat party for New Years. I saw this gorgeous hot piece walking around. She was collecting bee…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 11:02 PM
2

Well being an entrepreneur isn’t easy and it’s definitely not easy without a plan. You need to figure out what kind of value you offer.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:14 PM
1

I don't know what to do Unfortunately, you need to figure this out on your own. Make a road map for your life and start moving in the direction that you want to go. Also, forget about your past. I dropped out of college 2 times and now I’m back in my mid 20s as a sophomore working on my bachelors in IT. It’s not easy to start over but it’s better than quitting.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 04:21 PM
1

You and I have a very similar story. Most people do need TRP. I was having a conversation with my best friend over the weekend and we talked about sex. My friend has a live in girlfriend and I’m married. We talked about the frequency of sex and I said it’s on average 3-6 times a week and every other week or so I have two lays in a day. My friend was shocked because he is having once per week. He asked me what I would do if I were him. I looked him square in the face and said I’d dump her. Being …
/r/askTRP27/08/18 04:18 PM
1

a person who is excessively dependent upon or controlled by something. By definition we are slaves. We need air, food, water, sex and a social network. Without any one of those things we die or will die much sooner. I think you’re just looking too much into the negative side of life’s aspects. There are many enjoyable aspects of life.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 03:37 PM
1

Lmfao dude she cooks like a champ and cleans the house all day. I do not blame him one bit.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 03:26 PM
3

So this is a hypothetical post?
/r/askTRP25/08/18 03:41 PM
4

In my experience my mother never said one good thing about him. She brainwashed me and it took years to undo the damage.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 01:03 PM
3

Same exact thing happened to my dad. He gave her everything including custody. 15 years later he’s living in a half million dollar house making $350k a year and she always says, “Your father is as broke as the day I met him.” She has no idea his business that she put down kicked off and he’s happily enjoying the fruits of his labor married to another woman.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 10:34 PM
0

Definitely the anger phase.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 10:31 PM
-2

I'd argue that girls in general are just - no easy way to say this but I'll give it a shot- not easy to hold a conversation with. not easy to hold a conversation with. So you didn’t say this? I must be quoting someone else.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 09:46 PM
10

Tell it like it is. My mother continues to lie to me to this very day. She will find a way to complain about him every chance she gets. My dad set the story straight when I was old enough and we haven’t talked about since.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 09:37 PM
43

We talked calmly about it but it was a shock to me. I’d always heard a different story from my mom. After recounting my childhood during their divorce and then being a victim of physical and verbal abuse from her I realized that he was telling me the truth. Once my dad told me why he left it all made sense and I’ve never looked at my parents the same way again. Mind you this happened when I was 7 and I found out in my early 20s. You can only imagine the confusion I had.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 07:05 PM
5

Why do you expect women with feminine qualities to discuss masculine qualities? I’m a STEM major and I know my wife gives zero fucks about there being over 500,000 miles of internet cabling wrapped around the world. Guess what I don’t talk to her about? If you’re having a hard time having a conversation the issue is you. As men we are able to bridge the gap between having silly nonsensical conversations, which is the majority of gaming and then serious intellectual talk that requires problem sol…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 04:38 PM
8

This right here. My wife is just hot enough to where everyone tells me but not hot enough to know it.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 04:30 PM
1

Hey great post but the reason why your boys didn’t make it is because you pushed TRP on them. You talked about fight club and expected them to give a shit about their lives as much as you do yours. Your intentions are honest and genuine. I can’t say I haven’t tried myself but the reality is we can lead a horse to water but we can’t make it drink.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 04:16 PM
4

I found TRP after marriage so posts like this are a little difficult to swallow. I’m young and have no kids but I have no plans of leaving my wife. I realize that divorce rape is a real thing but the reality is that just as “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn” is true for many facets of life. Your money today is not yours it’s just yours for now. Your health isn’t good for you it’s good for now. The list can go on and on if what is ours today is potentially gone tomorrow. In my opinion I think…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 04:12 PM
105

Shit like this is why my father left my mother. She physically abused my father until he couldn’t take it anymore. Years later he told me that he left because he was afraid that he’d hit her back and wind up in jail.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 03:59 PM
1

Is this a serious post or a troll post?
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:05 PM
-3

The irony is all of my comments are shit tests.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:09 AM
-2

Funny, I think I learned about question marks when I was five or so.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:56 AM
-24

I think you do. Your asking guys to shit test you and you're expecting it to help you with women shit testing you. First off, men and women shit test in different ways. If we shit test you it's not because we secretly want to see if you're good to mate with. Secondly, being online where you have all the time in the world to come up with a response doesn't help you. You're not developing the skills neccessary to be quick on your feet. Thirdly, you're not getting the actual adrenaline rush from sa…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:38 AM
-22

How would being shit tested by men help you game women or are you gay?
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:22 AM
1

Your definitely going to get noticed in class. I’d think you’d be better off not expressing interest in class. She could not want to show the entire class that she’s into someone especially if it’s a small intimate class. Regardless of how easy the class is it’s more about not having a reason to dislike coming to class. It’s your option but I always had a rule to never shit where I ate. I’ve seen it go wrong so many times with too many friends. After my last girlfriend I never even dated girls i…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 11:06 PM
3

I wish I wouldn’t have dropped out twice. I wish I wouldn’t have did drugs. I wish I didn’t spend time drinking instead of studying. I wished I’d have talked to an adult with a college education and learned what it could actually do for me and how they dramatically change your life. I wish I’d have taken the student loans instead of just dropping out. I wish I didn’t buy into the lie that everyone has a degree. Take it from a 25 year old who works full time, with a mortgage, a wife and goes to s…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 11:01 PM
1

If you have insomnia it’s not your only issue. You’ve either got a health issue in regards to something like sleep apnea or you’ve got mental health issues which could range from anxiety to anything in between. I’d suggest you see a doctor and check for sleep apnea. If you don’t have that then I would suggest seeing a psychologist. If you have insurance check to see if you’re covered for mental health. You can call the number on the back of your card and ask customer service. It’s not very expen…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 10:50 PM
2

Could just be you. When I was single i straight up grabbed a woman by the ass and made out with her in front of friends and 20 people. Given, I was hammered but I think I’d still done it cause she was a dime. I’m in college now and honestly I’d say don’t shit where you eat. Your in the class to learn. There’s thousands of girls on campus who you won’t have to see every day if you find out she’s a feminazi and need to next her ass.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 10:45 PM
3

There comes a time where the grief you hold that which you use as part of how you define yourself, has a negative impact on your life. Let it go. You are your own worse enemy. You're absolutely right. I don't struggle as much as I used to but as I replied in a previous thread on this comment of mine, I am thinking about therapy to resolve a lot of my childhood issues. The hard part is that you got to dedicate yourself to that choice, every fucking day. One of the biggest things that helped me wa…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 06:36 PM
4

Those who grew up with more comfort will actually have a harder time synthesizing their own manhood because of a lack of painful stimuli... as crazy as that sounds. It doesn't sound crazy at all. Out of all my best friends' I am the only person who grew up in my situation. All of my friends' came from a two family home where they all had loving families and great siblings. I've noticed that having to learn to fend for myself at a young age put me at an advantage. However, I had a lot of anger an…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 06:31 PM
22

I’ll admit that I’m a bit triggered by this post. I do blame my father for walking out on my verbally and physically abusive mother. I do blame my father for never stopping my brother from beating me to an inch of my life and threatening to kill me every day while I was a child and even up until my teens. I’m 25 now and married and I promised myself that I would never do to my children what my father did to me and that was to let a child live in fear every day because he had no one to trust beca…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 01:53 PM
1

What is really strange about posts like this is that I can’t keep my wife away from me. When I see I posts like this that talk about the wife going off and doing her own thing it seriously puzzles me.
/r/askMRP17/08/18 05:07 PM
0

I think the real root cause of this issue is related to the Japanese culture of worklife balance. Most Japanese people work in excess of 50-60+ hours per week. The work is often stressful and has even resulted in the creation of a new word for death from overwork. The Japanese word Karoshi means “overwork death” and it was created in the 70s because of the epidemic that was from people dying from or at work. I suspect that the Japanese have not only given up on women but they have also given up …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 07:39 PM
1

Aside from reading the fucking sidebar, don’t game people you already know. Game outside of your social circle. If you game women you already know you’re just wasting your time. If you’re as much of a faggot as you sound you’re already likely put into the gay friend category or autistic man child category. If you’re not understanding this material from the sidebar you need to read it like you would if you were being tested on it. I’m not asking you to make a damn flash card set on quizlet but pu…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:40 PM
4

Can confirm this is all true. My wife is Brazilian. The men there are not like they are where I am from in the U.S. They’re very redpilled so acting like a BP chump is a turnoff. They love macho men but love to complain about it. Just last week she said I am too macho so I replied “then why are you with me?” No response. And just for the record, I do all of the stuff the poster above said in bed. I don’t hurt her but I rough her up good and always treated her like I’d never get another taste. Be…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:25 PM
0

Doesn’t matter where it originates. All that matters now is that you are seeing the world for how it truly is. We don’t need theories for how the media is brainwashing us because we aren’t trying to save the world. Everyone is out for themselves, as it was originally intended. Time spent wondering why people, groups or organizations invest time into brainwashing you is time that could be spent fixing all the fucked up shit they did to you.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 12:53 PM
1

That’s easy. Constantly feeling the need to entertain your wife is needy. Don’t be needy and you’re automatically attractive.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 03:30 PM
2

Jeez, you sound like me from a parallel universe. I was bullied a lot when I was younger. I played video games, did the porn, and always kept to myself. I did have a small group of friends but I’ve always been somewhat distant from them. You say you don’t know how to have fun and I hear that all the time from my friends. Having fun for me was learning something new or creating something after the video games stopped. My wife even tells me now that I don’t know how to have fun. I think the real q…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 05:54 PM
1

Your username checks out. ✅
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/18 04:33 PM
1

The market sets the price of steak and spaghetti so it’s not possible for me as an individual to lower the value of spaghetti. The collective whole, the market, has made the choice that steak costs more therefore it’s of higher value and more desired. If you’re basing your love off spaghetti which is an economically lower valued food than steak than you, in your own words, said that you value something lower than steak. Instead of speaking in metaphors, which you’re clearly not capable of, speak…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/18 04:11 PM
1

You misinterpreted my response and gave a passive aggressive response. You should read what I wrote again. Also, if you think your wife is not steak then you are with the wrong woman. Regardless of who I have sex with its steak, because I’ve only ever eaten steak.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/18 02:53 PM
2

I agree with your last paragraph. I think having regular sex and then telling that you’re going to fuck other women is stupid. Unless your SMV is very high I don’t see this being a smart move.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 09:37 PM
1

Where did he say this?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 06:08 PM
1

Holy shit. Really?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 05:01 PM
7

They do. I’m in college and I’ve studied with older women.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:07 PM
16

There’s no way you genuinely believe this. I’m married so my relationship status is a somewhat different level than yours but let’s put them on equal ground because the situation is applicable and definitely appropriate to compare. Let’s say my wife works irregular hours so she can go to college. She takes evening classes and studies late after school. She meets new friends in college both men and women. Rather her spend time studying with other women she instead gravitates towards studying with…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:41 PM
2

Lol
/r/askTRP09/08/18 11:45 AM
66

You let your woman hang out with a man who calls her a bitch and a whore? No wonder why she fucks him. You’re a pussy.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 11:45 AM
8

Wow, this kind of blew me away. I feel dumb for never realizing this.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 02:18 AM
3

Whew, you just described me. Not sure if this is me in another alternative universe but just in case I’ll go ahead and give advice that I wish someone told me. Quit acting like a faggot!!! Hit on girls, get laid and stop being a nice guy. That last one is so unbelievably crucial. It should be overly clear from your female friends that your dick gets wet. If it’s not clear it’s because you’re not acting masculine around them. Plain and simple.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 08:14 PM
1

Can’t say I agree with you. Many years back when my SMV was shit I got cheated on plenty regardless of the ethnicity. In my experience, my woman is very submissive and openly states that the man should be the head of the household. You won’t find that from the women in my country. They’re brainwashed into believing that they want independence and responsibility yet they’re unhappy when they receive it.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 10:05 AM
1

I was trying to figure out where all the butt hurt was coming from but now I get it. Your girlfriend pegs you so you’re afraid to leave her because you worry that other women might not be into it. How about you come in here with a better question if you want a serious response.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:48 PM
2

Well, I did it by marrying a Latin woman.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:32 PM
2

Why are you asking us for permission to flirt with women? Also, lol if you think your Asian model girlfriend has only been with one guy. The oneitus is strong.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:27 PM
1

It’s good advice if you value the place.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:25 PM
1

Oneitus.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:22 PM
7

I get shit test from my older brother all the time now when we meet up in front of family or wherever other people are. Once I took on RP principles and then actually found TRP his shit test have been nonstop. I usually AA, STFU or make a joke about him being a farmer boy. The crab bucket mentality is real and the more you improve yourself the more it will show.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:16 PM
1

You must be new around here if you think a woman will tell you her n count.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:31 PM
2

If a woman is asking how much you make she can never be promoted above a plate.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:32 PM
1

I still think this goes back to the BP mindset of having or wanting/needing to give back to the world. You don’t need to give a shit about anything but yourself.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 06:34 PM
5

Found the other angry Beta
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 06:28 PM
4

Classic anger post. BP Beta Chump lets every woman walk all over him and now he sees all women as cheating whores.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 06:19 PM
1

I agree. I worked 70 hours a week and ripped every day.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 06:13 PM
1

I disagree with this post because it implies that your only success in life is built off having a non-average car, house, watch, phone, job or some other useless factor to validate your time on this earth. Even the amount of pussy you smash is a useless number if you’re a miserable SOB.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 06:10 PM
4

Grandmas ass cheeks Please tell me someone knows what this is from.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 01:02 AM
1

I agree with your last statement. I don’t get the same excited sex that I did when her and I were desperately looking for a place to smash. I didn’t have my own place so it was parks after dark, parking lots or abandoned/unfinished neighborhoods. I think that this should be expected but the reality as you become older is that you desire less of what is normal. Sex is not my mission any longer so now I am less butt hurt from not having sex,
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 06:16 PM
1

That’s understandable. I said dumb shit last night because “I thought I had her” with my logic and reasoning. I can imagine your particular situation being very frustrated. I don’t think I’d be able to not cheat. Props to you for the mental power.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 11:46 PM
1

Yeah, it happens.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 11:44 PM
1

Fair call. I don’t think once or twice a week is compulsive. I’d see it as an issue if it was my only outlet. Thanks
/r/askMRP16/07/18 10:29 PM
1

Do you think that was wise of you to threaten? Seems like you’re negotiating.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 10:28 PM
1

That’s ballsy. Well, have you done it?
/r/askMRP16/07/18 08:05 PM
2

I’ll check myself.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 07:25 PM
3

I really don’t care what she doesn’t find attractive anymore. Without being autistic I just do what I want and if she doesn’t like it I just AA or STFU. I don’t see a point to try not to be attractive because that to me is being in her frame. I’ll admit that definitely DEER’d and gave her the logic behind what I did. You’re right in that she didn’t need to here my reason because feelings will always prevail over logic for women so I basically wasted my time. Thanks for the input
/r/askMRP16/07/18 07:17 PM
1

That’s an interesting perspective. I never thought about that being a possible outcome from her knowing that I take care of myself. How did you let her know that you would stop and just game other chicks?
/r/askMRP16/07/18 07:13 PM
1

Would you care to briefly explain?
/r/askMRP16/07/18 07:12 PM
2

Thanks
/r/askMRP16/07/18 07:12 PM
2

Lmfao, that is brutal.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 06:05 PM
1

I am 25 and for the first 22 years of my life I thought I was a hardgainer. A hardgainer means that you don’t gain weight easily. As time progressed I realized that I wasn’t actually a hardgainer. I had a common disorder that goes by the name of Pussy Who Didn’t Try Hard Enough. I say that jokingly but you’d be surprised what your body is capable of. Until I started working in a steel mill environment where I lifted a couple thousand pounds of steel per day I didn’t realize that my body was a po…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 05:45 PM
1

