I think that this is a reality that you have to accept when you are trying to date because it will help you realize how the world really works (and not how you wish it worked). Only 20 percent of men are attractive to women and the rest are either classified as beta ghosts. Most men have to earn a woman's respect and affection but the top 20 don't need to work for it at all. Don't hate woman for it, that is their nature. That is the nature of the game, embrace it and accept it. Competition is tough and for winners to exist some people have to lose.

Why am I telling you this? because most men can get to top 30 percent with a lot of hard work and sometimes even sneak into the bottom of the 20 percent. The 2 traits you have to have in order for this to happen is 1. Blind confidence 2. Crazy success in your profession. 1. If you dominate your environment socially and have crazy confidence and leadership skills, good communication, you will be very attractive. 2. If you are the most successful person in your passion then again, extremely attractive! Being that confident and having crazy success are both extremely rare to have...but you cannot be mediocre at all. You can't afford to not have those things. Good luck