How to navigate hookup culture?

runaround_fruitcop · 2022-07-25T03:19:02+00:00

Get the hook up stuff out of your system. If you wanna fuck and date around do it, and make that CLEAR.

But if you start hooking up with people you wanna date, it's gonna be way harder to actually get anything long term.

If im fwb with 2 or 3 dudes and one starts talking about long term crap... like why get in a fwbs or just "hookup"

If you want sex go get just sex. But if you want a long term relationship be honest with yourself and don't start getting into situationships with people cuz you don't know what you really want.

dbat_REGod · 2022-07-24T19:38:28+00:00

I think you should do research on YouTube and this sub. There's a lot for you to learn and it would be a lot to type out to explain it to you. Women like sex just as much as men. If you're not a creep with some type of perceived value and good looks you too can have sex on the first night. Some hookups turn into more, but usually it's to fulfill a physical need with no emotions. You also have friends with benefits and the dreaded friend zone which means you give attention to the girl, but you get no benefits. Personally I'd recommend you dating for a while to really figure out what type of women you like best before trying to get in a relationship with the first girl that shows you interest. A lot of guys don't make it that far because they're scared to talk to women. Focus on your goals and self improvement in every aspect and getting women will become a lot easier. Learn how to communicate well. Not just with women but with everyone in general. If you want a relationship great but I'd go into it without expectations. Feel the energy and connection between you to see if you actually get along with her and you can have effortless interactions. See if you have similar interests and if you like hanging around them for more than a couple hours. Post nut clarity is a real factor so if you still like being around them after ejaculation there may be something there worth exploring. You need to know if she's also on the same page and if she's not no worries there are plenty of women on this planet, so find another one. Good Luck!

Title	How to navigate hookup culture?
Author	sazze34
Upvotes	3
Comments	2
Date	July 24, 2022 5:36 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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