Bro, if you’re giving a girl the tingles she is going to show up on time for her daily dose of D. You need to evaluate yourself, honestly. Why would she not want to spend time with you? You’re supposed to be a rad ripped dude who screams alpha. If she is coming up with lame excuses not to see you then she might see something you don’t. Be your harshest critic and keep at it.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 05:36 PM
2

Why don’t you respond to the questions and comments here?
/r/askMRP16/07/18 05:30 PM
8

As a married man I couldn’t agree more. If you’re doing all the things in this sub you’re going to get laid. Your wife can either recognize you’re the one to be giving it to her or that you’re going to be giving it to other people. There is absolutely no reason to stay in a sexless marriage if you’re high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 03:53 PM
66

Exactly. I’m married and I have sex 3-6 times a week. Most of the time that I don’t have sex is because I’m too busy with other things.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 03:50 PM
1

OYS #3 7/14/18 Little late to the party but I am here. Basic Stats 25, 5'7", 157lb, BF Unknown but estimated somewhere between 21-24%. Lifts - Stronglifts (variation) I have been on Stronglifts for three months now. I decided to modify it slightly by benching, rowing and overhead pressing every day. I am now squatting and deadlifting every other day. I am deadlifting the same volume as I am squatting. Squat - 180lb Bench - 110lb PR Row - 120lb PR Overhead Press - 75lb PR Deadlift - 140lb Side Ba…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/18 08:55 PM
1

When you’re not married I’d stick to it. I can’t tell you how many dumb useless fucking conversations I had with women I didn’t sleep with. All that time I spent is gone so take it from an older guy and don’t feed the hamster.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 05:19 PM
3

This. I’m 25 and an analyst so by default I come into class dressed better than the young guys. I always have a few girls hit on me but I don’t bite. I don’t shit where I eat plus I am married.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 05:16 PM
1

I’m 25 and married. It’s my third time back in school and I’ve got 3-5 years to go depending on how many classes I can knock out. I go in the evening so most of my classmates are my age. If they’re not they don’t bother me and I don’t bother them. I’ve had 18 year old friends, 25 year old and been friends with professors. College as an older adult is just like it is when you’re young adult. Nobody gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 05:13 PM
9

I listen to Patrice O’Neal from time to time on iHeartRadio and I had no idea he died. I’d bet you’re not going to find much information out there that was as blunt as him. He was a true rebel in the sense that he said it exactly like it was. The fact that he was even given such a large medium to give his point of view is beyond me.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 05:03 PM
1

One of the biggest ways I fixed road rage and calling everybody a cunt was listening to iHeartRadio comedy stations. My hour to and from work is now full of laughing and crying from good jokes. Aside from the gym it’s my favorite part of the day.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 04:53 PM
2

I agree 100%. This mindset should be adopted towards everything. We can’t control what happens to us. We can lose our job Monday, total our cars this evening or even become paralyzed or develop cancer. You have to accept what life throws at you. It doesn’t mean you won’t be upset but you’ve got to accept realty and struggle through your hardship.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:32 PM
7

Wood frame...
/r/askTRP13/07/18 10:23 PM
2

Target was my go to place for a long time. They have cheap clothes that look good. You don’t need fancy ass clothes to pick chicks up. I see clowns walking around all the time dressed to the nines because they spent all their time on picking out clothes when they should have been working on their game.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:26 PM
1

All I have to say is that you are a giant pussy. Next time you post in here tell us how great you feel for nexting your bitch of a fiancé.
/r/askMRP13/07/18 04:22 PM
3

I want to say “imagine being her father” but it’s very fucking clear she ain’t got one. 🤣
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 04:06 PM
1

Next him. Get a new Dad.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:56 PM
2

As a married RP man I’m going to chime in here. Everyday I wake up I expect my wife to cheat on me. I expect her to cheat on me not because she is unfulfilled but because I have accepted the fact that it is only my turn. When you bring a woman to completion every time, look great with your clothes off and generally have your shit together...you don’t care if you’re going solo or taking someone along with you. My wife is my companion. She follows me and if she ever decides to hop off there are pl…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:52 PM
1

Bro, I get shit tested hard by men but particularly one in general. My brother is the biggest douche bag ever. He loves and I mean loves to shit test me. We saw my grandfather at his 90th birthday and all he did was talk shit about me in front of my two uncles whom I haven’t seen in ten years and my grandpa who he hasn’t seen in five years. When people pick on you it’s because they’re jealous. I have a marginally better life than my brother. I have the job he wanted, my wife is a hot foreign pie…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:29 PM
3

If that’s how you handled that guy you did great. What would have not been great is feeling bad for letting your nipples show. Show your nipples like you just don’t care.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:22 PM
18

This isn’t a question. Quit larping faggot.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:18 PM
1

My wife loves to ask these hypothetical questions. Answering hypothetical question is a waste of your time. You’re better off just trolling when you get questions like that. Your answer changes nothing because the situation hasn’t happened. Treating a mythical scenario as if it were real is just getting into their frame. My wife and I are buying a house this month. I had made some comment about how my name is on the loan so I should do all the paperwork. She wanted to help but she was slow so th…
/r/askMRP13/07/18 03:15 PM
8

Lmfao you’ll cover your dick in bacteria from shit but you won’t put harmless blood on it. If your wife has AIDS you probably shouldn’t be fucking at all.
/r/askMRP13/07/18 02:43 PM
2

If you absolutely need to add anything do chin ups, dips and ab roller. I have been doing stronglifts for almost four months now. You don’t need all that extra bullshit. I’m 5’7” 155lb Overhead press - 70lb Row - 115lb Bench - 105lb Squat - 175lb Deadlift- 140lb I did 36 workouts to get to that. I started with the bar on everything but squats. Squats I started at 95lb. It’s a good program and I’ve seen great progress. The only complaints I read online about it are that your lower body progresses…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 02:33 PM
3

Period week is is the same as the other three weeks. Only difference is I’m washing a lot more towels. Quit being a faggot and take a blood bath.
/r/askMRP13/07/18 12:28 PM
1

This doesn’t make a bit of fucking sense. This isn’t her first time with this type of behavior so you’re trying to fix it? How about you grow a pair and next the bitch?
/r/askTRP12/07/18 07:17 PM
1

How about you dissuade other’s from DEERing by STFU? You care WAY too much. The amount of energy you’ve invested to prove your point of view to someone could have been better spent doing what? Reading, lifting, or STFU right??
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:15 PM
1

You care way too much. Read it again.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:29 PM
0

No, it’s not because TRP is amoral and I don’t have to justify the way I feel or think.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:25 PM
1

TRP is amoral. Do us all a favor and read the rules & sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:13 PM
1

I don’t care what other women do or don’t do.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:03 PM
2

I heard tampons are gender neutral.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:57 PM
1

If you aren’t interested in her then what the hell is this thread about??
/r/askTRP11/07/18 05:45 PM
1

Well if the mother is 9000lbs that would be enough to make me run haha. I’d say tread lightly because she seems like a wildcard.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 05:28 PM
5

1) I don’t know all the details but if you make a promise or say you’re going to do something then you need to do it. I’ve realized that’s a huge huge issue on my part. I am a man of many words but little action. I’d say yes just to shut her up and “commit” without committing. I’ve had to learn to pick my battles. “No” has been added to my arsenal. 2) Housechores suck ass but they got to get done. I am young so there is always a possibility of divorce due to me being a dumbfuck or just not wanti…
/r/askMRP11/07/18 05:17 PM
2

It appears that you try to get an answer out of her when she doesn’t want to speak. 1) This is what women do. Problem: Its needy Solution: STFU and DNGAF. Your woman should not be swearing or name calling you. My wife never talks to me like this. The only time we ever got in a heated discussion and curse words entered was during my stupid Rambo session. I allowed it by being a dumb fuck and it hasn’t happened since If your woman is regularly swearing to you then you need to set a hard boundary a…
/r/askMRP11/07/18 04:59 PM
8

Think about it this way. You don’t congratulate her for becoming fit. You’re supposed to be fit. Congratulating her for getting fit is like congratulating her for studying. She should have been studying, fit, financially smart or whatever fits the case. I’d have no problem pounding a girl who got fit but I’d be apprehensive to put her above a plate status. She likely had mental health issues or other bullshit excuses that “made her fat.” Do you really want to deal with that when you’re further d…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:39 PM
8

Rofl
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:34 PM
9

I’m not experienced as the others. My combined lifts barely make it above 300 and I have not read most of the books. However, I did read what you wrote and I took some things into consideration. 1) You’re being an asshole. Why? Your wife didn’t know that you weren’t going home to your kids. You’re just going off and doing whatever you want. I’d be pissed off if my wife did that shit to me. In fact, she was pulling that shit on me and I sat her ass down and told her that I didn’t need to know her…
/r/askMRP11/07/18 04:25 PM
4

Lmfao I know right. I can’t get over all these LTR guys coming in here asking what they should do. We need a big sticky that says fucking leave her ass.
/r/askMRP11/07/18 01:16 PM
3

What’s the question? Am I a little bitch because I let a woman who I’m not legally bound with to fuck me over because I have zero self respect and no options? Yes you are. Now what are you going to do about it?
/r/askMRP11/07/18 01:13 PM
13

What I don’t get is you’ve spent over a year on the sidebar but still don’t comprehend it. Have you thought about seeing a doctor to have your head checked out? The 12 levels of dread should be complete by now. You should be educated, swoll and pounding other chicks by now. Instead you’re what, proud that you haven’t touched your dingaling in 4 weeks??? Wow congratulations!!! You’re in an LTR of 8 years with a woman who won’t fuck you and when she does she sucks at it and those are your words. W…
/r/askMRP10/07/18 06:55 PM
40

This right here.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 02:41 PM
1

Because I did the very same thing. I lifted but never to a program.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 11:49 AM
3

Outcome independence is one of the many tools we need. As a married man I am starting to see just how much better my life is getting the more I focus on myself and not my marriage. I used to think that the key to a good marriage was being a good beta boy by taking care of things that were outside of my control. Lifting, being sociable, dressing well and handling your shit are all ways of increasing your outcome independence.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 04:22 PM
1

This got me right in the feelz.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:01 PM
4

Best bj I’ve ever had was from a fat chick. I think it’s exactly the case.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 03:53 PM
2

How do we know that you don’t just suck at seeing red flags? It’s not hard to believe she did it but damn dude. You blind?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 10:09 PM
10

LTRs are not TRP on hard mode. Marriage is TRP on hard mode. You can tell a ho good bye but I can’t do the same to my wife. The stakes are significantly different. Good on you to notice those red flags. No point to buy the cow if everyone gets a free drink.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 04:41 AM
1

Bro +1 man. Thanks a lot
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/18 04:30 PM
2

Thanks, it’s good to know I’m a captain to somebody.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/18 02:04 PM
0

Couldn’t agree more. I’m happily married with sex on demand but there is another phat ass girl at my gym that I would gladly take to pound town. I used to beat myself up for feeling this way. Then I realized that this behavior is normal and that the married men who claim they don’t have wandering eyes are liars. Married women and even my wife will never admit that they secretly want another man too. It’s part of our internal hardwiring that’s locked away for when we need it. We’re all pretending…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 01:48 PM
1

Hey thanks, I should have clarified that I can’t find it on desktop view.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/18 11:21 PM
3

If you can’t take criticism without DEERing all over the place you can always stick to writing in your journal during your weekly bubble bath.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 11:12 PM
1

And I said “how are you going to do it?” You’re right. This isn’t a brag post. It’s a feel good post and that’s exactly my point. In this sub we discuss strategy on how we plan to achieve the goals in our lives. Discussing what we want out of our lives is the preliminary to that strategy. Again, this is an unfinished post. Most of the readers are young and they will waste their entire day fantasizing about what cars they want to drive and the sluts they want to pound. You missed introducing obje…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 10:33 PM
1

If that’s how you truly feel then next time write a full post. Encouraging people to think about what their ideal life is nice but most people stop there. People mistake thinking for work and it’s not. Telling me you want a yacht is average. Every guy wants a yacht. I want to know how you plan on earning the money to buy that yacht. Talk is cheap.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 10:11 PM
1

Definitely. OP thinks he’s unplugged but I bet she’s saying all sorts of nasty stuff to other men while he’s patiently waiting for his starfish duty sex.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 09:57 PM
22

It took me 3 more years than the average kid to ride a bike. My dad was never there to teach me and my mom was always off doing her own thing after the divorce. I was 8 years old when I finally learned how to ride my bike. Every day I went outside and every night I came home bruised, bloodied and sometimes even crying. I was so very sure that one day I would learn to ride my bike. Eventually I did learn to ride my bike and it was one of my happiest moments because I did it all by myself. I even …
/r/askTRP05/07/18 09:30 PM
9

This post doesn’t offer any value. We can all fantasize about what money means to us but until we create a plan to earn this money, this is nothing more than what little girls do when they play house and imagine their dream beta husband.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 09:14 PM
1

OYS #2 7/5/18 Basic Stats 25, 5'7", 153lb, BF Unknown but estimated somewhere between 21-24%. I appear to be fluctuating weight more than I thought. I tend to go from 152-158 with ease.. Lifts - Stronglifts Squat - 170lb Bench - 105llb Row - 105lb Overhead Press - 55lb Deadlift - 130lb Side Bar The sidebar seems to have disappeared on MRP so I have not done any readings. Health I have been feeling much better now that I am able to squat again. I had pulled a muscle that prevented me from squatti…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/18 08:20 PM
1

That was the longest DEER I’ve got in a while.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 07:24 PM
2

On point. If she was dripping wet for this guy it would be the other way around.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 07:18 PM
-3

With all your unnecessarily hostile language, I’d argue that judgemental guys like you are why most people don’t go to the gym. I don’t doubt you silently breath down others necks critiquing their form instead of minding your own business like an alpha.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 07:02 PM
15

What kind of click bait shit is this? You don’t think this sub is ready for your knawledge?? I’ll have you know I’m sitting in my garage full of Lamborghini’s while reading one of my favorite books. Get out of here with this shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 12:40 PM
1

Is this why women will share a high value man?
/r/askMRP03/07/18 04:56 PM
0

I have to agree. There’s a reason why we have this sub. It’s to consult after we’ve done our reading. Every situation is different so there’s not a one size fits all. Sure you can lift, stfu and take ownership of your life but if your wife doesn’t care because she’s sucking Chads cock then he should ask if he should rebuild his marriage or detonate that bitch. He shouldn’t keep trying to fix up the house to get his wife wet. Chads already taking care of her.
/r/askMRP03/07/18 04:54 PM
1

Good call. Stay woke.
/r/askMRP03/07/18 04:50 PM
1

Lmfao, that’s a good one.
/r/askMRP03/07/18 04:50 PM
1

The real question is, are you lifting?
/r/askTRP03/07/18 04:45 PM
7

This attitude right here is why I’m waiting for an opportune moment to have a threesome with the wife. Women will deny and deny but they’re always up for anything with a high value man.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 04:29 PM
16

Until I was 22 I was always 125lb. After doing progressive overload I went up to 155lb and got more muscle mass. Since May of this year I’ve been doing stronglifts and the difference I’ve seen in body change is insurmountable. My wife can’t keep her hands off me now and she has got some serious mate guarding going on. What makes it so wild to believe is I’ve only just begun. It makes me wonder how wild my wife is going to be when she sees me at 190lb. I’ve never had issues with having sex from t…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 04:19 PM
10

What an utter waste of time this was to read.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 12:07 PM
1

Look at you, DEERing right on cue.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 09:52 AM
1

Why is your squat and deadlift low? Do you have a medical condition?
/r/askMRP02/07/18 03:19 PM
3

