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How to be more direct and less ‘friendly’?

150420throwaway · 2022-02-17T01:25:15+00:00

Met up few days ago and I realised this mistake, any advice? I'm ‘anxious' of making things awkward as it's a mutual friend and I just...

150420throwaway

February 17, 2022

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Title	How to be more direct and less ‘friendly’?
Author	150420throwaway
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	February 17, 2022 1:25 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/suc6ao/how_to_be_more_direct_and_less_friendly/
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Build rapport, show intent, and escalate. I dont use push/pull, I just find it manipulative and unneeded.

You have to set the tone for the relationship and push it in the direction you want.

Just be honest with her, but make sure you have some rapport first. And escalate slowly from there

Take her out. Make it clear it's a date. Ask for a kiss. See where it goes. Keep escalating, keep showing your intentions.

The most important thing is to build the rapport first tho. Show her you're fun and sexy. Make her want to have more fun with you. Make her want you around more. Make her want to get to know you better and see more of you

The worst things you can do are to be boring, or to be bland, to be in the background. You do not want her to stop paying attention to you. You want to be escalating or building anticipation for your next date.

That's one reason I think movie and dinner dates are lame. They take focus off of you.

Similarly; if shes in your friend group you're gonna have issues unless youre the leader of the group. Dont hang out with her on a very casual/friendly way. Make it a date or skip it