Hi , I'm going to make things short I'm a 22M I ended a relationship 4 months ago because my ex gf was texting other guys and was deleting some messages one of which she had been with for months and had told me she was single and I didn't know I was the side piece then became the main one . She was also sharing her location with another guy she had something with when I had just met her.

So to me It seemed like maybe I wasn't enough like I'm good looking not too good looking but enough. Your probably asking your self how I know, and that's is because I always catch girls/women staring or make them blush somehow but I've been at jobs were older women want me and I know this because I had a family member who got along with them and she would tell me stuff.

The reason I say I'm not enough or maybe I'm just too boring or something. Is because I'm not very good with people I really can't hold a conversation but I thought she liked me like that.

Recently I've been trying to get better by greeting people at my job but for some reason when they try and have a conversation with me I really can't talk with them maybe and I guess maybe that's why my ex did what she did.

I was fine before my ex I would go fishing , hiking ,gym, out to clubs but I didn't have as much confidence as I do now but I was better at talking.

What am I doing wrong/ missing because once I approach a girl or anyone all I can talk about is work or boring stuff.