If you’re having trouble gaining weight and muscle you need to see a doctor. After he says you’re okay you need to accept that you aren’t lifting enough. You’ve got to lift heavy weights to exhaustion. Stronglifts is a good program because it works. I regularly eat two of each meal and snack in between because there is a furnace in my belly demanding that I feed it. Lift the weights and feed the furnace. As far as flirting with other women at work. Fuck feeling guilty. My wife is a hot piece of …
/r/askMRP02/07/18 03:16 PM
6

Guy talks about the sidebar yet DEERs every chance he gets and talked about fight club. You didn’t post this pathetic piece in MRP because we’d laugh you out of the sub.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 02:35 PM
2

It is for MRP. If you are not married you don’t need 12 levels of dread. It’s for us marrried guys because you don’t next and ghost your wife because she didn’t text you back.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 01:06 PM
3

It’s a great point up until #metoo.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 11:34 PM
1

Now it’s awkward around the office he said. Imagine that.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 11:34 PM
2

This happened two weeks ago. Who’s to say in another two they don’t go to the police or HR with “he raped us?”
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 11:13 PM
17

I got married because my wife is a hot Latin that is very submissive. She plays the role of a good little housewife. My home is cleaned and the food is always on the table. She cooks fresh, non-frozen meals, and cooks only what I like. I reward her with my time and a good pounding when she’s a good girl. There’s always the possibility that she could leave and divorce me. And that would be quite alright, considering I’m in great shape with no issues attracting other women. Having oneitus for my w…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:48 PM
17

My bro text me last week telling us all he smashed two chicks at the same time. I was proud until he told me it was at his career job. Dumb.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 02:57 AM
6

Why do you give a shit about what some other guy thinks? If I call you a faggot are you going to cry and ask everyone if you’re a faggot too? Faggot
/r/askTRP30/06/18 04:51 PM
9

Dude, if your wife hints that she wishes she could have gotten with you later it means one thing. You are a beta bitch and she is just itching for an excuse to suck Chad’s cock. I can’t believe you’d let her say that. Why don’t you just give her what she wants and cuck yourself.
/r/askMRP30/06/18 04:43 PM
1

Yeah, I definitely have work to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/18 07:10 PM
1

OYS Reset 6/26/18 Can't remember the last time I owned my shit. Got to the point where I stopped caring about using the forum really. I started lurking again on both TRP and MRP the past 2 months. Basic Stats 25, 5'7", 156lb, BF Unknown but estimated somewhere between 21-24% Lifts - Stronglifts Squat - 155lb Bench - 100lb Row - 100lb Overhand Press - 50lb Deadlift - 125lb Side Bar Doing a restart from the top. Health Haven't felt this great in a long time. I switched over from doing whatever I w…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/18 04:46 PM
8

My wife was a big Christian. When I met her on the dance floor we were both a little drunk. I grabbed her by the pussy (naturally of course) and started to recite the sermon on the mound. We left 5 minutes after I got done. I don’t know if it was the fact that I recited the entire thing by memory or the fact that she was turned on by my obviously superior moral character but she got on my mound and recited all the vowels like a scholar.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:23 PM
2

I can attest to this. I’m happily married but from my early 20s to mid 20s I have become very attractive from lifting and increasing my self confidence. I get eyes everywhere I go and I am only average. It’s all about confidence and this is something you can build at any age. 30 is a piss in the pond. I am excited for my next 5 years. I want to be in the 1200 club, make close to 6 figures and be the first to have my degree in the family.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:42 PM
2

Bro hahah
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:33 PM
3

Hey, I’m sorry your dad died. Everyone dies at some point, it’s only natural. You’ll move on and life will get easier! By the way, did you know there’s no heaven or hell and we all just rot in the ground? Lmao dude. You can’t just open someone’s mouth and forcibly drug their ass. Surprised he didn’t deck your ass.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 12:50 PM
2

Hey, can you give us an update on this in a week or so I’d really like to know what you’re going to do. Good luck buddy.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 08:18 PM
1

Do you enjoy talking to your dad or grandpa? Where do you think they came from?
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:09 PM
1

Brb I’m going to be the president tomorrow
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:08 PM
3

Like a lot of people here are saying is they like to fix the wild side. I was a smoker before I met my wife. She hated cigarettes and cigars so one of the reasons I stopped was because of her. That is a great thing to change about yourself with or without the reinforcement of others. The problem is when women try to change the way you communicate or dress. They fail to realize the way you express yourself both verbally and appearance wise are what drove them to you in the first place. Quitting a…
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:04 PM
1

When you say be competent as possible that’s way too broad. What exactly do you want to be competent at? You can’t be competent at everything. You need to pick things that matter to you and become competent at those things. Being competent at your job is a good starter. Being competent at communicating with your customers, clients, bosses or stakeholders is a must. Being competent with money and making good financial decisions as well as non-financial related decisions is also a must. Your missi…
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:55 PM
2

If you went by yourself it’s totally normal. Just keep going out until you feel comfortable. I did that a lot when I was younger. My friends thought I was weird but eventually it broke me out of my shell and I became the life of the party everywhere I went. Socializing out in public is just like lifting weights in the gym. You are only going to get out what you put in.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:44 PM
1

I just vetted my wife really well. If you have any questions feel free to ask.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:42 PM
1

Lmfao
/r/askMRP25/06/18 04:28 PM
1

Sounds like you’re a nice guy. I suggest the Manual: What Women Want and How to Give it to them. The book changed my life. I didn’t have the body and I lived at home with my mom. I had no issues with women after internalizing that book.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:55 PM
3

I just got mad sick from the weather change from spring to summer. You sure it’s not seasonal?
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:52 PM
1

What kind of job do you have?
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:51 PM
6

Didn’t even bother to read the entire post. Women love hypothetical questions. My wife has one every day. I’m so smart my answer is the same for each one. Silence. You don’t owe them an explanation for how you’d act in a situation that hasn’t happened yet. That’s like coming up with an apology for cheating on your girlfriend before you even do it. Instead of “engaging” the hamster, you laugh it off and go on your way because you’ve got better shit to do than waste your time virtue signaling with…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 08:17 PM
3

As long as the class helps you on your mission to a better body and mind. I don’t see why any man would do Zumba but if that’s what gets him in the gym to lose weight more power to him. I’ve heard yoga is great for the mind and stretching. You’ll be able to squat lower and recover better. Pilates is supposed to be good for stretching and recovery as well.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:00 PM
8

His name was Joy? I’d divorce my parents if they did that to me.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:32 PM
3

I didn’t ask your life story. Quit DEERing. Drop the ego, read the sidebar and STFU.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 02:17 PM
5

Is nobody going to say anything about that last paragraph? What the fuck is all that shit about. Before you think about getting rich and lifting weights go see a psychologist because you sound like a sociopath. You want to be redpilled? Realize that you aren’t shit and you’re never going to be shit. We all die and most likely no one will ever remember who you are. Especially if you’re a whiny little shit at 18 who doesn’t lift and can’t communicate with others because he’s mistaken autism for in…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 12:37 PM
4

A lot of people are hounding the shit out of you but I’m really glad you posted. I needed to see this because a majority of the time I have alone time I fucking waste it. Very seldom do I do things I want or need to do. Last night my wife was at the gym doing her class so I had free time. I finally sat down and cleaned my guns, did some chores and just relaxed. This sub called me a big pussy for not going on guys trips. I’m actually going on my first one this weekend since being married and I’m …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 08:09 PM
0

Yeah then something is up. She’d probably be okay to smash but not LTR material. You wouldn’t want to wife a woman who can’t handle driving a car. Probably can’t handle having kids and then you wind up finding your kid dead in a bathtub because she had “anxiety” and needed to go clear her head for a minute.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:41 PM
7

So, you need to be roasted by strangers on the internet so you can get your life together? How about you quit looking for other people to tell you to stop being a victim and own your life. You are a fuck up, you know you’re a fuck up and now you want more people to tell you you’re a fuck up. What’s next? When do you man up and go to the gym? At what point are you going to say no to drugs and yes to good healthy choices. When do you decide to make a game plan, an action plan, a mission for your l…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:37 PM
1

OP where do you live? Big city or small? Some women don’t drive in big cities depending on the area. If she can walk every where it makes sense that she can’t drive. If she is needing rides everywhere she goes then that’s a red flag.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:26 PM
1

Not to hijack the thread but is it possible to give her alpha needs while also giving her beta needs?
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:22 PM
1

I realize this is an old post but I really enjoyed your comment.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 03:43 PM
1

Stick to the program. I started at 95lb squat and now I do 205lb. I’m scaling back a bit to work on my form. Just keep pushing.
/r/askMRP12/06/18 06:16 PM
0

You got a door?! You got a gym. Gym door!
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 05:47 PM
0

The problem is going after 1st world women. You need to find a woman from a second world country, strong father figure and acts like it’s the 50s. I have this particular situation and I love it. I have been married for three years and we have sex 3-6 times a week depending on how busy I am. She spends zero money because she’s not impressed with fancy makeup or expensive nonsense that most American women are. She tells me time and time again that I’m the man of the house and that she believes tha…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 08:06 PM
1

TRP isn’t a destination; it’s a journey. Take your time by reading the sidebar and soaking it all in.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 05:57 PM
0

Learn to be curious. Ask questions and then ask questions to their answers. You can’t run out of material to talk about with a woman. They will talk and open up to you very easily if you show genuine interest. The irony is that they will talk so much that they will enjoy hanging out with you and you become a good conversationalist to them even though they’re the one talking. I do this all the time with my wife. We have very little in common other than enjoying each other’s company.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 05:54 PM
3

I doubt many of them go around telling their husbands what they did in their former years. We all know it happens but women lie or leave out the other men because they “didn’t count.”
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 08:15 PM
-1

They should give it up because no man would willingly marry a woman who gave it up for free every weekend if he knew who she were. What guy would want to spend the rest of his life with a woman who had dozens and dozens of partners?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 04:22 PM
2

He didn’t and that’s why he doesn’t get the point. These women don’t typically get married because they’re what’s left at the bottom of the bucket. When and if they do get married it’s never to a high value man because an alpha would rather have a young hot piece of ass that he can mold into the woman he wants.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 04:19 PM
7

He’s not mad. This piece just reinforces that women will slut around in their younger years and then marry a beta when they’re no longer young and desirable. The point is to teach young men not to marry washed up whores who want a “reasonable” man. They could have had that man in their 20s but instead they sellout for free dinner, clothes and vacations.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 01:25 PM
1

My dad pulled the same shit on me. He left my family when I was ten and I was an effeminate pushover up until my early 20s. I learned to weld, read lots of self development books and hit the gym. My dad and I still talk but the only good he’s taught me is how to save and invest. Aside from that, books and successful living and dead men are my mentors. I stopped blaming my father a long time ago. It only bred resentment and frustration because he wasn’t there for me when I needed him most. What I…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 05:19 PM
4

That last sentence hit home hard. I’ve been married for a few years and the first year of marriage was absolutely rough. It was shit because I let her mold me and make decisions for me. Each time she asked or wanted a behavior out of me I gave it. I kept changing and changing because I thought that I could no longer be the bad boy who told her to piss off when she disrespected me. I went from being a badass doing as I please to walking on eggshells because I was scared she’d leave me. When I fou…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 05:01 PM
0

My best friends of ten years are BP to hell and back. The irony is that I’m the married one but with RP knowledge in my toolbox I am better off than they are. Thankfully I can openly talk with them about TRP but they heavily disagree. I’d love to get them to come around because TRP has made my life better in nearly every aspect.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 11:50 AM
1

I disagree. Frame isn’t that you control the world around you. Frame is controlling how you respond to the world and everything that happens in it.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 11:31 PM
1

Never seen this until now but yeah damn, that’s some frame.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 11:29 PM
3

Anything from Veggie Tales. It’s good subliminal redpill teachings from God fearing vegetables. You’ll make her an obedient wife in no time.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:53 PM
1

I say no because every time I’ve ever had sex with my wife and she’s asked for “romantic sex” it took a billion years for her to finish. I’d get to the point where I’d say fuck it and just caveman her. She’d only finish after that so now when she says it I just ignore her. She thinks she wants to get fucked nice and slow but she doesn’t. She would rather be tossed around, slapped and treated like shit until she’s screaming. It’s funny how the movies and drama shows she watch are why she thinks s…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:31 PM
1

Your stats are exactly why your wife is paying you zero attention. Get on the stronglifts program and work on yourself for a few months.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 03:56 PM
6

I can definitely agree with this. I’ve always had a decent build but after putting on some good chunk of muscle I can’t keep my wife off me. Everywhere I go with her women are always checking me out and in turn she becomes magnetized to me. If exclusivity turned women on then there would be no such thing as a deadbedroom. You’ve got to dread by physical abundance or be a high quality man who lifts and DGAF. Excellent FR.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 12:42 PM
9

I can also second OP's experience of girls getting off on fucking you the same day you fuck another chick. They love it. My wife must have missed that memo 😂
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 12:37 PM
6

That’s a deep question and a fair one at that. Fate does exist on some level. We don’t choose our parents or our biological sex. We are who we are but we don’t have a predetermined path.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 03:26 PM
3

Couldn’t agree more. I was that very kid because I thought I was invincible. I think another thing that helped me out was developing a solid posture. I stand at 5” 7’ and 155lb which is not much but when I go out I get asked if I’m in the military or police. A few months ago I was waiting outside a shitty concession stand in Atlanta by a bar and was mistaken for a bouncer numerous times. I think having a good posture that says don’t fuck with me is 90% of the battle because I haven’t been picked…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 10:00 PM
1

I’ve got time to kill so I’ll add onto this. I’ve been on my RP journey for about 6 months. When you start to make real strides from goal setting your friends won’t want to talk to you. I had a great group of friends that I have known very intimately for 10 years now. They don’t like that I talk about money, goals, fitness, and that I get laid more than they do. They won’t admit it but I see it when they ignore me in person and over chat. Eventually you will outgrow your friends because you real…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:11 PM
1

Lynda.com Coursera.com
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:55 PM
1

This right here. It took a while for me to accept my wife having partners but then I realized that she is hot. Hot women have sex. Hot women that don’t have sex have defects. Now that my lifts are getting better and my body is in shape she is doing her damn best to keep her King pleased because she sees all the looks I get. OP doesn’t have abundance because if he did he’d realize that she can and will leave if she chooses to regardless of how much dick she has or hasn’t had.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:25 PM
2

I used a lot of amused mastery when I was a dumbass kid in high school. Literally every time I did AA I nearly got my ass kicked. If it weren’t for them fearing suspensions or OSS I probably would have got my ass kicked several times. In the real world you don’t have teachers and administrators showing up to save your ass. My suggestion is to keep walking regardless of whether you can kick their ass.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:00 PM
9

Carrying has actually helped me stay out of fights. Most people don’t carry guns so knowing that I literally have the ability to take a life stops me from getting into a bad situation.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:56 PM
1

This is precisely what I was getting at. You’re the average of the five people you hang with.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:31 AM
-9

Money and job security do not make you redpill. If you hangout with computer science geeks at work guess what you’ll turn into?
/r/askTRP26/05/18 12:47 AM
12

This is one of the more appropriate answers I’ve read here. I did welding for a few years and everyone was redpilled. You carried your own weight, you had burns on your body, and you didn’t have to listen to women giggling and laughing like you do in my office all damn day.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 12:36 AM
13

Computer science is not redpill. Half of those guys are on the spectrum and the other half are just glad to have a place in the world.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 12:35 AM
3

Lots of engineers in my office and they all come off as bluepill. They’re big guys but they don’t lift.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 12:34 AM
2

You’d do the same thing you would if the server gave you a bill for a different table. You’d refuse the check and ask for it to be split. They can’t make you pay for your date and she can’t make you pay for her. If women want to be independent you need to give them the opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 02:48 PM
1

“Will you be paying together or separate?” Separate.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 10:30 PM
3

Now that I’m married I’d argue that even if you’re fucking them you shouldn’t care. 9/10 times if I voice my opinion or give her advice for her problem it goes unheard. I am learning to just laugh at her problems because they’re 99% inconsequential.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 04:24 PM
5

