I've noticed that most women are fairly dramatic and high energy when they're out - especially at night - especially when drinking.

I'm the opposite - cool, calm, collected, non-reactive and I cannot stand drama - it's why I barely use social media or go out to certain events. The moment people start making noise about stupid shit I clock out. When I've been in situations where people are losing their heads, I'm usually the one staying grounded.

That stoic energy should be attractive right? Women like a composed guy apparently - most leading man roles in movies/tv could be described as calm and stoic.

But in practice it seems to fucking bore women more than anything else.

I've seen women go for the human equivalent of the squirrel in Over the hedge after it gets into the cocaine or whatever, because I suppose this is interpreted as being fun and high energy.

So It seems that being high energy and juvenile and dramatic actually works in guys favor - mostly at clubs and parties but even daytime social events from my experience.

So how do you respond to girls who are loud and dramatic and high energy if that's not your character?

Where do you draw the line between being boring versus being constantly calm and low-reactive ?