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[–]CitizenKeane 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Over the last year I lost 50 pounds and put on muscle, straightened my teeth, got a new wardrobe and yes there is a huge difference in how receptive women are when I approach them. Looking good also makes you more confident. It won't magically solve everything but looks do matter whatever people might say
[–]pleasant__sheep 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do you mind sharing before and after?
[–]caligrown_85 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have Crohn’s disease. For the majority of my life I’ve been very skinny. Dating used to always suck. I’m in my 30’s now and I’ve managed to become the healthiest I’ve ever been putting on some healthy weight in the process. I’ve noticed there is not too many single women that are out of my league now whereas before that wasn’t the case at all whatsoever.
[–]KriticalKarl 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For me I noticed that women started to approach me and have high interest. I also feel more confident now, as in I don’t care how attractive a woman is, I won’t crumble under pressure.
[–]dheidjdedidbe 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
My first year of college I grew 3 inches and my face thinned out. I also learned style.
Honestly nothing changed with my non existent dating life.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Do you approach at all?
[–]dheidjdedidbe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I do and often. No matter what I do or try it’s the same continual rejection
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
How attractive are you (objectively speaking) from 1-10?
[–]dheidjdedidbe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Probably a 4. True rate me put me below average
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I haven't posted on true rate me, I'm afraid people will recognize me on there from irl lol
But yeah I'm also a 4/10, I was rated 4 by wheat waffles. Approaching and dating in general will be borderline impossible for us below average guys unfortunately.
But that's just how things are, genetic determinism is brutal lol
[–]dheidjdedidbe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah it sucks that I will never be enough for the girls I am attracted to
[–]pleasant__sheep -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Blackpill fellows
[–]dheidjdedidbe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What’s that?
[–]pleasant__sheep 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lookup blackpill on YouTube. Be careful tho
[–]bodhi_tree93 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not that much difference when you become more physically attractive. You still need the necessary character traits in order to approach the girl and get her interested. But it does make it a bit easier for sure.
[–]TinyReporter7436 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't believe female flirting. Haha you normally blow it off as them just being nice
[–]potatoeswithfries 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was recently told I've had a glow up in the last ~10 years. I lost some weight, got in the best shape if my life, shaved my head as soon as I noticed my hair is starting to thin... Thing is, life in general became a bit easier after I turned 30, not just getting girls, and also I gained some weight back after the pandemic started and it doesn't affect my results with women much, so I don't think that's what made my results change...
Also worth noting is that I started approaching cute strangers a lot in the past few years, so, again: while looks matter, I don't think that looks are what's getting women into my life...
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[–]CitizenKeane 9 points10 points11 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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