You need to go Dutch. After my ex got to enjoy the fruits of my labor without me getting anything in return I learned that Dutch is the way to go. You will quickly find out who is with you for money.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 11:44 PM
3

The manual “what women want and how to give it to them” W. Anton. It’s a crazy good book that doesn’t get talked about
/r/askTRP05/05/18 10:16 PM
1

I did the same thing to my wife while we were dating. This was before TRP times but I did have access to a lot of RP books like "The Manual." My wife was daddy's little girl who got everything she wanted. She had older guys constantly try to pick her up. They were doctors, engineers, and other successful business men. They all took her out to great restaurants and fun events but she never hit it off (or so she claimed). They were all very eager to spend every moment with her but I on the other h…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 03:55 PM
2

I really don't think that fitness has anything to do with political affiliation. I'm from America and in my country half of the 324 million people are overweight. A third of them are extremely obese. Some of those individuals who are fat and obese are my coworkers. They are not liberals by any means. Unless you can provide some sort of statistics or studies that were shown that people who lift are more X than Y I think it's better to not bother with such a useless debate. This election season I …
/r/askTRP05/05/18 03:39 PM
3

I’m 25 and I wish the school system did a better job at preparing us for life. They didn’t do shit and I’ll bet they haven’t helped you much either. I’m going to throw a few suggestions to you. First is this site https://www.bls.gov/ It has the descriptions of hundreds of jobs, degrees needed, growth over 10 years, and salary. Next thing I’ll suggest is you take a look at a resource called Allison. https://alison.com/ Why am I suggesting this site? I am suggesting this site because they have fre…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 10:03 PM
1

My wife keeps all of her stuff on her phone. Granted, she doesn’t really comprehend storage space but still. I would practice your catch and release as it looks like you’ll be releasing your gf back to the wild.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:41 PM
8

Tell them you’re from Canada. Some people are really offput by our love of freedom and bald eagles. Just talk about hockey and how good the cold is a. Throw in a story or two about a moose and you’ll get the goose.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:49 AM
1

I use a spreadsheet and a word document. The word document I call my handbook to success. It has a short paragraph about self discipline and then 8 subjects for success in no specific order. Body/Appearance, Finances, Profession, Marriage, Education, Social/Personal and Character. It has a few sentences or bullet points. The spreadsheet I call my habits/goal tracker. There’s two sheets. The first one is things I’m focusing on right now. For instance stronglifts is on there, college is and a remi…
/r/askMRP03/05/18 01:39 AM
2

Damn dude that is savage of her to say that. There’s no way you’re the only guy she’s seeing. Unless she is just barking, I’d definitely lean towards the side of not taking her seriously. You need to work on your abundance mentality. You don’t actually have to have literal abundance. The mere attitude of acting like you do have abundance is abundance. You’ve got all the important shit down but you’re just lacking frame. Edit: my rule of thumb was 3-5. If I couldn’t get the lay by date 5 then it …
/r/askTRP02/05/18 05:18 PM
0

Every day isn’t going to be perfect. I got Monday’s I love Friday’s I hate. Vice versa. Life is dynamic and so are your emotions. You can’t enjoy a good day without knowing a bad one.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:59 PM
2

Have you ever taught a woman to fuck or did you always get leftovers? One reason I know my wife had little to no experience when we dated is because I had to teach her everything. She was not very good but I was up for the challenge. You’ve got to learn their way of communication. Some people respond to negative reinforcement and others respond to positive. If you treat the wrong girl like shit she might accept it as a challenge but if you use that same mindset on another woman she may feel that…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:42 PM
3

Lmao. Or else she’ll ruin it? You mean, she won’t fuck you because then you might run. You obviously don’t have abundance mentality because she’d be all over you if you did. Think about it this way. She’s soo into you that she doesn’t want to fuck you. This says more about you then it does her.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:27 PM
6

Unless your face is buried in their legs you should not be smelling anything. If you don’t have the luxury of fucking a woman before she showers its inevitable that it will be a little smelly.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:24 PM
3

This. I have fucked in parks, at lakes, parking lots and got a bj in the back of my buddies minivan while he was dropping her off. A wise man once said “life will find a way.” He was talking about lesbian dinosaurs but it’s all relatable.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:21 PM
5

The reason why you aren’t going after girls when you don’t fap the jack is because you lose your libido for a little bit. I can’t explain it but today is day 22 for me of no fapping. The first 7-10 days I didn’t really want to have sex with my wife. She engaged every time. We normally have sex 3-5 times a week. Once week two came back my testosterone seemed to have floored. I had sex 6 times last week and twice yesterday. Along with being able to get more stuff done because I’m not browsing twic…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:08 PM
1

You’re obviously new here. We don’t talk about fight club because there is no club.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:00 PM
13

Her: “I’m tired of being with you so I’m leaving. You: “Do you need help packing?” Her: “You don’t think I’m serious?” You: “You’re still here?” It means you are the fucking prize. Beautiful women turn 18 every day but boys do not become men at 18. Men are the scarce resource.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:54 PM
1

Yes, this is definitely true. Very shortly after I didn’t STFU I knew that I made a mistake and then I was like okay then this is what I deserve. I learned from it much quicker than my past fights. I always thought it was the content of the fight they got me into trouble but it’s always been my attitude. I engage in her frame and then get wound up until I’m yelling like an idiot. I never remember any of my fights and I thought that I needed to. Now I know it’s not about the content but the act o…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/18 01:25 PM
2

You could always learn some new skills. Khan Academy, Allison, Coursera, Lynda (contact your local library for a free subscription), and MIT Open Courses are free. If you're a real nerd there's some books you can get. I recently found an astronomy book on openstax https://openstax.org/details/books/astronomy which is a free place for college level textbooks. Duolingo is a great way (free) way to learn a new language and so is pimsleur (paid). If you're not into learning academically you could re…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 09:08 PM
1

Funny how she doesn't consider the obvious fact that it took her so long to get her first kiss because she weighs 9000lb.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 07:47 PM
1

It has been said before but I agree that you're not intimidating and that means you need to lift. I'm not one to talk because I'm 150lb at 5'7 but it's just the reality for guys who aren't muscular. There is a reason why you don't see big guys getting picked on (most of the time) and it's because people respect and fear them. If you want to be feared and respected you've got to lift. In addition to that I think you should work on your frame. Do you stand up tall or do you slouch? Most guys fall …
/r/askTRP29/04/18 07:40 PM
3

You look big but you also look fat. Fitness works but not the way you’re doing it. You need to tighten up on your diet. Work on your self esteem too. Nobodies perfect. I’m white and I was extremely insecure for years about it. I’m not a ginger but I’m Irish and have very pale skin. I was made fun of for being too white all the time. I was scared to take off my shirt until my late late teens until I started to own and accept that this is the way I will look forever because I can’t tan. You need t…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:19 PM
1

You have to nuke what isn’t working for you.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 04:47 PM
1

Yeah it truly is. I’m sure I’ll fuck up again but I have improved dramatically. Most of the times I just laugh at her and point out how silly her reason to be mad at me is. It works 95% of the time and she’s way happier. I would have killed to have known this right when I got married. The first year of marriage was hell because I took everything so damn seriously. Now I’m refraining my brain to just let her get it out, laugh at her, give her a spank and then carry on.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/18 03:08 PM
-1

Women love unsolicited dick pics. OP make sure you send her a close up of one ball too. Tell her if she’s a good girl she might get to see the other one.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 01:27 AM
1

I really don’t know how I found this place but it came at a much needed time. I’m much happier and my wife is too. I still have a lot of work to do but it’s a good start.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/18 12:36 AM
2

I am grateful because the fighting has slowed down a lot. Sex was always there but the fighting was just terrible. I was worried that would be the result of divorce. Now that I’ve come here I’ve realized most of the fighting is because of me. She starts it but I pour gas until it’s out of control. I never STFU when it really matters and last week was a reminder of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/18 12:35 AM
0

Have you tried website blockers?
/r/askTRP28/04/18 10:29 PM
1

Yeah, I’ve been on the sub for some months now. I am starting to catch on. I think a lot of me hating it has to do with my age. I’m 25 so it’s just unreal to see that this is truly how it is. I’m glad that I get it but I’m still in the process of accepting it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 10:19 PM
7

I did this last week but made the mistake of DEERing like crazy. Eventually I STFU and two days later she realized I was serious and then she stopped misbehaving. I really dislike that it’s got to be that way but if you let them misbehave you lose your position as the captain and then it’s all downhill.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 09:52 PM
9

I didn’t read any of this shit. You know why? Your past doesn’t define you. You can make excuses or you can make goals.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 06:03 PM
2

Same thing I do with my wife. I just ignore her. I go do things that I want to do or need to get done. You don’t need to handle not having her attention. You don’t need her attention. You allow her to be around you and to give you her attention. She doesn’t bless you with her attention. You’re not lucky she’s around. It’s the other way around. You are the prize.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 06:00 PM
0

I think no fap is great. I am on day 19 or something now. It’s easier for me because I’m married but I’ve noticed that I initiate a lot more and I can turn down sex easier. I don’t think you should nofap and be celibate but not fapping is way ass better. I’ve had sex 6 times this week and that is a record because I’m usually at 3-4 times a week with 2 fap sessions.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 05:57 PM
9

Tell her you’re too busy going on real dates
/r/askTRP28/04/18 05:44 PM
1

Serious question, do you practice gratitude? If you ask yourself why your life sucks 10 times and give good reasons for each, guess what? You’re going to believe it. You ask yourself why your life is awesome 10 times? You’re going to believe it. The point is that you’re going to believe whatever it is that you choose to focus on. A buddy of mine in high school lost three fingers due to a woodworking accident. He was nearly suicidal and I don’t blame him. He told everyone that he was going to kil…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:20 PM
1

Your hamster is running wild.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:13 PM
1

You get an education to do educated work you tool. Hard to believe we’re the same age but then again I didn’t grow up a privileged brat. I worked in a factory for years dreaming about having a nice job and an education. Now I have a great office job and I’m half way done with my degree. Your problem is you got no god damn appreciation and it’s probably because mommy and daddy have been there to suck your dick for 25 years.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 10:30 PM
3

I can’t stand people like you. You balk at the idea of a higher education after you already earned two degrees. What a fucking joke this post is. Not all of us got to grow up and get two degrees. Some of us worked bullshit jobs in bullshit conditions to take care of ourselves. Some people grow up in countries so shitty that the only thing they do is wake up and try to find food. You live such a privileged life yet with your extensive time spent in school you still haven’t figured that out. If yo…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 09:35 PM
1

The caffeine is more than likely an issue. Caffeine has a half like of 12 hours. If you have 3 cups of coffee a day starting at 5am and drinking throughout the day (450mg of caffeine) you still have 0.75-1.5 cups of coffee (112.5-225mg) in your system by the time you sleep (8-10pm).
/r/askMRP20/04/18 07:57 PM
2

Didn’t read your wall of text either but yes. I use Allison, Coursera, Lynda, and Khan Academy. Recently I’ve taken organizational behavior from coursera. 6 months ago I did a supervisor course from Allison. I’ve probably clocked well over 100 hours of videos from Lynda. I’m big into leadership, business, and management courses. Khan academy I use the finance/economics for personal/work needs, looking into learning physics because I’ve read that it develops the mind to think fast and abstractly …
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:38 PM
2

Your LTR sending booty pics is “being good to you?” Do you have a spine?
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:22 AM
5

For fucking real.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:20 AM
87

As a married man I want to laugh but my wife is right next to me and she might ask why so low key I’m enjoying this.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 01:16 AM
11

As a 25 year old who got extremely lucky and went from a blue collar shit job to a fantastic white color, get your fucking degree. I dropped out two times and I’m back on my third and final stint. Unless you’re some genius, you’re not, go to fucking school. It gets way harder when you have responsibilities in life. A trade or a 4 year degree that’s got some real job opportunities is nothing to scoff at. And don’t think for a second that everyone has a degree. It’s the most made up ludicrous shit…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:23 PM
5

What social circles do these girls run in? They’re obviously sorority girls.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:12 PM
2

This is exactly why you have to lift and make a life for yourself or else your wife will have no fear to cheat.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 04:52 PM
1

If I had the money I’d pay for it but my local library offers it for free. It is 100% worth it if you’re self motivated. The courses are top notch for everything. I’ve studied marketing, accounting, finance, leadership, operation management, Human Resources and a lot of other business skills like negotiation, strategic planning, sales and etc. The lessons are 1-8 hours but they’re really informative. It’s not like YouTube where the guy jerks himself off for 2/3 of the video. It’s straight lectur…
/r/askTRP14/04/18 04:03 PM
2

Go to your local library. Ask if they give access to a site called Lynda. Go on there and take leadership and business classes. Specifically look for a guy named John Ullmen.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 12:43 AM
3

Great example!!
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:09 PM
3

Use it as an opportunity to admire their ass.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:03 PM
2

Develop executive presence.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:59 PM
0

You don’t talk about sex before you have it. That is a fuck up. Women never initiate. It’s always up to you. Now you’ve created some Disney fairy tail where the next time she has sex it must be perfect because 🌈 and 🦄 and magic!!! Drop the oneitus and drop her.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:17 AM
1

Lmfao dude that’s some funny shit
/r/askMRP10/04/18 05:31 PM
1

It’s all about the Asian persuasion. They’ve been doing it for centuries. They do NOT want people to know this.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:00 AM
2

That sounds wild but I’m down for it. Thanks!
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:20 PM
1

Should you progress the same way? I.e 5lb every workout until you can’t and then reload? Thanks
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:29 PM
1

Nah, I would just go ahead and workout. You’ll lower your Bf faster by lifting than cardio. However, you could always do stronglift and then do HIIT if you’re that concerned about weight. The stronglifts site has a plan made for it already.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:56 PM
1

I agree which is why I decided to add those into the mix. I am deciding when I want to add skullcrushers and barbell curls. Do you think I should start those now?
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:54 PM
1

It’s normal. My wife says I’m so so sweet and good to her and I regularly get off on her face.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:41 PM
1

I’ve been doing stronglifts for three weeks and I have been enjoying it. I prefer it because I have little time to workout and this program hits every muscle. You might consider adding chin ups and dips early though. The program recommends waiting 8 weeks but I started 2 in. Also recommends skullcrushers and barbell curls as extras.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 07:38 PM
9

Pinky out
/r/askTRP07/04/18 03:03 AM
1

My wife is my best friend but I’ve made it abundantly clear that she is replaceable. If my wife was an acquaintance to me I’d just go ahead and leave her.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 03:43 PM
2

Talking with your hands is good practice in general. If you do it that’s great but most people don’t. The people that do speak with their hands tend to come off as warmer and friendly. I’ve always talked with my hands for as long as I can remember. I give regular speeches at work to large crowds at work and it never fails that I somehow always use my hands to convey my speaking points. As long as you are natural with your movements, not forcing it, keep doing it. Your bonus question is stupid. A…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:39 PM
2

This guy frequents a subreddit called serial killers. Lmfao and we are the fucked up ones...
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 01:45 PM
5

Pick up artist don’t want you to know this one trick. Critique their form very harshly. Before you do this I STRONGLY urge you get a poncho because you will experience a monsoon of vaginal juices from like every girl, in the tri-county.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 01:43 PM
16

Do you really wear cowboy boots and pressed shirts??? Asking for a friend of a friend...
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 11:56 PM
1

Why don’t you write her a fucking book and cuck yourself out of the royalties while you’re at it?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 11:50 PM
5

What the fuck is this shit?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 01:58 PM
-1

You have oneitus for damaged goods.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:23 AM
2

If you can’t bring girls back to your place try a car. It’s risky but it sure is fun.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 12:46 AM
3

I remember when I started going through puberty. It was tough.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 12:39 AM
1

