How to approach a girl without coming off as trying to pick her up?

vandaalen · 2018-03-12T22:23:48+00:00

Never try to hide your intentions.

cursedflame · 2018-03-12T22:17:49+00:00

Then Make the approach a little bit sexual, Show that you are sexual intrested in her. it won't bounce her of, it will actually do the 180. Thats some alpha behaviour so they will like it. i got a good one for you,

Hey, i just had to talk to you else i would regret it for the next 10 minutes of my life. a little bit cocky yes but the thing with that comment is it doesn't show any needy ness from your side, and also that you are in your frame and stay in it. Or what you also could say, is something about the clothes she is wearing. " i like those heels with that dress it looks good" Here also you are not complimenting her, so no pussy pedestalling.

really it's not that hard, just don't overthink it to much, just do it and don't think what to say. once you enter that phase of what to say your own mind will talk you out of it completely because your brain registers rejection as pain and danger. Just do it bro. you want to get rejected a couple of times, and it will happen unfortunatly, but after a few rejections you will actually start enjoying the game. and you will improvise, adapt, and overcome! Sorry i just had to use the meme. You got this Brother! Just do it! :)

replicaplater · 2018-03-13T00:05:59+00:00

It sounds like you have got the pussy on the pedestal way too much. You're interested in her and you wanna pick her up cause she's attractive right? There's no right thing/line to say that will work all the time and for everyone, you just gotta try and find out what works for you.

If your really struggling beyond the introduction part try commenting on something she is wearing i.e. clothing, bracelets etc and ask or compliment her about it. Girls tend to wear certain stuff to because they want to other people to notice it. Take advantage of it and use it to thread a conversation, if it goes well getting her number should be easy.

oldslut · 2018-03-13T00:25:09+00:00

i'm a direct kind of guy. for me, if she doesn't know why i'm talking to her, what's the point. i think, being direct saves you a lot of time in the long run. i'm not there to make small talk or friends.

Casd12 · 2018-03-13T21:40:27+00:00

First of all, is this something i want to even be doing?

If you want to be friendzoned, then yes

QuantumSpecter · 2018-03-12T22:26:11+00:00

Wtf is wrong with you. Read models. That “too cool” is stupid bro.

Title	How to approach a girl without coming off as trying to pick her up?
Author	QuantumSpecter
Upvotes	4
Comments	14
Date	March 12, 2018 10:09 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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