Self Intro: I (22M) have been on a journey of building my career and self development. I have grown a lot mentally and transformed physically and best shape in my life. I know I'm still young and have lots more to learn and a lot of ego to self check. I work out, read, hike, social, easy to talk to, determined, on my purpose, always learning and betting on myself. I have few very close friends, and know a lot of people. Like to spend most of my time alone as i am picky to who i spend my time with.

Relationships history: I have been in 2 serious relationships (7 months each) and few failed talking stages. I have been wanting a serious relationship to share growth, love and affection with someone. I find it difficult finding a girl that i get attracted to. I have no trouble talking to women or to anyone tbh, it's just that it is not easy for me to get attracted to the women if she's not interesting or not to my standards that i hold myself to. I've only met one women (randomly met a restaurant) that i very much liked but she wanted a relationship way too fast before i got to know her comfortably and had huge red flags ( I was right, she turned out to be a huge nuke missed after i ended it with her)

Questions: Where do all of these people meet their girlfriends at? How can I meet women that im attracted to and are interesting? how can i cope with the feeling of wanting a relationship because self love and loneliness get to be too much sometimes.

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I guess thats all i have to say right now, Thanks for reading this long!