Are you drinking a lot of caffeine?
/r/askTRP02/04/18 12:37 AM
6

Here’s an idea. Don’t date girls within your social circle. After my last ex I only dated girls out of different area codes. Makes the break ups easy, your girls won’t know each other and you won’t run into them at the gas station.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 12:34 AM
2

It works for me. I’ve been in the sub for a couple months now. I’m 2 1/2 years into my marriage. Always been amazing in the sack so my sex life is 3-5 times a week and she lets me do just about anything to her. I didn’t come to TRP because my marriage was hell. I came to TRP because my wife and I fought a lot but I never knew why. Turns out it’s all because of me. I got us into shitty fights, I wouldn’t STFU, I wasn’t leading when I needed to, I was failing shit test and I didn’t know. Now I am …
/r/askMRP01/04/18 11:09 PM
1

A lot of the advice in here is shit and I suspect it’s because you’re getting advice from younger guys who have no real obligations. Last year around this time of year I was working 45 hours a week while taking 4 classes. 3 regular and 1 hybrid. The way I got shit done was by making a schedule. I knew what I had to do (my goals, classwork and work assignments) and I knew how much time I had to work with. There’s 168 hours in a week and 24 hours in a day. Everyone has the same amount and there’s …
/r/askTRP01/04/18 02:35 AM
3

OP said in another post he hasn’t even done the workout he just posted about. Don’t even waste time on him. He’s just blowing hot air.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 02:25 AM
6

Guy is dishing out advice without even having done it himself. Best not to take this too seriously.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 02:24 AM
1

If you set boundaries and fuck a girl right there’s not as many shit tests.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:11 PM
3

Savage hahah
/r/askTRP28/03/18 08:35 PM
1

Alright alright
/r/askTRP28/03/18 08:35 PM
1

That’s the right attitude.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 09:47 AM
1

Same thing you do when an employer turns you down for a job. You just keep showing up and sit patiently in the lobby because you just know they’ll come to their sense and hire you because you’re a good boy. 🐕
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:09 AM
1

Nice try, I only drink cage free milk.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:26 AM
4

Yeah you break up with her so you can date the guy who slapped her ass. She didn’t do anything wrong. She helped you find your soul mate. You should thank her by telling her how lucky you are and staying up real late to listen about her problems at work. Do you even sidebar?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:01 AM
2

Shave your head so when you’re balls deep you can yell “I’m Mr. Clean bitch.”
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:51 AM
1

I usually show them my clear backpack. What happens after that is fair game.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:46 AM
1

I think it should apply within the class not the school.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:42 AM
3

You’ve got to get lucky as fuck and find a traditional woman. They’re out there but it’s very difficult to find. Me personally I go back and forth between enjoying marriage and thinking how great it would be to have plates. There are pros and cons but it all comes down to how traditional and obedient your woman is. Those women are typically in second and third world countries which is where my wife is from. If you can find someone who cooks, cleans, fucks you 3-4-5 times a week, doesn’t spend mo…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:31 AM
6

Yeah you’re right. It’s much better to fight a guy you don’t know so you can possibly get your ass beat, go to jail, or even be killed for pussy. Pussy is NOT that hard to get. Take that shit off the pedestal.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:09 AM
1

/r/sarcastic Fixed it 👍
/r/askTRP26/03/18 11:47 PM
3

It’s better to let it happen and walk away then it is to fight him. You don’t know what that person is capable of or if they’re alone. If he were to come again that’s assault and then things change. The only time you should fight is when someone is hitting your girl more than one time or they’re about to rape her. In that case you should learn to fight and carry a weapon if possible. I carry a 9mm or a .380 everywhere I go. I would only use it if I couldn’t run or I was being attacked by multipl…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 11:36 PM
0

/r/iamverybadass
/r/askTRP26/03/18 11:30 PM
14

Gobble gobble
/r/askTRP26/03/18 11:30 PM
10

What the fuck did I just read?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 08:08 PM
6

Nice catch.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 03:23 PM
4

If you want to display dominance just have everyone measure their cock when you meet up. Biggest guy is the alpha. Then you take turns sucking the leader off. Because you don’t want to be constantly sucking this guys dick off you need to constantly make new friends with other guys so eventually you will be the leader. Then you need to maintain that group so you’re always getting BJs. TRP is a numbers game. Always be prospecting. Fill that pipeline but know that you might have to take some pipe y…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:08 PM
0

This all goes back to women not taking responsibility for their actions. Women are loyal to hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:17 PM
1

I’d argue that NMMNG and How to Win Friends and Influence People should be read once a year. I’ve read each of them at least three times. You’ve got to refresh your mind because society will try to turn you back into a beta. I know this because I’m married. My wife hears from her church friends and shit that we should talk more, do x, do y and everything else but church and marriage counselors are BP af for the most part. What makes a happy LTR or plate woman is a confident man who leads, has se…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:03 PM
1

That’s all really great advice. I know I’ve heard it all a million times but when you’re going through shit you seem to forget all the advice. You need someone to kick you in the dick and tell you to lift. That’s why I come here. Thanks
/r/askMRP24/03/18 12:36 PM
2

Build a social circle around something that doesn’t make you look like a geek. Make friends at the gym. Take up a sport or martial art. Do something that will develop you as a man.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:37 AM
3

You’re insecure as hell dude. Your height isn’t the problem. You need to lift.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:19 AM
1

There’s a great place to go clubbing in Antarctica. Lots of seals to hit on. No competition either so it’s better to go alone cause you’re like the only one there.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:09 AM
1

You need to read NMMNG. There’s a free pdf online.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:06 AM
1

Learn if you’re into it. I do a lot of career building with lynda courses and coursera. Duolingo is also great for learning a second language.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:04 AM
2

So you can be her emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:01 AM
6

I’m in college so every semester I always go in and get in the front of the class. Right when the professor is taking roll I get up and beat his ass in front of the entire class. Everyone becomes instantly attracted to me because they know I’m alpha. I was actually the professor for two of my classes last semester.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:01 AM
1

You talked to her.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:58 AM
1

Atlanta
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:57 AM
4

This is some of the gayest shit I’ve ever read in askTRP. Mods should seriously temp ban these guys so they know what this sub is about so next time they don’t come here asking a stupid question. You want to know how to connect with people your own age? Talking to people face to face in the real world where you can actually get laid.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:57 AM
1

Just don’t let her relive the experience. Change the subject and make her happy. My wife gave me some news last night that put her to tears. I immediately did damage control and got her from crying of emotional to pain to crying from fucking her hard.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 05:01 PM
1

Your problem is oneitus. There are so many beautiful girls in this world. I’ve been to plenty of countries and it astounds me how many of them there are. Your girl isn’t special. By having oneitus you will scare her away. Drop that shit and be ready to dump her like it’s nothing. I’m married and even I have this attitude. Women say they don’t want a selfish, narcissistic and self absorbed guy but notice how that’s who all the beautiful women go after. They don’t go after the guys who listen to h…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 04:45 PM
5

Prolifetip
/r/askTRP23/03/18 04:08 PM
2

I think OP should learn to dread for his next girl. This one is obviously a load cause but dread is good for anyone. I’m married and I still use dread even though I’m getting laid 3-5 times a week.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 04:05 PM
2

What the fuck are those X’s about?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:31 PM
2

I’d argue that the more beautiful a woman is, the less boundaries she’s been given. Most men, BP men, will let women get away with anything. What brought me over to TRP side, before I actually discovered this sub, was getting wrecked in a previous relationship. I gave my ex all the power in the relationship. I set no boundaries because I was a “nice guy” who wanted to be a good boy. I dated her for 16 weeks and never got past making out. She dumped me for the cook she told me about. If I had any…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:37 PM
3

My wife is pretty much like this and what I’ve learned is that if I’m acting like a bitch she’s a bitch. If I’m happy she’s happy. However, if she’s unhappy, I am happy because I do not let her emotional state affect me. Someone has to be able to make good sound decisions when shit goes down so it needs to be you. The downside to this personality thing is if your girl hangs around dumbass girls with stupid thoughts. I’ve got familiar with how my wife’s different friends’ think because I know wha…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 03:09 PM
8

This. My parents have been divorced for over 10 years. My father remarried and has only said a handful of negative things about my mother. My mother on the other hand can’t hold herself back to say something bad about him. The irony is that he left her because she was physically and verbally abusive! Don’t stoop down to their level. I’m 25 now and it took a long time for me to realize why my father left my mother. I wouldn’t have understood because I was too young but after I experienced her beh…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:53 PM
1

Thanks for the free porn
/r/askMRP22/03/18 11:52 AM
1

Haha I think I get the picture!
/r/askMRP22/03/18 11:52 AM
1

That is so damn true! Haha
/r/askMRP22/03/18 11:45 AM
1

It’s clear that I would have liked more partners but not because mine doesn’t satisfy me. As the others have said though it’s not healthy nor effective to continue thinking about this. What’s done is done.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 01:21 AM
1

If you've got access to Lynda.com they've got a lot of great courses on leadership. You're not going to learn canned responses. You're just going to learn how to present yourself. There's a guy by the name of Dr. John Ullmen who has some killer videos on leadership. I think I have watched every video of his and it's top quality shit. Check out your local library to see if they offer free memberships to the website. You won't find the videos online for free and you really shouldn't have to. If yo…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:45 PM
1

You're right. It's done and over I'll leave it be.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:40 PM
1

I'm not religious either but you don't have to be to realize that is something to keep close to mind.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:39 PM
1

I realize how fucked up that sounds. If my memory weren't so shit I'd remember how that got started. It doesn't really matter because I shouldn't be asking stupid questions like that. You do realize that man's preference for virginal brides is an evolutionarily adapted mechanism to assure paternity. No, but that is very fascinating. Your inadequacies are your own. Don't put that shit on her. You're right. She shouldn't be brought down by my bullshit. I won't be opening that can of worms anymore.…
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:38 PM
1

I'll take it.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:36 PM
1

You're absolutely right. I am a jackass who's hamster got ahold of some redbull. Good luck on your journey.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:33 PM
3

Man, I'd gold you if this site wasn't so god damn liberally fucked. I had a good long thinkin' session on the ride home. I tried to logic my way out of it and this is what I came up with. "Why am I getting mad at a woman I didn't know for having sex with men I don't know? That's like me getting mad at women whom I've never met having sex with guys I'll never know." After I said that a couple times to myself I started to realize how fucking stupid it was for me to be mad.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:30 PM
1

That story was super rough to read and after having finished it I am grateful because I do not think I could be with a woman who was like that with anyone else. I feel sorry for the guy because he couldn't give her the feels that those Chad's could. Fortunately, I am having great and regular sex. My deal is that every so often I slip up and cause fights with my wife. Every 3-4 month something goes wrong and I'm tired of it. I'm owning up to the fact that a lot of it has to do with me and that's …
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:26 PM
1

You didn't know about her sexual history before you married her? I did but I had oneitus so I thought okay she had sex with these guys less than twice or just once. You're married, kids? Is she a good wife and mother? No kids but we regularly have sex 3-4 times a week and she does 90% of the chores so I have zero shit to complain about other than this pussy shit I stumbled into. Sexual history isn’t the issue you should be looking at. The right questions are whether or not she’s fucking you on t…
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:21 PM
1

You're absolutely right. She doesn't give a shit and if she thought it was a big deal she would have kept it to herself.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 10:17 PM
2

So you're saying I can go out by myself? Yes you most certainly can but it's uncomfortable at first. You have to have the mindset that you're going out to enjoy yourself. It's like going out to get a nice cup of coffee or a burger. You don't need people to watch you sip a coffee or eat a burger. Is that something people regularly do? I usually go out with my bros but I make it a point to talk with women to keep myself sharp.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:16 PM
1

I would never harm my wife nor give up my guns of knives. I don’t hate her and I’m not angry. She’s a beautiful Latin woman so I can’t be mad at other guys for smashing her. I’ll read the link. I don’t think I’m angry but I am definitely thrown off. I’ll admit I did have this rash idea to get my N count closer to hers but now it just seems foolish. I am on my way to becoming alpha. I’ve still got a lot of BP in me that needs to go.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 08:19 PM
1

Thanks, I’ve been treated though. I got a steroid shot and I’m doing a lot better. It had me bedridden most of last week. I thought the desensitizing would work. I’ll stop. My sex life is great I just want it to be that way all the time. I use “Nice” to keep track and so far I average about 3-4 times a week.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 08:13 PM
3

You don’t need to go out with friends. My buddies were tools when I wanted to branch out in my early 20s. Now they’re all over Buckhead and they are our age. I have a buddy who pulls every now and then out there and he’s not RP. If he can get chicks you sure can. You don’t have to hit up bars either but since you live in Atlanta I recommend it.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 08:10 PM
2

Buddy you need to hit up Buckhead. I went last weekend with my wife. There’s way too many beautiful women to go home alone. Lots of guys standing in corners or on their phones in these places while beautiful women are crawling out the woodworks. You’re RP man so you should be killing it especially in a place like Buckhead.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 08:01 PM
2

I’ve been lurking several months and started lifting again in January. I sprinkled alpha on my life the past few months because I didn’t want to commit. I have been out of the gym for two weeks now though because of bronchitis. Could be part of why I feel this way. I did vet my wife to an extent. Her count is lower than 10. I am doing my best now to tell myself that nothing she did is off the table. I have been having this mental discussion with myself to attempt desensitize myself. I am not in …
/r/askMRP21/03/18 07:43 PM
2

You get it together by getting out of her frame and getting her into yours. You can’t go messing up your own house and stealing your wife’s blanket. That’s something you’d expect a child to do. If you’ve got a mission in life that says it’s okay to ruin your house and take your wife’s things to then get the cops called on you, you’ve misinterpreted TRP. If you want to spin plates that’s great but first get your home life together. You do not need the cops coming to your house. All she has to do …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 05:40 PM
2

You’re not going to be spinning any god damn plates if this woman has never been apart from you for more than a few hours. You can’t even get your own wife to fuck you. Now she’s calling the police on you. Are you taking this shit seriously or not? This is your life man. Get it together.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 05:09 PM
2

Leave your toxic marriage and grow up.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 04:59 PM
46

Agreed. My wife loves church and every now and then she tries to get me to go. Last Sunday she asked me if I would go with her. I asked myself is church in my mission? Immediately I thought no that’s her mission. I told her no thanks and instead did things I wanted to do that were part of my mission. I worked on the car, did some house work, got some studying done and relaxed. I could have lost 4 hours doing something I know I wouldn’t be happy doing. I could have complained the entire time and …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 04:09 PM
2

Women manipulate. Men influence. Do not announce that you are a woman.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:54 PM
2

Quit all caffeine, workout to EXHAUSTION, get a nice fan by your bedside to block out noise, get room darkening curtains or a face mask and don’t use electronics an hour before bed. Get an alarm clock by your bed and leave your phone in another room on airplane mode. Chamomile tea or those nighty night teas are also good for helping you calm down. DO NOT use melatonin. You’ll become way too dependent on it, you need more over time and it can stop working. This should be more than enough to get y…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:42 PM
1

My wife makes more than I do and it has absolutely no negative consequences. The only problem you can run into with a partner or spouse who makes more is that they don’t want to share money with you. I told my wife that no matter who makes more we split our money. There’s no secrets in how much money we have as everything is shared. If your girl says she wants a private bank account I’d next her ass because that’s when you get into problems. I have a beta coworker whose wife makes 6 figures whil…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:38 PM
1

You need to get a therapist and quit DEERing.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:27 PM
1

You need to get more involved with the two subs because if you were you’d know that this is a place for asking questions and not flowery bullshit writing. Also, take a lesson from DT and speak simple because you suck at explaining your point.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:23 PM
1

Doing what is expected of you at work is easy. You want to eat? You work. Setting expectations for yourself and then carrying them out? That’s called real fucking work and most people don’t do it. The majority of people stay home playing video games, watching stupid reality shows and become fat. They work their ass off at work and then go home to rot and whither. Most people have no goals in life and they live for the weekend. They eagerly await for Friday evening because that’s when they believ…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:29 PM
1

