I've gotten my clock cleaned by my first 10.

There is no failure, only feedback. I know I lost frame. I got oneitis.

I have abundance, but my abundance are 7s. So when 10 broke my frame a bit, I went and had sex with one of my 7 plates (I subscribe to the GFTOW theory), but those women were... flavorless? They didn't fix the oneitis.

Do I have to have all my plates be 10s in order to not get oneitis? Or is there some god tier of frame control I still have yet to learn?

I hope all my plates don't have to be 10s. There's not a ton of them walking around.

EDIT: If I pulled one 10, I can pull more (this girl proves that) but still, 10s aren't an everyday thing.