PSA: tirelessly pursuing sex and orienting one’s life around it, dropping plans and commitments if an opportunity arises, doing and saying whatever it takes to get laid, cheating, lying, pressuring, manipulating and so on is the opposite of high value

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-06-24T03:56:37+00:00

Not a bad post, but it only really applies to guys who are at a certain level or above.

For guys who aren't able to get laid, this sort of advice will fall on deaf ears or won't be too beneficial.

It's similar with money. Going from dead broke to having 100k in savings will dramatically improve that person's life. They probably should obsess about not being broke.

Going from 100k to 200k in savings probably won't, and it would be detrimental to focus on that to the exclusion of everything else.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-24T03:59:10+00:00

Sex is the be all, end all for 90% of people in this sub. This sub was made for learning how to attract women at the end of the day.

But is it really wrong to throw around the deeper, soulful stuff? I think not. After all, inner game ties into getting laid anyway. Not only are you now getting laid or getting a gf, you will become a more fulfilled person exclusive of the fact that your penis is inside a vagina.

Your value as a human being is reflected and based on things much more substantial then whether hot women decide to have sex with you or not.

Pussy is the slice of the pizza, not the whole thing.

This attitude has helped me and others get laid more than walking around being an RSD robot.

2022-06-24T04:15:59+00:00

My view is that every man needs to cultivate some degree of abundance to the extent that he can. Then he can better understand what he likes, and what he doesn't like. By this point, he will also hopefully have seen the dark sides of abundance, too, such that he doesn't pedestalize the female position and experience. Just because someone has a bunch of options doesn't mean that all or even most matter. But coming to this understanding isn't an intellectual exercise. You need to see it and feel it for yourself. Then you can decide if you want to continue down that route or make a transition.

The truth is getting part of your life handled does matter quite a bit to men and not all of it can be written off as "insecurity" and "toxic masculinity." Anything that's not this, imo, is platitudes and moralizing.

I've always found Paul Janka to be a good example of someone who made an authentic transition to the next phase of life without throwing his younger self under the bus to score brownie points.

yo_saturnalia · 2022-06-24T15:08:29+00:00

Great post. I can’t agree more.

2022-06-24T04:30:12+00:00

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