How to Win Friends and Influence People. Read it.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:51 AM
2

You paid for her meal and gave her a place to sleep. You paid for it.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:41 AM
1

The same time as when to wear a stripe sweater.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:28 AM
1

You better get a fucking snorkel because you’re going to be drowning in that pussy no doubt.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:11 AM
1

I carry a pistol everywhere I go but that doesn’t mean I go to dumbass places at 1am. Just because you can kill someone doesn’t mean you should put yourself in a situation where you have to. I recommend everyone legally carry a weapon they are trained to use but what I recommend more than that is 1) Stay out of sketchy places. 2) Do not go to places alone at night unless it’s a well lit area. 3) Running is a much better option than killing someone. 4) If you can’t run be ready to kill or be kill…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:02 AM
2

I’ve been doing this for 10 years and there’s nothing wrong with it. Talking out loud is a great way to think about something deeply because it shuts out the other thoughts. I will be speaking out loud tomorrow for an hour and a half or so because I have a speech on Wednesday. I have one every month and I find that going over my presentation in multiple ways with different words and talking points makes my presentation awesome.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:58 PM
2

Man, I got all sorts of cringey shit in my comment section it’s all good! We’re here to grow. Keep your cringey shit though, it’s great to go back and see how much of a jackass you were.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 11:36 PM
9

Yes you fucked up. Unless she is pregnant with your kid leave that shit alone. Don’t let her problems become your problems. She is just using her fathers death as an excuse for you to come back and you played right into her hands.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 01:53 PM
1

Calculus teaches your brain to think in different ways. There’s lots of great YouTube teachers and khan academy to learn calculus. Everybody can learn calculus it’s not just for the enlightened.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 10:15 AM
1

It’s you man. I got my wife to blow me on the third date and she’d never done it. (Painfully obvious.) I would say 20 weeks is a long time to not have your dick sucked by your LTR. You’re obviously not making her comfortable enough so you need to be more encouraging. If you can’t get her to do it then you need to find someone who will.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 03:59 PM
3

Over the next couple years, put on another 15-or-so pounds of muscle. Dude read the fucking article and quit complaining.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 03:33 PM
1

I work at a college and there is always an endless stream of hot young girls that flirt with me or at the very least are incredibly hot and of course my mind wanders - especially when they are actively flirting with me. I go to a college M-R for class and I tell myself one thing. Don't shit where you eat. This needs no explanation. the problems of bills etc with the wife suddenly seem boring by contrast. Sounds like what you're saying is that it would be far more interesting to have to explain t…
/r/askMRP18/03/18 03:21 PM
2

😂 🤣
/r/askMRP16/03/18 11:30 PM
1

There’s some truth to this. I went out last week without my wife on a guys night. I chatted with women at the bars and it reminded me that I still had what it took if I needed it.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:23 PM
6

I’m married and I still don’t even open up that can of worms. If something’s wrong they’ll let you know.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:10 PM
4

Zing
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:00 PM
1

Both are accurate. Hahah
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:30 PM
508

It’s amazing how this woman can just get off the hook for saying batshit crazy stuff and have a whole reddit parade for her.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 09:29 PM
2

By already making a post about this you’re obviously really invested. You should just expect to take an L here because it’s looking that way.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:15 PM
2

Wrong sub.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:50 PM
1

Sometimes your dick can really hurt them. Just depends on how you’re positioned. I’m not large but my wife is petite so for her I am large. If I hit her in certain positions I can see the pain on her face. After some time I have learned which positions she just can’t handle.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 04:22 PM
4

You’re not even married to this girl dude. You’ve got oneitus and you have no self respect if you’re coming to a sub asking for help on “how to get your gf to respect you.” You want to know how you get her to respect you? Tell her that the next time she disrespects you she’s gone but this requires you to have a spine which you don’t have.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 04:08 PM
2

Depends on how good your wingman is. I went out with a buddy yesterday and all he did was make excuses as to why he couldn’t talk to a woman.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 04:09 AM
3

How the hell do you have time to workout when you work 80 hours a week?
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:35 PM
1

Women are not the prize. You are. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:35 PM
1

They might be but that isn’t your concern. You should be looking at women not fantasizing about how RP the guys are. Are you gay?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:29 PM
1

Tell her that international women’s day is celebrated only if you’re an international woman.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:25 PM
1

I was making $400 every two weeks and lived at home when I met my wife. I was smashing that shit the third time I saw her in less than two weeks. Women care about how you make them feel. Dress well, walk tall and go Dutch on everything. I never paid for shit but it was never about me not having money. It was about me not paying to have a woman in my presence. 16 weeks of no sex after spending LOTS of money on my ex taught me that lesson.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:20 PM
2

Including yourself
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:00 PM
1

There’s a free pdf online.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:54 PM
2

This comment is so damn underrated. Saved.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:36 PM
5

My mom told me not to make women cry because that’s what all the men in her life did. Every guy she brought home was a dirt bag. She turns down doctors, successful businessmen or anyone in general who is successful because guys who ride Harley’s don’t give a shit about her and that’s why she goes for them. It’s so fucked up but women are slaves to their emotions. They’re attracted to instability and emotional roller coasters but when questioned they will adamantly deny it. That’s why it’s import…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:06 PM
1

Lmao thought this a BP reply and then I got to the end. You got me.
/r/askMRP08/03/18 12:21 PM
25

You got a door!?! You got a gym!!! Gym door!!!!!
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 03:59 AM
5

God damn. Someone get this motherfucker a red beret!
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:57 AM
1

Rough sex has to be done with caution. I’m like you in that I usually go no less than 30 minutes and my wife has not finished a handful of times. Because of the toughness she gets UTIs frequently so that means only oral and hj. Nothing wrong with that but if you’re like me you want to have the real deal. Just keep that in mind because rough sex ups the % rate of getting one.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:48 PM
9

My problem with losing weight is that I can’t focus it on one area. For whatever reason I just can’t shake the weight no matter how much I lift and diet. The fat just always seems to go straight to my dick.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 10:37 PM
1

The issue is that OP doesn’t think emotionally cheating is a big deal. Men don’t get a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 09:30 PM
1

What I learned about dropping redpill ideas on my friends’ is that we are not even remotely similar anymore.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 06:51 PM
1

Truck stops
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:57 PM
1

Oneitus
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:54 PM
3

Last night my wife shit tested me when she asked if I looked at a girl in the gym. I said, “Yes I did.” That same night we were in bed and I have never gotten a bj at 15 till midnight on a weeknight from her until then. Women will do a lot to keep a high value man around.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 05:49 PM
7

I’m 5’7” and I remember this one party I went to when I was 21. Big frat house lots of gorgeous girls. This chick was just hot so I saw her collecting beer can tabs and started grilling her for it and told her how lame it was. In the time it took my buddy to go get a beer and come back, I had her pinned up against a wall and we were making out in front of a crowd. Complaining about your height is just hamstering. Go after smaller chicks if you’re that concerned. I’m a giant to my wife but I can’…
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:45 PM
1

That’s really wise. I appreciate your response.
/r/askMRP07/03/18 01:25 PM
1

You’re not married dude.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:49 PM
2

It’s weird you can just ask ask them and then use “how” or “why” and they will just keep taking. Women love to talk about themselves so it’s wise to keep the focus on them. Ironically by talking about themselves the entire time they become aroused to you. It’s a strange phenomenon.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:47 PM
1

OYS: Week 2 Link to first week: http://bit.ly/2oNyTv9 This past week has been a bit of a wake up call. I am still struggling with a lot of the RP mindset but today I took a good bit of time to really focus on my week point which is DEER'ing. 5'7", 150lb., BF ?, 25 ; SO 27 ; married 2 years ; no kids Physical - I just hit month three of working out and I have already seen some great progress from my photos. I am using an old workout method that I used to go from 125 - 145 two years ago when I was…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/18 01:37 AM
1

You’re right.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 09:31 PM
1

Noted
/r/askMRP06/03/18 09:03 PM
1

Note taken.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 08:58 PM
1

Thanks for the response.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 08:58 PM
1

Okay so I just told another guy that I don’t get what DEERing is. I am just trying to be respectful and reply back because the mods said they’ll ban people.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 08:04 PM
1

Thanks. I have read NMMNG and I’m still struggling to understand DEERing. I’m 25 sex life is average of 3 times a week. Honestly I just don’t like who I am anymore. I feel like I’m spinning wheels and that I’ve made a lot of mistakes. I love my wife but I am always thinking about being single which is terrible because her girlfriends’ even tell her she’s too good to me. I got it well at the house but it’s becoming clear to me that I’ve trapped myself in some old man lifestyle where I don’t do sh…
/r/askMRP06/03/18 07:56 PM
1

Okay fair call. I’ll check bodybuilding.com. I used them to get from 125 to 145 two years ago. The only thing my gym lacks is a barbell. I’ve always stayed away from bench because I think I get better results from dumb bell bench press due to better range of motion and more tension. I’ve been thinking about an LA Fitness membership because they include a sauna so I’ll take some time this week to decide.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 07:51 PM
1

I am lifting as heavy as I can with every lift. If I lift anymore I lose form and I’d rather have good form than throw my back out on half of the lifts. I could definitely benefit from compound lifts. I use a condo gym at the moment so the workouts I have are the only options at my current place.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 07:42 PM
1

I’d have to make a list but I’ve read NMMNG at least twice but that was in my late teens. Clearly I didn’t internalize it. I’ll edit my post.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 07:35 PM
1

Separate vacations on top of vacations we already have. Those scenarios are a little bit too specific and unrelatable because I have no idea where half the fuck those places are.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 07:34 PM
2

You’re right
/r/askMRP06/03/18 07:32 PM
1

Alright I get it...
/r/askMRP06/03/18 07:31 PM
1

5 ft 7 - 150 - check the link for lift, don’t know what you’re asking for sidebar. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1mg0g-Ww4XWHbUgytAYfapvgkRwo-tCx2CoOQXn_0g4o Edit: Sidebar NMMNG 12 levels of dread Oneitus There is no one And a bunch more that I can’t remember off the top of my head. I’m less than a month into redpill. I’ve been on the sub but put very little effort because I was not quite too sure with what I was reading. I took about 2 months to warm up I suppose. Clearly I still need …
/r/askMRP06/03/18 07:00 PM
1

My wife can’t even handle one drink without throwing up. It’s a blessing in so many ways.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 06:18 PM
2

I guess I had this idea that you could count on people to help you out with things. I’m remembering of Drakes songs when he says “I’m the man and I don’t need nobody else.” I’ll let that sink in. Appreciate it.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 06:11 PM
1

Hahah well I’ve gotten massages in the past. I pulled my back so I got a deep tissue massage 2 times and then I went back a third time. I’m taking excellent care of my back with ab workouts. Another dumb ass thing is I mistakenly setup a deal where my wife and I wouldn’t spend large amounts of money without telling each other. I did it because I was worried she’d spend all my money and now it looks like it’s a weapon against myself.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 06:09 PM
1

I don’t have a problem chatting with men but I am a big pussy when it comes to speaking to girls unless I’m in class. I just feel guilty thinking about it. I am starting to realize I have a lot of internal issues that I need to address. I really didn’t think I had these type of problems.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 06:07 PM
3

I think part of it is that I got married at a young age. I am starting to think that I did not give myself to develop as a young man. I don’t really know what to do because I don’t have any male role models in my life. It’s not an excuse but I just feel like I don’t have any sense of direction and not having a map doesn’t help either.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 06:02 PM
1

That’s a fair call.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 05:59 PM
1

I’m trying not to shit where I eat. Is school a bad place to catch and release?
/r/askMRP06/03/18 05:58 PM
1

I’d rather be a cheap ass and just flirt since it’s free.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 05:58 PM
1

I just got into the ab wheel over the weekend. My sides hurt because I was laughing so hard because I realized how right you were. I wish I had somebody in my inner circle to knock some sense into me because that’s exactly what I needed. Thanks for ripping me a new one.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 05:51 PM
1

Understood
/r/askMRP06/03/18 05:48 PM
1

My buddies don’t do anything other than bar hopping. I’m not opposed to it but I told my wife I wouldn’t do those things anymore. Her memory is great so I don’t know how to go against my own word without causing a fuss.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 05:48 PM
1

I saved this because I’m not working on MMSLP yet.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 05:14 PM
1

You are right.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:54 PM
1

Got it. I’m going to read the 12 levels of dread every week until it’s hardwired.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:54 PM
1

Hell yes I’m lifting. Just took my third picture, one every month, and my body is getting in shape! I’ll read back over the 12 levels of dread.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:53 PM
1

Lmfao you’re right. Her friends’ idea of fun party is a fucking soup party. I don’t think any of them even remotely drink.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:51 PM
1

I’m laughing but I realized I needed to see this.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:47 PM
1

Honestly, my wife makes way too many decisions. She doesn’t tell me what I can’t do but she makes way too many decisions. I did my first OYS last week and I realized I may let my wife run my life and I feel guilty because I am starting to see how this is not working for me. Your message sunk in...
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:46 PM
3

I’ll head to the sidebar.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:42 PM
1

I am still working on NMMNG. Is there a particular book that has the abundance mentality or is this side bar? At the moment I am struggling with the idea of day gaming. My wife has told me numerous times that if I cheat on her she’s going to leave me. I’m less worried about her leaving me than I am hurting her feelings if she finds out.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:41 PM
1

Next trip my buds suggest I’ll go then.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:37 PM
1

I couldn’t even do that on my damn bachelor night. I don’t know if I’m comfortable with catch and release. I’m having a bit of a battle with the idea. How would this help my marriage?
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:36 PM
1

I have single friends that like to do stuff. All my married friends, aka her friends, are not people I’d hang out with outside of our group get togethers. You’re right in that I turn down a lot of guy trips so she knows she’d go and I wouldn’t. If I can’t get guy trips together then I should go travel on my own.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:34 PM
1

All of her friends are married. Not sure if I misinterpreted but I would not be going with her.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:31 PM
1

How do you be a man whose wife doesn’t fuck other dudes? I thought AWALT?
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:30 PM
1

I always turn down trips because I worry that if I get out in a place with my buds I’ll do something I’d regret. My buddies are all single so I don’t have to explain what type of trouble we’d get into.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:29 PM
1

I haven’t really got my vision in order yet. I’ve been sprinkling alpha on my life which is stupid as I was already told. I don’t think she will cheat because I vetted her but that doesn’t really matter. People change so it should be no surprise that she could do it. Looks like I need to work on my abundance because this wouldn’t bother an alpha.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:28 PM
1

Yeah you’re absolutely right. It’s not like I don’t give her time. I’m away from the house a lot due to class. A lot of my friends are single so I feel weird taking trips. A lot of what they want to do is go to bars, clubs and other places where they can get with women. I’m way too young to be saying this but I feel very out of place in those environments.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:24 PM
1

I haven’t taken a guy trip in years. I always feel weird when my friends invite me because they’re all single. I don’t have any children yet.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:22 PM
1

Could be your diet? Do you eat late? Drink caffeine? Do you workout before bed? Do you turn off all electronics and try to sleep? Do you wake up at the same time most mornings and get in bed around the same time? I’ve found that having a fairly consistent schedule, basically no caffeine, working out several hours before bed and cutting ties with electronics near as I can gets me to sleep easier.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:25 AM
7

The lifting thing is for real. Prior to January, when I started lifting, wide ass awake all the time. Now That I’m hitting the gym 3-5 times a week I struggle to do homework.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 12:49 AM
1

I really enjoyed reading this! You’re lucky to have had such a great therapist.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 02:12 PM
1

Okay so let’s say you’re not this guy who stays in and plays game and jerks off go hentai. I’d say you’re issue still isn’t some anxiety disorder. I’d say it’s a mixture of confidence and lack of experience. After years of reading pick up books I finally started getting laid in my early twenties and it was because I gained a lot of confidence. Perhaps what you need to do is read more books, practice speaking with people and accept that you will suck for some time. I was really really awkward gro…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 10:53 PM
2

