What is your ultimate goal? To have phone sex or real sex? To hook up with girls in the club, or to have a million matches on Tinder? What only matters is the real life. Millions of people have become socially awkward, anxious or even antisocial, and that includes girls as well. Why don't use that advantage and develop some solid social skills. My social skills after covid and all those quarantines were zero. I couldn't speak with anyone IRL, not even the people I knew before. But I just knew I had to change that and it took me almost 2 years to get to the point where I'm now. I started socializing whenever and wherever I could. I started attending classes, courses, part time jobs, just to talk to people. I even adopted a dog, and that was maybe the best thing I've did for my social skills. First off, you always have something to talk about with a fellow dog owner, parks and playgrounds for dogs are ideal because you can meet a lot of people and you have always an excuse to talk about something. To have game you first need to have good social skills, if you're afraid to ask a waiter for an additional glass of water or a guy at the bus stop for a lighter, how do you think your gonna smoothly approach a beautiful girl. Of course you need to work on your appearance, dressing and fitness, and it will boost your confidence no doubt, but social skills are the most important. My results are, I approach maybe 2-3 times a week with an intent to get her number/IG, but my successes rate is 90%. I don't consider approaching intimidating anymore, I stopped seeing it as a task. It became my second favorite thing to do, with the first one being the final product of approaching. I have that mindset that approaching is the best thing you can do for yourself. I see it this way: I saw a girl I really like, she saw me, she probably already knows if she likes me or not, if I don't approach I may never see her again and I'll spend the rest of the day, or even month thinking what could have happened, if I approach and manage to show at least that I'm confident I might get her number and if she shows high interest that's a sealed deal already, if she simply doesn't like me, or has a boyfriend she'll reject me and that's also fine, I won't have to worry about her anymore. So basically it's a win-win situation. That way, not approaching a girl you really like is the absolute worst that could happen. And to finish this long ass post, at this point I really consider deleting all my social media, because I don't need it nor use it anymore, besides maybe when a girl doesn't give me her phone number, but her IG.