I always start out well talking to women whether it be a harmless dance at a bar or a tinder match that wants something serious. It seems like everytime they lose interest when I try to ask them out or make the next move… I know I’m the problem because it consistently happens so what can I do to improve? Am I asking them out too early? Meeting them at the wrong places? Too boring? Her hobby? I need to know what to do to move things forwards after first meeting a woman

PS. Im not clingy or one of those guys that claim to be a “nice guy” so a little guidance would help me out