What are your top 3 best pieces of advice to give for Daygame?

potatoeswithfries · 2022-07-29T06:51:15+00:00

My top three pieces of advice for pickup in general are:

Always try to look your best (and take care of your hygiene!), so that even if you're just going to the store to pick something up and by chance you see someone attractive on the way there, you won't have excuses not to approach like "oh no, I'm in dirty, lousy clothes, I can't go talk to them right now".
Get out of the house and talk to cute strangers. Watching YouTube videos on the topic of pickup can open your eyes to what's possible, but it won't get anyone in your bed. Get off of Reddit, go talk to someone in real life (even if you just say hi to someone and then stand there not knowing what to say next, that's still better than being yet another keyboard jockey here on this subreddit).
When talking with anyone, keep strong eye contact with the person you're talking to. Savoy once wrote in his book "Magic Bullets" that "Eye contact is probably the most important element of body language. Hold eye contact 50% of the time when you are being spoken to and 90% of the time when you are speaking" - I've seen people laugh at these percentages, but obviously you're not supposed to calculate the percentages somehow, you nerdy dingbats, this is just supposed to give you a clue about how much eye contact, more or less, you should be keeping with people if you need advice like that. And if you're on this subreddit, you probably do.

So these are pretty basic and mostly outer game related pieces of advice, but I think those three things are the most important ones, you're not getting anywhere without those.

As for mindset, I think this quote from Paul Janka is one of the best things to keep in mind, especially as a beginner: "You are never “bothering” a girl by hitting on her. Remember that it’s your duty as a man to engage the opposite sex and initiate contact. Don’t get into thinking you’re being intrusive, she will let you know."

As for the best places for daygame, I'd say the streets, especially streets near busy shopping malls - that's where I had success with daygame.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-29T12:57:53+00:00

1 - Keep questions to a minimum because women hate them. Anything more than 10% of the conversation being questions shows you are boring, and have nothing interesting or fun to say. Skip the interrogation mode, and actually tell her anecdotes or how you feel about things, or joke around, tease her and flirt with her.

2 - Talk for at least 10 minutes and escalate things sexually. Daygame isn’t just about saying “she looks cute, and that as a result of that you wanted to know her name and get her number” all in less than 1 minute.

You have to provoke emotions, you have to get her to feel the sexual tension and a solid connection , and that usually requires not only longer conversation (10 mins) but also it requires to tell her you find her sexy, hot, attractive, that she makes you feel aroused for her attributes or qualities…

Basically show that you are a sexual man who is in front of a a sexy woman. Make it man to woman. Don’t just be mister friendly nice guy, who talks to her like she is talking to his sister or his mother. You have to express desire, no matter how tense and risky things get from doing that. Specially to avoid getting friendzoned.

Show that you are a man with a penis from the first interaction by expressing your sexual desire.

3 - Don’t make it sound like you went out to socialise with people, make it clear that you are approaching her as an exception to your routine day.

You need to be clear that you are exclusively hitting on her because you are exclusively interested in her that day. Not because you are playing a numbers game with every girl that passes by that day, hoping one will be easy enough to sleep with you.

So don’t go with indirect shit like “Oh i was just out here meeting people to fight my social anxiety” or any shit like that.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-29T11:28:07+00:00

Don't go out for the purpose of day gaming/picking up girls/trying to get laid.

Popular_Ad3953 · 2022-07-29T13:05:36+00:00

be cocky and confident

grindforthegold · 2022-07-29T14:47:30+00:00

open indirect , cold read her , 1-2 topics max ethnicty job , find out her logistics , mention a place nearby she might like , set up date , close for number , rinse and repeat. Try to actually pretend your shopping even bring a fake shopping bag don’t be that weirdo just day gaming with a water bottle

Title	What are your top 3 best pieces of advice to give for Daygame?
Author	that_italianoguy
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	July 29, 2022 6:08 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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