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[–]Casanova-Quinn 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A FWB situation is actually your best chance at turning this girl into your girlfriend. If you two get along well and the sex is good, she'll probably want a relationship eventually. It often happens that way. And even if she doesn't, at least you had some fun with a girl you liked. Just accept the offer and setup a time to hang out.
If you really don't want to do FWB then just decline her offer and move on. Do not waste your time and effort trying to "get to know each other". She already offered FWB, don't make it harder for yourself by going back to square one. Come on now lol.
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[–]Casanova-Quinn 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She wouldn’t offer a fwb if she wasn’t actually interested in it. It’s not some test.
So she said she enjoys taking it slow, and yet she still rejected a relationship? Lol. Watch what she does, not what she says.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hey Bra sorry for bad English But you never tell the girl it is your first relationship And do not ever apologize for something that no need. Also no ask her For what you’re doing Saturday, you need to tell Saturday I am doing X you can come if you’d like
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This way she isn’t think oh this guy world is around me because if you already doing something and you just invite her she thinking youre crazy interesting and you do a lot of things already
[–]CompetitionFair7686 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Too much text dude. Texting is no place for long paragraphs. 2 lines at most and that’s it anything more than that, and you are trying way too hard.
[–]RPEdmonton 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do not send that lol. Just ask her to hang “what to go check out a show?”/“drinks?” Or what ever, nothing like dinner or anything provider like.
Just keep seeing her but also pursue other options. I’m willing to bet if you become less invested in her then she is in you then she will be the one who wants a relationship with you
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[–]Skizznitt 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Maybe he doesn't like the fact that the relationship is left open like that. I'm kind of the same way if I'm really into someone. I like knowing that there's more of a commitment to one another because fwb usually means it's open enough that either party could have multiple partners and I don't like the thought that the chick I like is getting some from other dudes while they're with me.
But yes, this is the way, leaving uncertainty in the air, and going out and just enjoying one another's company for the time being. He can always explain that fwb isn't what he wants after they've built up some more rapport and have become closer.
[–]Skizznitt 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha seems like it would be more peaceful that way if you were just okay with it all the way around. For me it depends on the girl, if it's someone I know won't be permanent, I don't care. If it's someone I really like though, like the take to meet your parents, could see a future with her kind of girl, I want her all to myself lol.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bang her into liking you
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also get your hormones checked
[–]anothersadthrowaway- -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What’s wrong with it? I’m a woman and this sounds fine to me. A hike plus a cute dog? Perfect!
[–]anothersadthrowaway- 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hm, I have dealt with someone a bit too attached. Fortunately he sent me a respectful message quite like this one, asking for a movie night at his dads dentist office after hours where he’d invited me to study before. I personally appreciated the respectful message but I declined and he dropped it after that.
So I don’t know, imo I would say this is okay, and if she says no then of course you part respectfully. You could always add “If not, of course I understand, no pressure!” But I know everyone takes things differently so I’m not sure of her personality and how she may read it. Stressful situation bud, sorry/:
[–]angrypuppy35 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Hey, would love to take you out again, if you’re free this Saturday…how about a hike up x canyon? I’ll bring my dog. I want him to meet you and let me know if he approves ; )”
I would write it something like the above
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