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[–]Total_Obligation_371 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Improve yourself to the point that you can get hotter girls. I'm assuming she's the hottest, or one of the hottest, girls you've been with. THAT'S the main thing you're upset about. Make yourself hot and fuck hotter girls.
[–]YGK321 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She def is. It’s really hard not to have Oneitis when she legitimately was the best girl I’ve ever been with and I’m 31. Her ex before me was a safety in the NFL. I don’t even know how I got her in the first place, all my friends couldn’t believe it either. Now even objectively attractive girls feel like a straight up downgrade. Sucks man
[–]NastyMonkeyKing 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Gah damn you must have some huge confidence and major Big dick energy to get a girl with an ex like that.
And if you did it before. When you were younger and dumber.
Why can't you do it again?
[–]YGK321 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Idk you would think it would be a confidence booster but she just straight up rekt me when she ended it. Haven’t been the same since
[–]NastyMonkeyKing 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's fair. As someone who can't relate, at all.
I just want you to keep in mind that you were that guy.
Something is in the way of it now. And you'll have to find a way to go through that. But don't forget you were/are that guy. Just something is in the way right now.
Seems like therapy is gonna be the best option. If you're chasing a girl you think is as hot as she was it's gonna be damn near impossible to get one.
[–]RedCardOrder 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just focus on yourself bro
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Catch feelings.. better catch fish to feed ur fam, mr disney romantic guy
[–]WTFyow 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It may feel that way looking back since there is a strong emotional connection and memories but it’s possible to find that with someone else, it will never be the same and it’s good you can think back and appreciate the relationship but don’t allow that to get in the way of finding something new. Maybe ask yourself what qualities made your ex so attractive.
You may still have to get over it emotionally before you can move on fully. Remind yourself why it ended or why it wouldn’t work out.
Keep looking for a girl that makes you feel that. If no one does you may have to do some deep inner work to find out what’s stopping you from opening your heart again.
This is all my opinion and I don’t know if I have the answer for myself either. Hope it gave you some ideas :-)
Ask yourself what you really want. And… if you believe it’s possible to move on.
[–]YGK321 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man hopefully more time will help too. Been about 7 months
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