Im not sure if this is an escalation or logistics issue...

I've been talking to this girl (33 y/o mom) that I met on POF over a month ago and still havent been able to solidify a date with her. Conversation have been ok, i have been sure to make sure she knows this is man-to-woman, she told me she likes our conversations.... Basically, no reason for me to expect getting blown off.

The last time she suggested meeting me was a couple weeks ago on a Thursday (it is her day off, plus she works nights as has to do mom stuff too), i said cool. She was going to meet me at my job. We loosly discussed it a couple days before. The day of - she goes somewhere else, and doesnt even want to elaborate to do what or why. Shes not my girl, so i was just felt annoyed at being stood up.

So i took responsibility for her ghosting me, by saying to myself i should have nailed down all the logistics of that day instead of leaving it to chance.

This time, i asked her when am i going to see her, she again said next week thursday. I said cool. So a few days later i go to follow up, to make sure anotber ghosting doesnt happen... This is what happens:


4/12/22 Me: You said you gonna see me next week thursday, right? Her: hopefully Me: Ok. I know you're a Mom just like I'm a Dad, so besides any kid issues, is there another reason why we can't meet on Thursday?

Her: no response since

Should I say somerhing or leave it?