Keeping masculine frame?

RemarkableStudio8823 · 2022-07-25T08:19:51+00:00

Working on this too. But imo the easiest way to keep masculine frame is to have an abundance mindset and make yourself the origin of everything. I’m working on this too, but assume everyone likes you, assume every girl wants to smash, assume you’re the best person at your job.

Also helps to not be as available, when something makes you feel off, take time to think about it or just say no to the situation. Smile only when you want to, not to make the other person feel safe.

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-25T02:34:32+00:00

Go workout, play tennis, shoot hoops...etc. Getting exercise.

2022-07-25T05:36:28+00:00

This took me decades to internalise, but it comes down to this: Not all people are the same, and that is ok. What if this “masculine frame” you have understood is actually a mental construct which is not compatible with yourself, at least at this point in your life?

Here is the hard part, but try the following: try to accept that your unique features are not “bad”, and much less something you need to hide. They may be incompatible with getting a result at a given moment, sure, but going against the flow is the real problem.

For example, you may feel out of it suddenly, due to something like an intimidating thought, or just feeling tired. Your secondary reaction to that could be fear, worry, anxiety. “Oh sh*t how do I change this??” This will set you further apart from your “ideal state”, and the cycle will repeat itself, and it is going to get worse.

However, with a clear head, you can make a note of the primary cause, and then be able to evaluate it more in the future. But the cool thing is that you can also control the secondary reaction as well. You don’t have to have a negative reaction, or you can be mindful of those feelings as well. You can even be open about it, experiment with it as a conversational topic.

Once you gain more insight in the way your mind works, it will be easier to apply long term goals to get to where you want to be. It can be anything from joining improv classes to starting a specific sport, therapy. This can take time to fix, but what will come out of it is knowing your unique traits, rather than trying to live up to other people’s standards (the “masculine frame”)

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-25T01:29:55+00:00

It's cause you are a nice guy who makes others a priority.

Fate-in-haze · 2022-07-25T00:38:54+00:00

Swinggcat has a product called masculine polarity, look into it.

Title	Keeping masculine frame?
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Date	July 25, 2022 12:09 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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