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[–]Imperator_Pyra 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Seems like you're overthinking it. I understand how you might feel, but the text is already sent, plus she's probably not responding simply because she's celebrating and shit, so just put your phone down and relax.
More importantly: you're scheduling a third date and you haven't kissed yet? Huh?!
[–]DisorganisedPigeon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
We’ve kissed 3 times already. Saw she was online on whatsapp and facebook so doesn’t look good. I’ll send her a morning text asking how the parade went and if we’re still on for the date then cut my losses if no reply
[–]Imperator_Pyra 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh. I assumed you two didn't kiss yet and that's why you were so worried about that last text message - that you thought that you might have been too forward by mentioning kissing. It's still not a great message, but honestly, you can relax a bit.
I see you already have a plan anyway, so good luck, have fun.
[–]DisorganisedPigeon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is that message enough to put someone off? Feel like I’ve ruined it, but suppose we’ll see when I confirm plans tomorrow
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Even if she is leaving you on read, sending anything else will just make it worse. You have plans to meet up again right, so just wait until then to talk to her
[–]DisorganisedPigeon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah true. Although when I did that last time she sent a sarcastic jokey message asking if we’re still on and mentioned she prefers if I confirm it on the day so she knows. Rather just confirm that with her and if no reply then fair enough
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I think confirming at all is probably not really necessary though tbh
[–]DisorganisedPigeon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe something like “looking forward to seeing you later” ?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd say literally nothing and wait for her to text you back
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The more you text the more you will masturbate and cry later.
[–]Adjustedwell 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
tbh if that text killed it, she wasnt into you that much or thought she was in full control and enjoyed that feeling.
[–]DisorganisedPigeon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Makes sense. From our time together I have no reason to believe she wasn’t interested. There seemed to be a fire in our communication, when we’d high five she’d lock her hands with me, when I’d pull away from the kiss she’d latch onto my lips, put my coat on her when she was cold. If my message killed all that you’re probably right, most likely had little interest. She can reply quite quickly but also has taken a day previously but always replied.
Anyway I’ll send her a good morning text, ask how parade was and say that i’m looking forward to seeing her later on
[–]Adjustedwell 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
from what you described here, id say shes interested as long as shes calling the shots. It's nothing I'm saying that you should have known, but these are common traits i've come to identify, although subtle..
So she likes to be in control? Although she’s been very receptive to my date plans haha
[–]Adjustedwell 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
IF the text killed it. if not then no.
Imagine if that text killed it, geez. Felt like I’ve done more things right for her to at least brush that under the carpet lol
[–]Everlast23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In my lived experience, I never text anything that's sexual related even if it's (I can't wait to kiss you).
All it does is just give the other person anxiety. I'm pretty confident you guys are still going to have your next date though.
Yeah was risky. Given the positive things I’ve done I’d hope she’d have looked at that text and thought meh okay or just thought there’s no point replying to it. We’ll see anyway, she knows the date is today but she’ll want me to confirm it at some point before we go (going off last two dates)
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