So background story: pre-quarantine, I was a chubby 16 year old, around 6', with the most abominable buzz cut that I had since birth. I had a few female friends, but because it was 100% platonic, I'd never really talked to women in a romantic fashion.
Fast forward to now, I'm 19, started working out so I'm a leaner 210 at 6'5, face is pretty lean, and I grew out my curly hair. Mentally, I'm still the old me and I still have no game, but I've had 3 girls initiate with me over the course of this past year.
Now, at the gym I've been going to, there's this girl who's pretty cute, and I know she likes me too. All the signs (following me around the gym, getting really close while doing so, etc.), plus the fact a friend of hers told a friend of mine that she likes me.
Like I said though, I have 0 game whatsoever. I'm about average in the social skills department, but with girls, I'm literally the worst thing you can possibly imagine. If my parents were to be slaughtered if I couldn't talk to a girl that already liked me, I'm becoming an orphan.
I really need advice on becoming more confident, getting over my mental image of my old self, and just in general approaching this girl who already likes me at the gym, in a natural manner.
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