Hell dude I lost my virginity when I was 19 and there’s no shame in still being one. What you need to do is get over these anxieties. I’m sorry to drop a bomb on you but you don’t have a social anxiety disorder. My guess is that you don’t go out and talk to people. You stay home, play games and keep to yourself and this only helps prop up the idea that you have anxiety.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 09:46 PM
1

The only time it’s different is when they have a real career. My buddy smashed a hot surgeon a few weeks back. We think about mid 30s?? He doesn’t know who she is and she doesn’t have his number because she wasn’t interested. That’s SUPER rare though.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:32 PM
2

Redpill her ass by claiming you’re being harassed. She’s creating a hostile work environment for you and you feel uncomfortable at work.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:29 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/askTRP04/03/18 03:01 AM
1

What do you do if you outshine your supervisor? I’m in college for instance. My boss does not have any college education. How do I make him feel comfortable?
/r/askTRP03/03/18 03:03 PM
1

Okay, I understand.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 06:15 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 05:54 PM
1

Okay so now that I understand this. Do you feel that adultery is okay? I am not asking this with any bitterness or anger. I am just curious as to your opinion. Mine is not that cheating is bad because women will cheat if the opportunity is right and they will never own up to it. There will always be an excuse whereas I as a man can cheat and have a choice of owning it or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 05:29 PM
1

A long time ago I told my wife that a sexless marriage is not an option for me. I would never be with a woman who does not have sex with me. Somehow I have the balls to say stuff like that but I feel like that is a non-negotiable. You’re right that some women will stick around so I don’t know why I thought she would just up and leave. Eventually she will hit the wall and she won’t want to leave. If you don’t mind me asking, I’ve looked up ASD and LMR to understand what they mean. I am having a d…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 05:16 PM
1

You’re right. Thanks for giving it to me straight.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 04:55 PM
1

I watched your video interview. It’s clear that you are the real deal. What you said struck a chord in me. One of those weird gut feelings you get if you know what I mean. I understand now that if I am not attractive to other women than my wife won’t be attracted to me. If other women aren’t attracted to me I’m not a high value man. If I’m not a high value man then my wife will surely leave me. That’s hard to swallow.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 04:55 PM
1

I should have been more detailed. I know how to do finances I just don’t do them at the house. There’s already systems in place and I don’t know what they are because I checked out and did not do my duties. I’m more so overwhelmed because I don’t know what all the responsibilities are. I appreciate your input.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 04:12 PM
1

I decided to take a good bit to process this because it was intense to read as I’m sure you know. I can be on board with checking out but I am not so sure how I feel about the strange aspect. I don’t really know if that’s something I want myself to be capable of. However, I’d be a liar to say that I don’t find other women attractive so I’m no saint nor do I want to be. Basically what I’m getting from this is that I have covert contracts. I think I don’t have any but I do and I need to find out w…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 04:11 PM
1

Okay well this isn’t about her gaming me if that’s what you’re referring to. I game her almost every night and two years into our marriage I still get about on average 3 lays a week. I don’t want to do this for more sex. It’s more of a pride issue I think. I don’t know if I am right to think that way but I have this belief in my head where she may think that I need her and I want to prove to myself that I don’t.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 02:27 PM
1

I should have elaborated more about what I wanted to take responsibility on. It’s not about chores so much as it is stuff that she should never have to do or ask me to do. Simple things like fixing lightbulbs, taking care of the vehicles and paying all the bills is what I should have said. Did I understand what you were saying or did I misinterpret? When you say focus on options and abundance what is this in regards to.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 02:20 PM
1

I’ve been lifting. I didn’t know if it was optional to post or not. I’ve got a plan I worked on yesterday that I want to share next week. It’s in my front pocket! I don’t know if it’s the plan you all are talking about because I have not got to MAP yet but I’m working my way there. I’m about half way through NMMNG so it shouldn’t be too much longer.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 02:43 AM
1

Ding ding ding
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 10:54 PM
1

I would work with that and give yourself a time frame for her to get her act together. If the positive reinforcing doesn’t work then you’ve got to step it up and tell her straight with no sugar coating that you have expectations. At the end of the day our wives and their behaviors are a reflection of us. If they’re fat it’s because we didn’t lead them. We didn’t encourage them. We didn’t coach them. That’s how I see it and so far it’s working.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 10:33 PM
1

Women shit test. Men are direct. I thought women had to announce themselves?
/r/askMRP01/03/18 09:44 PM
1

Yeah it should be important to her so she has to respect you. If you look good, dress sharp and appear that you can lay other chicks than she should come around. I think for me my biggest help was a change in attitude, working out again and getting more responsible because I lacked in all three departments. My wife actually loves when I clean the house or do dishes. It makes her want to jump my bones for some odd ass reason. From what a lot of people say around here it’s how you make her feel th…
/r/askMRP01/03/18 09:36 PM
1

Okay so basically you just shrug it off as if she were asking you if you liked a movie or tv show. I like your last part. I’m not out to piss my wife off and I think now with what I’ve learned here is that the end game isn’t to get her to stop. I just need to give her an answer and move on because it’s no big deal. Thanks for your input.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 09:09 PM
1

It’s good that she’s already worked out. Were you praising her and complimenting her on accomplishments? Just about every day I grab my wife’s ass and tell her how firm it’s getting. I have noticed that this works for her and she continues to keep going. I’ve found that for my wife she responds best with positive reinforcement rather than negative. You’ll have to use a mixture of the two but figure out what works for her.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 09:07 PM
1

Did your wife ever work out at one point? If she’s never done any type of workout you may need to teach her. You’ll have to find a way to make her comfortable enough to go. The second option is to tell her you don’t want a fat wife. It’s tough but I took this route with my wife because she started gaining some weight and I just wasn’t going to have it.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 08:45 PM
1

Hahahah okay old man take care
/r/askMRP01/03/18 08:36 PM
1

I have been reading redpill books on and off again for years. I started in my early teens but did not pay much attention to it because I was very focused on a passion that I slowly got out of a few years ago when I decided that I wanted to live a new life. I read the Manual, Models, NMMNG, How to Win Friends and Influence People, Public speaking books, and dozens of financial books while other kids were in school getting their debt. I consciously made the decision to not go to school and waste m…
/r/askMRP01/03/18 05:27 PM
1

You see his tag "Red Beret" next to Redd's name? You know that means he's been at this a long time and knows his shit right? Unlike someone asking about how to handle an offended wife on AskMRP? Learn to take a punch if you're gonna stick your chin out. Redd handled you with kid gloves here and you're jumping to the attack out of insecurity. Not attractive. Not sure where the hostility came from. If he feels offended he can surely handle his battles himself. He doesn't need his secret lover chim…
/r/askMRP01/03/18 03:25 AM
2

I am certain that you know what you mean when you express yourself but you may not realize that we do not all interpret written text in the same way. Psychology and PUA books all share that communication is almost entirely comprised of non-verbal communication. With that in mind, does it surprise you that I am missing your point?
/r/askMRP01/03/18 02:51 AM
1

Haha, well she didn't grow up in the slums so I can confidently say that doesn't apply to her.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 02:28 AM
1

I'm not sure how she would have learned that because she didn't start dating until she left Brazil and went to Canada. I don't know Canadian culture nor do I know who her influencers were. I know she can be very tough at times but lately she's been very submissive. I've been unknowingly strumming the right notes for the past month and part of what brings me here is that I would like to keep this melody going.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 01:58 AM
1

Thankfully she doesn't have any doubt in my willingness or capability to protect her. I've done muy thai and lifted on and off for years and I always have a gun on me so that's not really an issue. I've always strayed away from saying, "Oh yeah she's pretty etc" because I just didn't want to hurt her feelings. What I didn't realize is that by not trying to hurt her feelings it hurt me because it reflected that I have weaknesses. I did it with good intentions and I think a few guys in here get it…
/r/askMRP01/03/18 01:46 AM
0

The shit testing will continue for life. Get that notion out of your head that you can control her or eliminate fitness testing. See, that's what I didn't understand. I didn't know if this was a thing that always happened and I just let it slip or if this is a thing that's supposed to be around. The ones that aren't you just shit talk on which she will lap up. I agree completely. My wife is always telling me how much fun she has around me because half of the time I'm never serious. We just had d…
/r/askMRP01/03/18 01:38 AM
1

Thanks, I have not read the entire thing. I am still working on it.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 01:30 AM
1

I genuinely cannot tell if you’re a troll or not. The way you throw around the word autistic (you obviously don’t know what it means), the cherry picking of psychoanalyzing and the fact that your account is under 30 days. Regardless, you’re so bitter and obviously very angry because something in your life isn’t being satisfied. It’s very clear which one of us is miles ahead but I’d gladly take a few steps back if it meant you take a few leaps forward. I hope you find some peace on your journey.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 10:47 PM
2

I understand the point now. You can’t not have fights because women need to feel something.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 07:14 PM
1

Really great post that this sub needed. Most of us are in a republican democracy. It’s choosing one slime ball over another slime ball. They fearmonger is into hating each other and fight while they continue to become rich and live frivolously on our tax dollars and the surplus of the elite. Make no mistake. Politicians are not your friends.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 06:03 PM
-2

Trump might be making some improvements but don’t think for a minute that he isn’t doing back door deals. All the presidents do bad stuff and you just haven’t found out about him. I proudly voted for him but even I’m not naive enough to think he isn’t doing some questionable things. Power corrupts everyone.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 06:01 PM
1

If you nonchalantly say “yeah she’s pretty” and leave it at that you’re not autistic. I think you’re trying a little too hard.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 05:40 PM
2

You’re way too invested in this dialogue.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 05:08 PM
1

Brazil
/r/askMRP28/02/18 04:55 PM
1

Could you clarify understaffing the underlying principle?
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:56 PM
1

Haha okay, well my wife is ESL so I’m almost positive she would have no idea wtf that means.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:53 PM
1

I didn’t think about it like that. In light of that, perhaps my mindset should be to just not lie. I’ll say the truth or whatever I want at the time and if she doesn’t like it I won’t care. I can’t expect her to stop asking those questions because women are painfully insecure and nothing will stop her from comparing herself to other woman.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:50 PM
-1

Not special, just naive.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:43 PM
1

I have no idea what the hell this means.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:41 PM
1

I just got done reading a post and NMMNG and I know this is a problem with me. I need to get away from this mentality. It never works and always puts me in a worse position.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:40 PM
1

I need to look up those two terms to better know what those are.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:39 PM
1

Really I just don’t want any fights. Those are the negative consequences I see. The positive consequences are her no longer shit testing me or at least thinking twice because she knows I’ll have no chill in me.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:33 PM
1

I understand your view but I think the factual proof is exactly what I should reply back with. I do in fact find other women attractive. Because I did not want to hurt her feelings I didn’t hit back. I understand your view though.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:31 PM
1

Okay great I’ll take a practical approach towards my goal. Where can I find the list of acronyms? I am not familiar with AA.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:03 PM
1

That’s an excellent response. I’m not interested in triggering my wife by saying blatantly inappropriate remarks. Although, those remarks aren’t off the table, it’s more about conditioning her to know my answer before she asks it,
/r/askMRP28/02/18 01:45 PM
3

I agree, you’re completely right. I just took a look over the 48 Laws of Power and one that struck me with my current situation is Law 46. Never Appear too Perfect A perfect man would say that his wife or LTR is the only beautiful woman and that he’s attracted to no one else. We all have vices and flaws so to hide them is deceitful and does more harm than good. A “Nice Guy” hides his true feelings because he is afraid of what others will think. It’s very likely that because I’ve conditioned my w…
/r/askMRP28/02/18 01:40 PM
1

Did you ease into audacious remarks or was it a gradual transition for you?
/r/askMRP28/02/18 01:11 PM
3

Thanks for the analysis. I appreciate the input and you’re probably not too wrong to suggest what you’re saying. I don’t have the audacity to say half the things that have been suggested but that doesn’t mean I have to let her keep shit testing me.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 01:06 PM
0

You’re absolutely right. I tell her she can’t be fat without a second thought so if I can say that then I should say whatever the hell I want whenever she asks. I need to stop acting like I’m afraid of losing her from saying the wrong thing. There is no wrong thing to say.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 12:41 PM
1

I don’t know why I put that in a special category. I’m going to move it right over to the weight idea because I have zero shits to give. I will look into the 48 Laws of Power. I haven’t picked this book up yet. If you want your wife to lose weight make sure you’re working out too. I have found that to make it way easier when I say she has to be fit. I like to lead by example in that department and so far it’s working really well for me.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 12:40 PM
1

That is a solid response!
/r/askMRP28/02/18 12:34 PM
1

I’ve never thought about it that way but yeah it is like a dance. I feel like most guys, including myself go through it, so I’ll take the advice and just answer honestly. I have no problem telling her when her ugly friends that she thinks are pretty are ugly so I should have no problem when they actually are pretty.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 11:10 AM
2

It’s a great question and something I reflected on yesterday while reading. The I’m fat question doesn’t phase me one bit. I’ve told her to stay in shape which worked just fine. She’s been slim and she’s staying slim because I’ve told her she can’t be overweight.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 11:02 AM
1

Oddly enough I had no problem telling her she can’t be fat unless she is pregnant.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 11:00 AM
1

You can be honest, you can lie or you can do what servers your interests. Yeah at the end of the day that’s all true. I think somewhere down the line I got uncomfortable with saying outrageous things. I’d rather go back to who I was and just condition her to knock that shit off.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 10:58 AM
1

Got it
/r/askMRP28/02/18 10:55 AM
0

What the hell. Next.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 10:52 AM
0

I like this approach. You say your wife doesn't ask you questions because she knows how you'll answer. Maybe my wife needs a dose of her own medicine so she won't ask me these questions any longer. Thanks.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 03:51 AM
3

This is my first OYS week and I’m not proud of that. I’ve been a long-time lurker of the sub for the past few months. I don’t come from a dead bedroom nor do I come from a marriage that’s on the rocks. However, I do have a marriage that rocks back and forth from time to time. Since things get dicey every now and then I decided to hop on in this sub and “nonchalantly” work on my marriage by working on a few aspects of my life. All of that being noted, today I realized I have been a captain who li…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 03:06 AM
1

You’re posting on incels and MGTOW so nobody should even listen to this shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 08:00 PM
7

I am so glad that this is not another bullshit post about how I need to use twitter or instagram. I'm married but even if I wasn't I never gave a shit about that stuff.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 03:00 AM
4

In no specific order.... After my first LTR dumped me I read No More Mr. Nice Guy, The Manual (Great book that I hear nobody talking about), Models (some say it's purple pill, still don't know what that is [I loved the book]), How to Win Friends and Influence People (read this 3-4 times now), The Thinking Life (Got me to be more introspective and philosophical I think). As a result, I no longer took shit from any woman including my wife. I would regularly ghost her if she misbehaved and would te…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 02:56 AM
4

As another fellow mrp, I’m so glad I saw this because I am doing my damn best to NOT be an open book like I was before. I used to be open and talk about my emotions. Now I just act more stoic but I still have more work to do.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 09:09 PM
2

Honestly I wouldn’t bring it up. In my personal experience, rehashing old problems brings trouble.
/r/askMRP20/02/18 06:39 PM
1

Sex is what makes a marriage, and if it goes south, the rest of it will soon too. I agree and I’m not arguing that but the way your going about trying to get sex isn’t productive. I think you should go through the levels of dread. Seeing as how you make a great salary I don’t think you should cheat especially since you’ve already told your wife that you’re thinking about it. I remember when I told my wife that there’s a difference between a man and a woman who live together and don’t have sex vs…
/r/askMRP20/02/18 06:20 PM
1

What stuck out to me is lack of performance. You ever thought that your wife might not want you because you’re not putting in enough effort? If I can’t give a 110% I’ll turn my wife down because I know I won’t satisfy her and that leads to a bad experience. It’s better to reject her and want me more than to give in and give a lack luster performance. I don’t know what you can say but I would work on your sex game. You can’t ask for sex and then suck at it you know? Read some books, articles and …
/r/askMRP20/02/18 06:16 PM
1

