Hi Guys,

This past month I've been partying pretty hard. I'm going out again this weekend. I want to be able to get to the root of my problems. Each time I've went to a bar or night club, at least every night, there are 6-7 girls I dance with, or get their numbers. It's usually a 50/50 type of thing, I usually get approached, or I'll approach.

After chilling with say one girl for 1 hour, she gets bored, and leaves. I believe my issue is escalation. The escalation ceiling is already extremely high because it seems like majority of the time they're all over me, physicality, and dancing.

Now for this weekend, I'm trying to get ready. My biggest issue ends up being, I don't know what to say after the first 10 minutes because the environment is super loud, and yes, I learned my mistake. It's all non-verbal cues. So, how do you transition from bar to going home with them? Especially early in the night?

I'm better at cold approaching in public. But I'm trying to improve my game realistically.

My social value is pretty high, and I'm a proponet of that. For some reason, people are attracted to me. Like talking to me, or making new friends. For instance, I was in NYC two weeks ago, for the first time in 12 years. First night out, I made friends with the bar manager(s), and their numbers. Essentially they told me to text them, or ask for them when I come, and I can get in for free. Especially free drinks. I'm pretty good socially. That honestly feels great, when there's a line, and I ask for the manager, and just go in. It does enhance my social value.

Thank you!