What I mean by the title is that I can make someone laugh, but I do it very rarely, and I need to actually get to know the person a bit before I’m ‘loose’ enough.

My problem lies in being too serious and being unsure of how to break the ice from the get go.

Any recommended reads/watches? Also, any advice for this? I want to be more funny and find a solution for the things mentioned in the paragraph above.

Please don’t come in to say “you’re either funny or you’re not” because it really doesn’t help and everything can be improved.

Appreciate it