You’ve got way better reasons not to get involved with anyone who isn’t your wife. You make a 120k a year dude. If you get carried away and physically cheat on your wife you better hope you don’t get divorce raped. Let me tell you something...I have never text any woman who I would not sleep with. I doubt you’re much different then me. I’m more than sure you’re emotionally cheating on her. That may be fine today but like I said. If it turns physical and your wife finds out you can enjoy giving h…
/r/askMRP20/02/18 06:04 PM
3

You don’t cheat if you’re forced to. You cheat if you decide to. She doesn’t force you to do anything and neither does the health of your relationship. Red Pill is all about taking ownership, accountability and responsibility. If you cheat on her and she finds out are you going to say it’s her fault because XYZ? That’s what women say. Women come up with excuses for cheating because they do not take responsibility for their actions. When a woman cheats, it’s never her fault. When a man cheats it’…
/r/askMRP20/02/18 05:58 PM
1

Yeah chill out with your dread levels. For me texting is cheating because I have no reason to text any women. I would never give any woman who isn’t my wife, mother or relative any attention because I don’t believe opposite sex can be friends. I think that because this random chick knows your sex life it’s obviously not a platonic relationship. I am in school and I’ve never mentioned my sex life at school to anyone because it’s not the time or place.
/r/askMRP20/02/18 05:53 PM
5

You said sex or else. That’s fear dude. If you were a real man you’d just go fuck another woman without putting fear in her head. What you did was small and now you’ve put yourself in a worse position. It’s great to have a woman who knows your awesome so she doesn’t want to lose you but when she is in fear for her relationship because she doesn’t want to lose you that’s not what you want.
/r/askMRP20/02/18 05:43 PM
4

I’m married and a subscriber of married red pill. You need to get on there and get yourself together. None of this “give me sex or else nonsense.” You’re cheating on your wife by flirting with other women. That’s your business if you choose to do that but you went from 0-100. You need to learn the levels of dread and be patient.
/r/askMRP20/02/18 05:39 PM
1

I think her being South American plays a big role. She doesn’t believe in feminism and she actually has said multiple times how she believes in traditional marriage. The bonus is that she came from a middle class family so she isn’t impressed with fancy clothes and gadgets. Luck can run out at any time though which is why I don’t have oneitus of believe in happily ever after. I enjoy every day though and live in the moment because nothing in this world lasts forever and that goes double for love…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 11:12 PM
5

Well honestly take a good look at yourself and your actions. If you’re not worth losing then you’re girlfriend will shape up. If she thinks she’s going to lose you then she’ll change her tune. I was lucky to have been mostly alpha during our relationship so she learned early on not to screw with me because she knew from the past that I wouldn’t put up with it. You’ll have to work a system out to where she respects you. I know me personally, if I had a fat girlfriend, I’d drop her ass without eve…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 10:55 PM
1

Exactly, there are winners out there and they are easy to spot when you recognize the language.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 04:29 AM
1

My wife is Brazilian so my back up is Brazil. Considering all the women there are unbelievably gorgeous I hope I never have to move there because the foreigner effect is real as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 04:08 AM
9

I started when I was about 16 or 17 now and I am 25 now. I'd say after I started reading all the good books early on, when I hit about 20-21 my game was on fire. I was slow to get started because I hung out with a group of betas for a few years. After I ditched them and went off on my own I did significantly better. I'm married now but that doesn't mean you stop your SMV game. I hit the gym 3-4 times a week, reread old pick up books (that way I can game my wife or other women if I unfortunately …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 04:02 AM
1

Others do not want to see you win. . . . People do not like to see others succeed. Depending on the situation this is so true. My wife has got this friend who just had a baby and her husband bitched and moaned about how hard it was to have a kid at his age (30) [My parents had me at 35 and 32 so I laughed because they had my brother too]. He said, "You should just have a kid now." It's as if can't stand being miserable alone so he needs someone else to go through it. He sees my care free lifesty…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 03:51 AM
2

I’ve already made it clear with her that it’s understandable to gain baby weight
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 08:13 PM
3

I’m her husband. My wife wasn’t overweight but she could have easily got there in a decade if I gave her a beta reassurance that her body was perfect because she was an angel sent from above. My wife is happier from hitting the gym, feels more confident and is less stressed. She is happier and healthier because I challenged her to be a better person and she stepped up the plate and swung hard because I told her she could every day.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 03:48 PM
21

Yeah, my wife has been hitting the gym hard as hell. She goes about 3-4 times a week and tells me when we have kids she wants to be my milf. Those obviously weren’t the first words out of her mouth. There was resistance like “my girl friends’ husbands would never say that” and I said that’s why their wives are fat. After a few months of her working out I told her there’s three reasons why I wanted her to work out. I said first, you were always stressed out and now you’re way more relaxed and sex…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 03:43 PM
72

Lmao I remember when I told my wife it wasn’t okay to be fat. The look on her face was just epic. She’s not overweight or disgusting and she wasn’t when I said it but I said no, that’s exactly what I meant. If a man or woman thinks they can get married and then stop taking care of themselves physically, emotionally and intellectually then they deserve every bit of what they get. If you lift weights, read books and practice emotional intelligence you don’t deserve a fat uneducated cow holding you…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 01:30 AM
1

From a philosophical point of view right and wrong are just social constructs. We behave the way we do because we’ve been conditioned by society to do so. I think that these social constructs, when cherry picked, are crucial to our way of life. If you watch Planet Earth you can get a good idea what life would be like without morales and values. I remember last week when I saw these iguanas that were born on the sands of a beach every year. A majority of those iguanas never lived past a few minut…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 03:24 PM
2

Great reply! My motto back in the day was I’ll have sex on the first night but I won’t sweat it if I don’t. Dates 3-5 were I’ve got to have sex or I’m out. I came up with this after I realized I dated the same girl for 16 weeks and never slept with her after her countless attempts to have sex with me which my feebly untrained mind never registered.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 11:14 PM
36

I didn’t come from a dead bedroom but TRP has done a lot for my marriage. People can say what they will but once you start practicing these preaches your life gets better and the people in your life benefit as a result.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 06:39 PM
2

I have done a lot of dumb shit in my days but I’ve never had to resort to becoming a felon to get my dick wet. You can definitely be an engineer and get laid. You just can’t go telling a girl how cool it is to work with CAD and make stuff because they don’t give a shit about technical stuff.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 09:17 PM
1

Lmao did you seriously suggest being an arms dealer?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 09:10 PM
0

You sound like a beta. His business is his business and alphas don't care what betas think about their business. All of your comments have been fluff.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 01:55 PM
1

Traditional payment as in money. The above was implied.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 01:54 PM
1

If you can't mentor someone you're not alpha.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 01:53 PM
1

It's early for me so I saw the word farm and then immediately saw the word heroin so I thought to myself this guy needs to chill out.
/r/askMRP20/01/18 12:25 PM
1

Lmao my that is so true it's hilarious. My wife was crying the other day because she thought she turned in some paperwork late. She realizes the due date was 08/02/18 not 02/08/18 (she's foreign so they read dates backwards where she's from.) Between her going downstairs and coming back up she went from crying and sobbing to having out of the blue raging sex with me. I would hate to be that much of an emotional roller coaster every day.
/r/askMRP20/01/18 12:23 PM
4

So you’re gonna adopt all the children without fathers? Never said that. I used the word child, as in singular. It’s a nice thing to do but why support a woman that cheated on you? You don't support the wife. You divorce her and leave her ass. Supporting the child does not have to come in the form of payment. It comes in mentorship. In this hypothetical scenario you divorce your wife and have no financial obligation because it's not your child not your problem. However, if this child was a good …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 07:45 PM
11

If he chooses to that's his business. You don't need to be a biological parent to form a relationship with someone. You can't just take back years of bonding with someone you thought was your child.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 12:19 PM
9

I think if something like that happened to me I would divorce my wife but still treat the kid as my own. That child shouldn't grow up without a father figure to love him and support him (if the real father is nowhere to be found) just because his mother was a whore. If anything it would be a great lesson to redpill the child with.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 11:19 AM
1

The problem is that you complained.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 07:08 PM
9

The way I see life is that you aren't passionate in one thing. To say we all have one passion and that we have to find it is as bogus as finding our one true love. We know that there can't be one woman so there can't be one passion. Instead I advise a different approach on life that I adopted in the last 3 months. Instead of berating myself for not having a passion I decided that I would instead live passionately. I decided that I would enjoy going into work. Doing my job better and learn new sk…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 06:25 PM
1

Lmao I remember reading that and I was like wtf is that guy on about. I'm hard pressed to believe the guy has even seen a vaj.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 11:17 AM
6

They got to make that money 💰
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 02:44 PM
8

not desperately holding onto a past version of her. I realize I'm a bit late to the party but this reminded me of my first serious girlfriend. What you said could not be anymore wise. Now I'm married and I know better! Very well said.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 09:22 PM
3

You just described what happens in Brazil.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:34 PM
1

If you don't legally get married, guess what, you're not married. Hence why I said you're either on the horse or your not. You say that marriage is special but it's obviously not because if it were you wouldn't want anyone else. I think what is worse than unofficially or officially (you can't make your mind up) giving up your time, is when you commit to one person but then go after others people. It makes absolutely no sense to be 100% legally committed to someone when you're not 100% emotionall…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:00 PM
5

I don't think that's really worth noting because it's more of a "no shit Sherlock" statement.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 07:33 PM
1

I mean no disrespect but you're basing your entire argument off your parents who you've admitted didn't do a great job. One of the main reasons I am for marriage is because owning property is difficult as fuck in a domestic partnership. My mother bought a house with a boyfriend and he was not a great guy. Because she was not married to him it was a massive fiasco to deal with when their relationship burnt out. There is very very little legal protection that my mother did not expect. Even after I…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 04:55 PM
1

Let me chime in because OP and I disagreed on the original post about this girl. One of the reasons why my marriage is awesome as a red pill is because my wife is South American and South American women have not been influenced by North American and European feminist movements. OP forgets that there are women out there who want to please men and do all the traditional women gender roles. I would tell any of my closest buddies to never marry an American woman. Most of them can't cook, they don't …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 04:26 PM
1

I respect your opinion and appreciate your view but I do think that there are more layers or subsections of the red pill mindset. I don't have to rationalize my marriage to keep my sanity. I know very well that I could divorce my wife tomorrow and have women the very same week. I choose to let her be in my life and she knows this because when she misbehaves I make it very clear who's in charge. I'm sure you and I see eye to eye on many levels but there will always be minor disagreements regardle…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 03:09 PM
5

As an experiment, try and enter into any sort of LTR / monogamous relationship with a woman in 2018 without this mentality, and instead with an equal-ist progressive liberal mentality and watch your life fall to pieces. Lmao what's so funny about this is how right you are! I've been married about two years and I tried this whole feminism thing. It didn't destroy my relationship but man did it get out of hand quick. Women expect you to do all the work and when you pass on responsibilities to them…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 02:31 PM
1

Time, resources and personal freedom are also restricted by the 7:30-4:30 job I have as well. By your logic, everyone should quit their job and seek women full time. While I will not disagree that my sexual variety has plummeted to zero, I do have more frequent and better sex than single and married men. In my opinion, if you want to have kids you should be married because that is very logical. A good logical proposition for marriage, if American like I am, is the shared benefits of healthcare. …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 02:05 PM
1

I actually pay attention but perhaps I don't see the signs. I figure my wife is like me and I mean that because of something I told my buddies. When you get married you don't turn gay. Women don't stop being attractive. You take a look and you go on your way. I think women are the same and after reading The Manual of What Women Want I know that they think about sex as much or more than we do. I'm going to hit the sidebar hard though. I care about my marriage so I like to work at it but by no mea…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:47 PM
3

It's funny that you say all this because this exact attitude is what got me her in the first place. She's a very beautiful South American girl so she was not familiar with the word "no" when we met. She always took a backseat to my hobbies, friends and personal goals. As a result, she always blew up my phone and I purposely made that decision to let her hang out with me, not the other way around. Unfortunately when you marry you do lose a lot of that leverage. It's difficult to ignore someone th…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:40 PM
1

If you're not going to legally commit to a woman I wouldn't even bother. You could smash all the women you want. Why would you unofficially settle for one woman? You're either on the horse or your not.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:16 PM
1

You don't lose all it if you weren't a pussy when you first got married. I got redpilled when I was a teenager. I didn't know it but I learned a lot of alpha behavior that really started to work on my late teens and early 20s. You lose your leverage when you try to be diplomatic and start to believe in feminism. If there's one thing life, news and being married has taught me is that the more responsibilities you give women, the more upset they become. You have to hold onto the reins and steer ev…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:15 PM
1

Cheating on your wife is the equivalence of financial and social suicide. If you want to smash other girls than you be a smart man and get a divorce.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:12 PM
2

Marriage should be avoided if you don't want children. Unless you want to raise a child all by yourself you should get married. I got married because I want a child and I do not want to be a single parent. Every person has their reason for marriage. It's very narrow minded to blanket every marriage as a waste. You were likely the result of one so it's a little contradictory to your existence.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:11 PM
3

This is the exact truth. If you don't control your girlfriend she will misbehave just like a wife will misbehave. I used to play hard ball all the time with my wife when we dated and I thought that the game would stop when I was married but it didn't. Women are unconscious to their own behavior. It does not stop when they marry and if you do not stay on the wheel then they will become upset. Women are most happiest when they are being treated like a child. It's so fucked up but the more I treat …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:09 PM
2

I don't agree with your point of view because people marry for many reasons. I got married because I want to have kids and raise them in a traditional family upbringing. If you don't want kids that's fine but if you do and you choose to raise them by yourself...good luck with that. Second, I got married because my wife was not of my same country. She was 5,000 miles away so I needed to marry her if I wanted to have a life with her. Third is that I've seen her motherly skills because she was a ki…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:07 PM
1

I don't have faith in marriage and never did. I think that's one of the biggest mistakes men can make. I'm not saying don't get married but what I am saying is that everything you've heard in movies is wrong. A successful marriage is about being a man and not letting your wife push you around. When your wife pushes you around she loses respect for you. The name of the game is to be respected and then loved.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:02 PM
12

I wish it didn't have to be that way but as much as I've tried to find another way I know that's the truth. When I was single I had great frame and never knew it but when you get married you chill out. You let your guard down because you think you've won but that's not even close to the truth. The game goes on but like they say it becomes theredpill on hard mode because it's a lot more challenging. I had a rough going the last few months so I've been working on rebuilding my frame, hobbies and p…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:45 AM
23

I'm two years married so it hits a little too close to home. Thankfully I've never seen any signs but this AWOLT stuff can be a little unnerving.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 12:44 AM
22

aerial ramming I thought it was another kind of ramming.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 12:01 AM
39

There's this thing called divorce rape that the kids haven't figured out.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 12:00 AM
28

Damn, I feel bad for the husband.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:59 PM
2

Last resort, just go ahead and nail the coffin shut.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/17 02:47 PM
1

Appreciate the response. being scared, of anything much less internet randos is not particularly attractive. read all the sidebar down to prerequs before posting anywhere except OYS. Was more worried about being told to toss off and not get any genuine response. I'll keep this in mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/17 04:13 PM
1

So I'm not understanding the OYS part. Where exactly did OP go wrong? New MRP so please don't roast me too bad. I genuinely want to understand. Thanks in advance.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/17 03:24 PM
7

Short time lurker and MRP in training. This comment section was a riot to read but I do not feel bad for OP. I'm brand new to this and even I get the idea of this sub. It's about being a man and owning your business. The guy attached his happiness to a person and that's the worst thing you can do. Happiness comes from within. Definitely keep this up because this is doing MRP wrong and it needs to be accessible for those of us in training on what not to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/17 03:04 PM
1

That music made me laugh my ass off. Guy was the happiest dude on the planet.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/05/17 09:33 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter