Lot of guys here talk about that black pill shit and how it's all about looks. And yes, it is. But that doesn't mean you have to be Brad Pitt in his absolute prime to get laid or a girlfriend. 10/10 guys get rejected too, not to mention 9/10, and lower. That's because not everyone is a 10 in everyone's eyes. Also, you don't have to even be an 8 in someone's eyes for them to have sex with you or even fall in love with you. For example, my sister is considered to be a 9-8/10 and she fell in love with a guy who's realistically a 6/10 on a good day. But to her, he's a 11/10. You just have to find your audience, your style and your purpose.
Audience means every guy has a number of girls that will find him attractive. You're always someone's type. When I've lost my hair I thought that was it. Later on I was surprised how much girls actually like bald guys. Of course, that means you'll have to be in somewhat good shape, take care of yourself, basically the basics of self care. If you take those things to a higher level of course the audience will grow.
Your style should be something that suits you and your personality the best. That means haircut, clothing, accessories, tattoos, piercings, etc. For example someone like Chief Keef would look ridiculous if he'd started dressing like someone from Peaky Blinders. Just as Elon Musk would look ridiculous if he'd started rocking dreads and dressing like Chief Keef. It's not easy to find a haircut that suits you the best, I spent a lot of money and maybe 12 years to find mine. Just to lose almost all of my hair 1 year later. I just decided to go full bald and grow a beard, with some adjustments to my style. Ended up looking better than ever, as well as developing a unique overall look and style that I don't think anyone's rocking in the whole city. I didn't take the usual advice from youtubers like Alpha M, etc. but rather was following and copying from people I admire and find good looking. All of that, as you imagine, did wonders for me as I became more eye catching and interesting to people in general.
And finally, your purpose. You can be the most attractive person in the world, sitting around all day having no purpose, goals, hobbies, friends won't get you far, not just in the dating field but life in general. Go out, meet new people, have different social circles. For example, some of the coolest people I've met and valuable connections I made are thanks to having dogs, and hanging out with dog owners in parks. Now, what has that to do with looks, well if you meet a girl let's say at a bar, you broke the ice, your opener made her wet, what are you going to talk about if all you did that day was nothing, and the day before, and your whole life. People like someone who's always doing interesting shit and has always a crazy story to tell.
All that, combined, are the things that made me attractive. I'm not saying that I'm in a need of a life west cause I'm drowning in pussy right now, but I'm in a much better place than I was. I'm much more confident, I'm aware of my value, I'm not jealous of anyone, I find myself to be good looking to the point if a girls would reject me because of my looks (or anything actually) I'd probably lose all interest in her. It's almost like I'm love with who I became, because I know how hard I've worked to get here. So work on all those things and the girls will come, and even if they don't right away, you'll have fun and you'll be prepared. And remember, the only one who overanalyzes your weak jawline, receding hairline, big nose and small cheekbones are you and your fellow blackpill comrades.
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