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[β]SpecialPowerss 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Confidence is truly just an energy you give off:
In reality, you always have the chance to display it whenever you go out or talk to someone.
Don't think of confidence as a show you have to get a big applause from everytime.
Hope this helps.
[β]SocialKing_ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah, you definitely shouldn't expect an applause either.
[β]Liberaler 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
None of your thoughts and beliefs are controversial? Come on, do you really believe that? If that's really the case the solution is to leave your bubble of like minded people ...
Probably you have just found a way to trick yourself to suppress confrontational thoughts ...
[β]StandardLobster 4 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Not at all, I just haven't had an opportunity to display them irl. I never said I didn't have controversial thoughts, it just hasn't come up.
[β]Liberaler 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Do you hide at home all the time? Or maybe you are too reactive? Confidence also means that you lead by creating the situations you want to have instead of waiting for them to happen.
[β]StandardLobster 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
I go out all the time. If I want something I'm going to do what I can to get it.
[β]Liberaler 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe goals, that challenge you more will do the trick then.
[β]boxingprogrammer 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe you are so confident, that you don't get challenged.
[β]Snoo-23731 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To show confidence, you got to say something in a flirting way, thats basically confidence in my opinion after that is whatever
[β]Minute-Lie-2287 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you're conflating confidence with conviction.
When you do something you're an expert at and you've done it a million times are you second guessing anything? No you just do it.
So basically posture and this mind set that you know exactly what you're doing and what you want is all you need to display.
You aren't nervous , you aren't self conscious, you aren't second guessing yourself, you're completely comfortable and you just speak and act.
It's not pride, nor sticking to some conviction necessarily, those are byproducts, it's truly being comfortable with you, no matter what anyone thinks.
[β]Idealbug67 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Say some bold shit
[β]SocialKing_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
manufacture the situation.
Give her a sit test, use a neg (this not an insult by the way so don't use it unless you understand what it actually is), use a push pull, tease her if she says something stupid or simply trips up on her words, give her a genuine compliment about something specific, use mini cold reads...
There are so many different ways to do it.
Even something as silly as:
Her: Pass me the <thing>
You: Passes it "ahem...Your'reee welcome?"π
Her: Oh right, thanks π
EDIT: Just don't overthink it and practice these techniques. If you don't know what they are, give me a DM and I'll give you more information on it.
[β]mightymite88 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's not confidence. Confidence is an attitude
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