I got some criticism on my last post about my method of meeting and conversing with girls.

Basically, the point of the post was to show that serendipity is a very real concept in the seduction scene. I note that while nothing came out of my 30-35 direct opener approaches I made 4 weekends in a row, I do get a success with the one girl I approach indirectly (Jane from my original post). It is still my contention that my actions had nothing to do with this, but rather that I was in the right place at the right time and so was she.

A few folks suggested, "It's because you weren't coming off so strong that she wanted to chill with you." Or better yet here is a direct comment from someone:

Or, [life is] predictable… The one time you weren’t making a “real” approach and the woman was willing to talk to you…huh! Wow!

I just wanted to come here and state for the record that Jane from my original post has ghosted me now, just like the other 5 to 6 phone numbers I got from the direct approach.

I spent all night with her building rapport, sexual tension, physical touch, and making out. Yet she still ghosts. This is something a lot of guys on this sub and on my last post would preach is the way to go for sex, but it still did not work out.

On a given night, I would rather take 10 chances to hook up with building rapport for 30-60 seconds, than 1 chance to hook up with building rapport, sexual tension, physical touch, and making out for 2 hours considering I will get ghosted at the same rate. I wasted a good few hours of approaching and what could have been 5 or more numbers for investing in one girl. Never making that mistake again.

She turned into what most guys would consider a negative statistic. For me, girls that reject/ghost are a pre-requisite to girls that hook up. It's part of the process and there is no reason to be upset about it. Might as well get as many rejections and ghosts under your belt as it will speed up the process of finding a lay.