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[–]skybluetaxi 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She was not interested or she would have given the number. But, still great job on your part! You’ve broken the seal. Asked a girl out in front of people, basically got rejected and now you see the world goes on, no big deal. You’re unstoppable now.
[–]Btreeb 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True that; thanks!
[–]Exmerus 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She wasn't interested. She was just bored or is a person who needs to be always talking or attention. Not worth it.
[–]Humble-Employment-61 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go on boy... Sky is your limit now! Happy Hunting.
[–]field512 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The less you know a girl the sooner you need to start escalating, flirting. Did not get it from your post if there was any flirting going on so hard to say.
[–]goldenfirex 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
lmao its a 60min + train journey during the day and OP clearly didn't want to come on too strong. Last thing you want is a girl freak a girl out on her journey to work.
OP did everything right in a reasonable manner. She just wasn't interested and that's fine. Kudos for OP for actually having a balls to go for it in this setting.
However, you on the hand tell me how you are going to escalate on public transport in the morning just before work for a girl that isn't into you?
[–]Btreeb 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Exactly; at first I didn't even want to get her number as I just saw her as a random stranger I had a chat with. After a while I noticed she had a great personality and thought it was worth to take a shot and ask her number. Got the "no" but gained some experience and a nice time-killing chat.
I don't want to make people feel uncomfortable and in situations someone can't 'escape' (like in the train) I will be extra aware of this.
[–]goldenfirex 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Some guys think that they said no because it was something you can control. "If I did X u and Z I'd HavE goT heR". When fundamentally if a girl is into you in that way she wouldve made it easy for you and just give you her number. It honestly just shows you couldn't handle the rejection lmao.
Once again bro well done. You clearly are very socially aware of not whats just around you but in yourself aswell and taking that first step as you did was awesome. Thanks for sharing your experience aswell :)
[–]Btreeb 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep, I get the idea some guys in this sub think women are robots and that a certain pattern of actions will always lead to outcome [X]. It would be nice if humans worked like that, tho.
And thanks! I'm also happy with what I did. I proved to myself I can do it.
[–]Deep-Advice7587 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That response looks like mine, she wasn't looking for a relationship and didn't see a reason to exchange numbers, might be the type that needs emotional connection first.
[–]Btreeb 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Could be. At least it did kill the commuting time ;)
Thanks for the responses. I still had a nice chat and it killed the time
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