Most highly desirable women are surrounded by men who are constantly vying for their attention and affection. Thus the guy who is not actively trying to win a woman over can often become the most intriguing to her. (Important Note: This is not a guy who is standing in the corner doing nothing. He is still interacting with the woman, just in a less needy 'take it or leave it' sort of way.)

Overly eager and super thirsty behavior in men tells a woman that the man lacks options and makes it seem like he is trying to seal the deal ASAP before the other party finds a reason to decide against it.

Conversely, a man who comes off a bit disinterested, unsure or skeptical of a woman at first implies to her that he has options, standards, and is not a needy/value seeking type of person. He makes the woman feel like the winner if she is able gain his interest.

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