Putting a plan together to improve my dating life, but questions remain

hagakurejunkie · 2022-04-27T23:01:28+00:00

Dude, you're not even experienced enough to start having these fears.

And since you're a dude, absolutely NOBODY cares if you're introverted. I'm introverted as fuck, I spend most of the day by myself. But I still get the hell out the door and socialize.

You either head out the door and suck it up and deal with being uncomfortable or you don't and you stay single and alone and dateless and nobody will care.

You're not a chick, nobody is coming to save you. You're a man and you're the captain of your destiny. Expect to fail A LOT but also expect to get really good eventually.

2022-04-27T20:19:20+00:00

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2022-04-27T17:07:27+00:00

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Accomplished_Egg_928 · 2022-04-27T17:28:58+00:00

Expand your social circle. It doesn't matter if its all guys in the group activities you chose. Eventually, you will try out different things where more women may take part. Build your social life first and get used to communicating with a vairity of people. From there you will have something about you. You then share your success on social media, become more and more intersting, then when you do go to social functions with more women present, then you will naturally talk to them.

If you go into this with the midset of just getting girls, it won't work. Make yourself more intersting, share with others, then eventually the women will follow.

2022-04-27T17:27:29+00:00

You could start of with the most easy variants of real life dating:

speed datings
single bar nights (Organised events where a group of singles of both sexes meet at a bar or restaurant to get to know each other and exchange numbers if there is interest.)
"new in town"-groups on social media e.g. facebook

LongHairedKraut · 2022-04-28T00:59:56+00:00

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Title	Putting a plan together to improve my dating life, but questions remain
Author	LongHairedKraut
Upvotes	3
Comments	18
Date	April 27, 2022 4:52 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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