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[–]MyName_isLame 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lesbians don’t approach?!?!?! That’s hilarious.. get a clue bro.
[–]madli_x 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Lesbian here. In fact women "do approach". It's false to state it as an irrefutable fact. Of course some women don't take initiative, but so don't some men. It is something that has socially developed and enforced by our patriarchal society. Call me a feminazi if you want.
As for do they get laid? Of course they do and men don't "outfuck" lesbians. You aren't a lesbian nor do you know the experiences they have.
Also funfact lesbian women have more orgasms than heterosexual women :)
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[–]madli_x 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
First you have to understand lesbian porn and actual lesbian sex are two completely different things. Lesbian porn isn't an accurate representation of queer women's sexual relationships and perpetuates harmful stereotypes at the expense of queer women. Not to mention it is catered towards heterosexual men, like yourself, not other queer women.
There are multiple reasons why women in lesbian relationships orgasm more. For example women know women's anatomy better since well... pretty obvious. This means they have a better understanding on what could "click". Also lesbian sex is longer 30-45 minutes average (although once study concluded the average to 57 minutes). This gives more time for foreplay, which means a woman can get fully aroused increasing the likelihood of an orgasm. Not to mention they have more oral sex from which is considerably more likely to reach an orgasm than penetrative sex. There is also the matter of expectations as a lot of women in heterosexual relationship don't expect an orgasm during sex, but for queer women it's often a given. There are definitely more reasons, but I would say these are the main ones.
Here's a study on the duration vs frequency of sex in same-sex and mixed-sex couples: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/263851156_Can_Less_Be_More_Comparing_Duration_vs_Frequency_of_Sexual_Encounters_in_Same-Sex_and_Mixed-Sex_Relationships
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[–]madli_x 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Porn objectifies people and is almost always wrongfulness depicted. It doesn't matter if it's hetero or queer porn. And don't forget – porn is fake.
I am not going to entertain this further.
[–]smithkoli 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I m sorry 😔
First of all, I didn't say all lesbians have more sex than heterosexual men, but some lesbians do as some hetero men have more sex than lesbians. Although there are lesbians don't have sex as frequently, but it's longer and more orgasmic.
Well known from where? Stereotypes aren't a well-known fact. And do you think women are a different species? Women don't have less energy than men.
I wouldn't say people have less or more sex because of their sexual orientation rather by who they are as a person and the experiences they have. Sex is an experience people of all sexual orientations and identies can have and enjoy. Of course probably asexual people don't have as many (or any at all) sexual experiences as those who aren't asexual, but that's just logical.
Transsexual isn't a sexual orientation, but a sexual indentity meaning transwomen, who have sex with women are lesbians (or bi, pan etc).
I have a genuine questions for you though. Why are you interested in how often lesbians have sex? Do you think having sex more frequently is important?
[–]madli_x 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They? Who they? Lesbians?
Shouldn't probably feed you more attention, but I just have to add this.
Your view of women is objectively misogynistic and isn't based on any actual studies or facts. I hope you find it in yourself to learn more and grow as a person, because misogynistic men are most definitely not in.
And also I am hot shit. Thanks for noticing :)
[–]network-offline 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
More orgasms? Based on what statistics?
[–]madli_x 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Here are two studies on that: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25131299/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28213723/
[–]network-offline 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Interesting. Thank you
[–]mightymite88 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Women do approach. They're just not approaching you. Level up your game and they will.
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[–]bluefox2456 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So just because it has not happend in your experience means it doesn't happen? That is a logical fallacy.
also you asked a question, got an answer and then rejected it? Bro why ask the question if you're not going to accept the answers to that question
Just seems like you have a lot of preconceived notions to the situation
[–]mightymite88 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It happens to me all the time. And yes it happens to lesbians too lol
I think this whole post is just an excuse to be misogynistic on international women's day. You're a clown
[–]mightymite88 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They get laid more than you lol but that's a pretty low bar to hurdle.
Gender is no object. You get out what you out in. Work harder, work smarter, and you'll have success.
[–]azizbadaasjsj -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I hooked up plenty of time with "lesbians" or girls who are bisexual & asked them few times how they met : few of them literally approach ( most of the time it's indirect ) but the rest is just warm approaching . friends of friends , parties , uni & college etc .
one of them said they met on BUMBLE FRIENDS .
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[–]dasanman69 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In every relationship there's a masc and feminine. While feminine women don't approach, one who embodies a more masculine energy will.
[–]According_Praline_16 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very carefully!
[–]YtBlue 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girls don't approach in the same way men do. Unless you got the dykes. Normally girls are more social. So they meet through friends, parties/clubs, or anywhere there alchohol and liquor courage involved.
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