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[–]DarkCr3ation 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No one can really know what he’s thinking or what his intentions are other than him. If you’re already busy and don’t want to entertain someone like you said, and he’s playing games then I would just put it in the rear view mirror
[–]snowdude11 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was blowing him off but my personal life has literally like took it up A lot of my energy and I was sad for a bit
Maybe he is going through the same thing? Seems like what you did and what he is currently doing is not very different
[–]hagakurejunkie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You don't sound very interested in him, you're just annoyed you got rejected so now you're creating scenarios in your head that he's secretly obsessed with you.
He's not.
Guys want to fuck and unless he's busy with his dying parents or pets, he's just not that into you and he's exploring other options.
[–]CardiologistChance131 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I actually was interested I just don't fully involve myself with people quickly. The rejection isn't the issue I not obsessed with him he literally sent his friends that he told me about to my page after he had asked me out. They never followed or talk to me before. So I wasn't drawing conclusions it's pretty clear they they are all friends they all follow and like each other stuff and have picture together. Why would they ever look at my page unless he has mention me. So idk where u got that from. I just wanted a insight as to why he asked me out just to not respond Later that night I wasn't tripping bc we never agreed on a set date he just told me to text whenever so I assumed when I text he was at work bc he does work at night. But communication has been slow and we haven't been talk as much as we use to.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You’re not going to like this answer, but you were rude to this guy. He was interested in you and you completely blew him off. I don’t know why he contacted you again. I certainly wouldn’t have, but maybe he enjoyed the satisfaction of blowing you off?
[–]CardiologistChance13 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
I was in the hospital I explained to him about it and My friend was running for miss sophomore of my college I was legit busy but now that She won I have time to speak to him. I literally told him I was going to pay for our meal as to say sorry I should have explain more in the original post. I didn't realize how serious the campaign stuff was for the school. I'm think we just hanging up some poster and she wanted me to go to her event to support.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well, these are details that you certainly left out, but it doesn’t change the fact that you were rude and dismissive towards this guy. If you had any interest in him at all, you could’ve explained to him exactly what was going on and said, why don’t we meet for coffee, or a drink? You could’ve laid the ground rules with a firm time limit and at least he would’ve felt that you were making an effort. The hospital is a legitimate excuse out, but the campaign stuff for your friend, honestly, sounds kind of lame.
Bro this don't even matter anymore just found out he had a gf the wholeee time they been together for months. Idk how I missed that part 💀
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