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[–]bigmanpav 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Rejection from a cold approach is fine for me, but it feels bad when we go on a date and she turns down a kiss or writes after "sorry I wasn't feeling it" or something like that. How do you deal with rejection after dates?
[–]that_italianoguy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you go back out there annd meet someone else.
[–]premedchunsa 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
facts
[–]sidbunch6 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
But do not stand there and keep making someone who might not be having the best night feel more awkward.
i used to read about something called 'plowing' where you basically keep trying to seduce a girl even if she doesn't seem into you with all kinds of techniques i read about. It never once worked for me or anyone i've ever known. Just wasting time and making her feel more uncomfortable the more you try to stick in there like an alabama tick! you can't game your way to attraction
I really think game only works on girls who were already attracted to you before you even said hi. And with them girls you don't need to do anything special anyway really.
i tend to wait for IOI's and stuff now and if not i don't waste more than 10 seconds on a girl after my open if i can tell im not her type. Works much better for me
[–]Total_Obligation_371 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah I've always thought of game and the process of guiding girls who are interested in you through the process to hooking up.
[–]sidbunch6 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yes, me too. I think marketing is largely to blame and gives people an unrealistic idea of what is possible. It's a business after all. It's really just about leading the already attracted girl to sex, basically. As you imply. Not the most difficult thing in the world, but it is possible to screw up and people who have 'game' lose these attracted girls less frequently
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