she was good looking but she wasnt my type and i find other girls more attractive.

she worked way too much and wasnt really that fun of a person, kind of uptight, and would ignore me sometimes when we hungout in groups which i felt was rude.

and she wasnt that nice of a person, and was sort of fake, and would talk about people behind their backs and pretend to like them.

she was always working and not as available to hangout and would only want to do the stuff she liked to do.

even though she worked a lot i thought her jobs were boring and not that interesting, and she was not financially doing great and was very frugal with money. thats not bad, but she presented herself as some successful person, which i felt was disiingenous and also im not as frugal with money, so we had different money values.

she was also conservative and had some stupid andd ignorant uneducated views which was so off pudding. like she didnt like fat people (which isnt conservative but just weird)

she acted mature and grown up but lived with her parents and sort of still listened to them

and the things she wanted in a guy and her view of relationships were just so childish and immature and not the same as mine

And finally she was not emotionally mature, not in touch with her emotions, not able to communicate how she felt, and since ive been in therapy my whole life im really used to that type of communication, so that’s a big one for me