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[–]megainculu 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's not complicated. You approach a girl, talk to her, get her number and then rejoin your friends saying, "hey it was nice meeting you but I have to rejoin my friends" and then just carry on. Now don't keep looking at her afterwards. Since meeting new people is overwhelming for most people, a short and simple conversation is much better than spending too much time with her. You have to giver her space and time to breathe and think about you and the conversation she just had with you. Happy hunting😉
[–]CocoBabeNYC 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So you just played a scary scenario in your head and pussied out. What you feared never happened yet you are convinced it's real?
[–]AngeloMacon 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They way I used to do it was just talking when I approached. Nothing too direct like asking for a number. Say I have to get back go my buds, are you sticking around for awhile, love to talk more.
Play it from there.if she's about to leave, strike now. If she says she'll be there. Just go back in 30 minutes when you pee, go for a smoke or order something at the bar. She seems to be eagerly eyeing you as you walk nearest her, stop and talk again. She gives zero IOIs, then let it go. You'd be surprised how much better the results you'll have with the hot, cold, will he won't he will do for seduction on both your parts.
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I would reapproach the same night, especially if you are at the same bar.
I've gotten numbers that way, too, but unless I go somewhere from the bar with them, even as a group, then I rarely hear back from them.
[–]These-Membership-861 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So the goal should not be getting numbers. It should be getting her. People focus on getting number too much I think.
3 years ago when i was in a club, i was trying to get a number from a hot girl, one of my friends said " what the fck are you gonna do with the number ? just go fuck her in the toilet"
I realized that he is right because i saw that that girl gave her number more than 10 people apart from me.
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn't put as much emphasis on getting their numbers as much as just having a good interaction with them. If you have to part, exchange numbers. Maybe drunk text later...
[–]untitlednote1 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
if you do that, most of the time that number that you got will end up flaking on you
better off approaching when you plan to leave the bar. or you can approach, but be prepared to stay in the set for as long as you can. maybe even merge her with your friend group
[–]Dumpster_slut69 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My friends have always been too weak to approach and they never get girls
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