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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
As a female, I think a guy has to be above average attractive in order to be successful on dating apps. This is my opinion based on hearing the experiences and of course swiping myself. I don’t think I would have swiped right on most of my exes, but in reality I didn’t find them unattractive. Granted, they weren’t models, but it didn’t really matter.
I can take a look at your profile if you want though.
[–]Initial-Laugh1442 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
From the horse's mouth ...
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It does, and it’s something I actually wanted to add after I had posted. Good pictures will take you far as long as you look clean and put together. They shouldn’t look as if you’ve gone to a photo studio (that would be weird) but just taken by someone with a good eye. My advice: have a female take them for you.
[–]SnooCheesecakes6900 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Doesn’t matter what YOU think it matters what potential matches think unfortunately. Without even seeing your profile I can tell you as a man dating apps aren’t really that good for meeting women. 1000x better off approaching in person
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[–]SnooCheesecakes6900 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No it doesn’t matter if you think you’re the best musician in the world You won’t get a Grammy unless others think so too
Has nothing to do with external validation, maybe you think your attractive but women don’t.. Good to have self confidence but doesnt automatically mean your right
Tinder is 90% looks and 10% bio etc if you’re attractive as you say you’d at least have some matches
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if u dont pay tinder hides you after creating profile within 24hours.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is this reliable info? Is it only for guys or females as well?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dyor on r/tinder. its true. regarda women no idea
[–]KrikoryanG 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girl here. Yeah sure! Let's see it.
[–]focus_flow69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
hit me up via dms i can give you my thoughts
[–]TheJoeyJoeJoe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Post at r/ratemytinder
[–]pleasant__sheep 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Send dm
[–]poly_nerdy_panda 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
ask all your girlfriends or shit stop girls on the street lol
[–]SamuRonin90 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Could someone review mine as well
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I really do not recommend online dating apps unless you are a top 1-5 percent guy in terms of looks. Tall, chiseled, model-like face, preferably white. The type of guy where if you walk into a room eyes turn and women are drawn to you and flirt a lot openly with you even if you dont show much interest or havent said anything.
If you are not that type of guy, i do not recommend online dating. It will ruin your confidence, which is the most important thing from what i have seen for being successful offline. It may also make you depressed which can affect your daily life and productivity.
If you are confident you are in that upper echelon of looks then i highly recommend getting input from someone who looks like you and has success on online dating apps. You can model your profile off of theirs.
All the best dude
I highly do not recommend this, but if that is what you want to do go ahead. Just make sure to delete it before it starts to get to your head. I had a similar plan as you, and yeah that did not end well. I still have not recovered from my experience on there. Just be careful. I hope you find success on there, and if you do, know that it not you and that it is common for most guys to not have success on the apps. They are not designed for guys to succeed on there and very few guys do succeed. All the best.
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