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[–]dropmeoffhere -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Or do you need to break into the mentality and have loads more sex? To prove that more sex doesn’t make a difference.
[–]StrivingBetterMe1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
No, that will only feed a bottomless ego of mine, plus with this toxic mentality it actually makes it harder to gain the thing I want
[–]Zebrahead033 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Sex is part of being a man and masculinity but it doesn't define it. If you want more sex and better quality partners put in the work to achieve that.
Once you do and find it was or wasn't worth it, at least you will no longer wonder what if.
[–]StrivingBetterMe 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s just so hard for me to meet girls and talk to them normally. Hell I can’t even make guy friends. I never learned any basic social skills as a child. I never hung out with a single person until I was in 7th grade. I never had cousins or brothers. My mom and dad were at the bar getting hammered every night. I basically spent my entire childhood on World of Warcraft because I had nothing else
[–]Zebrahead033 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Everyone has different struggles. You are where you are. You know where playing WOW gets you socially. If you are ok with it than continue. But if you want something different you have to try something different.
You owe it to yourself to try. No one can do the work for you.
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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No, you don’t. While growing up I think was constantly called a loser because I didn’t have a girlfriend, I was told to be an asshole. It completely destroyed my perception of love and friendships. I have been depressed since I was in 5th grade and don’t understand even basic social skills. I’ve been told I’d be better as a girl by my own parents because I’m not “good” enough to be a man
[–]StereoFood -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
At least your parents told you. My single mom made it seem like I needed to be Prince Charming and find the one. I still slept around ish but I wish I knew to not take girls seriously and just fuck around more in high school and college. Any pretty girl that came my way I thought of as a romantic interest when in reality it’s ok to just fuck.
[–]StrivingBetterMe 4 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
It sounds better then it was for me. My dad wanted to act like a player, but really he has no game. He would lie and say he’d slept with hundreds of women even though he’s only slept with maybe 5 or 6. Which there is nothing wrong with that, but then he’d give me horrible advice about how to talk to girls. He’d tell me to use cheesy ass pickup lines and just be a straight up dick to girls. Then when I would do that stuff and it wouldn’t work, I would become so frustrated. It got to a point that I truly thought I was the ugliest person alive when I’m reality I’m actually pretty good looking I just never learned any basic social skills from either of my parents
[–]StereoFood -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Just talk to them like people, insert some jokes and innuendos here and there and make a move if it feels Right. Dont try to do anything. Just to have a good time and don’t put so much pressure on it. Focus on your goals and girls are secondary. Also, don’t talk too much. Reveal yourself slowly.
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[–]StereoFood 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hooking up during and after college is the same. If you’re not social, you just have less opportunity. If you’re more social, it’s harder to focus on work. I would try to balance both and I did alright. Wish I had a nicer gpa tho.
After college you just gotta move to a bigger city and do your tinder up like crazy if you can. I’m talking top 10 or so largest cities in the US. Meetings people through people or at events is great too. The more friends you have to go out with, the better. Otherwise, you could try rock climbing at a rock gym or some other social hobby.
[–]StereoFood 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m at 20 and I’m 30 now so I was no player but I lost it at 16 and had many gfs so I don’t really Care. I kinda wanna get back in the game but I love my girl haha.
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